Attractiveness and how we and other view ourselves

Chelsea Bridge

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You sound like you might be shy or naive. Either that or you breaking nikkas hearts left and right. If that's you in the avi I would
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Yep very shy and somewhat naive. I used to be surprised when any guy hit on me. This is what happens when you've been called ugly on more than one occasion :mjcry: children and teenagers are evil.


That's not me. I found her pic on another website.
 

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:deadmanny: should have ethered that bytch like Nas did Jay, that bytch was rude as fukk

breh, she was with her friends. my heart was broken and i didn't have a comeback because my of feelings. the laughs breh... :mjcry:

different girls called me ugly before. breh there is no place for an ugly brother to shine in america. :manny:

i'm still living my life though.
 

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So how did you come to the conclusion everything is in the face tho? If you changed your body?
are you trolling? your face gets better as you lose weight. i didn't become swole or ripped my body was average. however i lost tons of fat on my face which opend up my cheeck bones, and my amazing jaw line. also my skin became less oily and my skin pigmentation evened out and became more clear.
I share a similar experience, went from chubby and short to a skinny 6 foot cat. I've put on weight since but I'm certainly not fat, no muscle either tho. Need to get back on it. It's amazing the difference. Being chubby almost makes you invisible. It's prolly also why i treat women the way I do :manny:
good shyt mane. wish i could rep ya. always good to hear weight loss stories and how they effect people. Same, i actually used to treat women like pure trash when i first lost my weight. the sudden change in how they treated me caused me to have a great disdain for them. however iv'e come to a realization. why would i get mad at a woman for not wanting me when i was fat? I was a fat sack of shyt and filth. Why would or should they choose me over a more in shape healthier male? yea i was funny and kind... so what? they could find a funny, kind in shape better looking man. it's only natural to want the best you can. the only part i still hold on to is how they go about it. ya don't have to make a person feel like nothing and shun them like they have lupus or something.
 

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I share a similar experience, went from chubby and short to a skinny 6 foot cat. I've put on weight since but I'm certainly not fat, no muscle either tho. Need to get back on it. It's amazing the difference. Being chubby almost makes you invisible. It's prolly also why i treat women the way I do :manny:
but wouldn't that make you treat women nicer?
 

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Humans are bias, but especially so concerning themselves as far as being attractive goes. They usually are unrealistic.
It's particularly why so many folks will never be happy when it comes to dating because they're ignorant to how little they actually bring to the table physically and otherwise.
You're not entitled to a top notch mate. You're actually not even entitled to a mate, period.
That's a harsh reality a lot of people will never accept.
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With me it's always "Why'd she look at me like that? Was I just in her line of view? Was it because I looked over there? Was she even looking at me? etc...."
 

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I'm inclined to think I feel I'm less attractive than what people think. I've had some pretty attractive guys hit on me and the first thought that pops in my head is "why is he talking to me?". I always think they could do better so I never give them a chance.

So maybe they're seeing something I'm not :yeshrug:

because you have a vagina

:kony:

but nah you should never sell yourself low, ive had ugly hideous girls think im ugly, and ive had models think im the best thng since bread you NEVER know.

your good enough for anyone
 

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With me it's always "Why'd she look at me like that? Was I just in her line of view? Was it because I looked over there? Was she even looking at me? etc...."

shyt I never got that look like "oh she checking me out" I get those "ehh nvm" glances :mjlol: You know it's the ehh nvm glance by the time frame of the glance because she almost snap her neck trying to turn back into place.
 

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I'm inclined to think I feel I'm less attractive than what people think. I've had some pretty attractive guys hit on me and the first thought that pops in my head is "why is he talking to me?". I always think they could do better so I never give them a chance.

So maybe they're seeing something I'm not :yeshrug:
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