Attractiveness and how we and other view ourselves

[ben anderson]

That wasn't the question though. This was.lol

not at all. just wanted you to tell the truth

 

[Music Fiend]

are you trolling? your face gets better as you lose weight. i didn't become swole or ripped my body was average. however i lost tons of fat on my face which opend up my cheeck bones, and my amazing jaw line. .

Face isn't everything. But I do agree you are more attractive with a more aesthetic face. Round faces are relatively viewed as unattractive.

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Je ne mens pas, voila comment je me sens vraiment

vous ne devriez pas sentir de cette façon ma reine . quand u sourire it brigtens ma journée . ne doutez pas de vous-même. tu es belle.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Oh really? Well this is a surprise.

I'm full of em.

Don't get the big head tho. That's the last compliment you're getting for at least the next six months.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I'm full of em.

Don't get the big head tho. That's the last compliment you're getting for at least the next six months.

Lol and I will cherish it greatly

 

[Nymbus]

How did this turn into a height thread?

I have no idea fam but I'm 6'4'' so you tell me

 

[street heat]

Same
I be like "what the hell does he want with me?"
Then I be like " I am attractive"
But most of the time it's "yep, I'm gross"
Like I know I'm not ugly but I still feel ugly

yea but for women its different. if a guy is hitting on you, it does not always mean he thinks you're attractive. more like you're an easy target.
he would like to get his dikk wet without jumping through hoops. also he may find you less intimidating because of your average looks.

 

[Scott Larock]

I think it attractive but I don't dress like it. I need money

 

[miranda]

I was told that I was unattractive by family for years and years, but I think I'm average.
Its really hard to judge because men that seem way more attractive will approach homely women because they view you as "low hanging fruit".

 

[Retired Account]

There is no benefit to call yourself ugly since beauty is so subjective

 

[raw613]

It varies based on the persons perception of themselves, I feel like the average person that is neither insecure or arrogant realizes that people have types, you can not do it for one person and be exactly what another one is looking for

 

[Music Fiend]

It varies based on the persons perception of themselves, I feel like the average person that is neither insecure or arrogant realizes that people have types, you can not do it for one person and be exactly what another one is looking for

Eh. I believe in types but they really only hover in average land. A hot person is a hot person. Some are undoubtedly everyone's type.

I guess that's the true definition of a 9 or 10.

But I'd make the argument that at least half of our generation has self esteem issues.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I'm not attractive but i could care less money will always love me

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Never tripped bout my appearance.. my problem has always been lookin like a young ass nikka

What's wrong with that? I get a mixture of looking young or old

 

[Trapperman Dave]

are you trolling? your face gets better as you lose weight. i didn't become swole or ripped my body was average. however i lost tons of fat on my face which opend up my cheeck bones, and my amazing jaw line. also my skin became less oily and my skin pigmentation evened out and became more clear.

good shyt mane. wish i could rep ya. always good to hear weight loss stories and how they effect people. Same, i actually used to treat women like pure trash when i first lost my weight. the sudden change in how they treated me caused me to have a great disdain for them. however iv'e come to a realization. why would i get mad at a woman for not wanting me when i was fat? I was a fat sack of shyt and filth. Why would or should they choose me over a more in shape healthier male? yea i was funny and kind... so what? they could find a funny, kind in shape better looking man. it's only natural to want the best you can. the only part i still hold on to is how they go about it. ya don't have to make a person feel like nothing and shun them like they have lupus or something.

You realized that too huh? I can't be mad at women for having their preference we all do.