Attractiveness and how we and other view ourselves

[Trapperman Dave]

Same
I be like "what the hell does he want with me?"
Then I be like " I am attractive"
But most of the time it's "yep, I'm gross"
Like I know I'm not ugly but I still feel ugly

I can love you for you are

 

[Music Fiend]

You realized that too huh? I can't be mad at women for having their preference we all do.

Yup same with breakups when u get left. Can't be mad if you were the best version of yourself.

 

[TheArchitect]

shyt I never got that look like "oh she checking me out" I get those "ehh nvm" glances You know it's the ehh nvm glance by the time frame of the glance because she almost snap her neck trying to turn back into place.

Damn, I don't really get all that. Sometimes they may glance back again or try and hurry up and turn their eyes away....

 

[Freedman]

shyt is subjective with absolutely no science too it. The same you that one female thinks is butt ugly is an Adonis to another female

 

[STFARN]

I've had like one girl call me ugly in person

I'm sure plenty of fat/ugly girls think I'm unattractive though
I wonder why
Got a lot of these ugly and poor people hating when you on top
25 sittin on 25 mill
Team No Lackin boy

 

[BujuBoombastic]

I can love you for you are

Breh, she's off limits.

Fine another lady to simp on. She's special to mi.

She's one of a kind. Women of women.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Sure, I WANT to.

But women see it as weakness.

I advocate being firm and reasonable. Most women are unreasonable

I so what you wrote b4 you're edit, I was just too busy to respond. But I can see where she is coming from. You knew what she was about b4 you entered into a relationship with her but you're pride got in the way thinking you can change her. You were the one that was being unreasonable. Should've found another girl on the same wavelength.

yea but for women its different. if a guy is hitting on you, it does not always mean he thinks you're attractive. more like you're an easy target.
he would like to get his dikk wet without jumping through hoops. also he may find you less intimidating because of your average looks.

Generally speaking, I would agree with you but from personal experience idk.
I'll pm you.

I can love you for you are

I've already been claimed. sorry

 

[MAGNETO.]

I follow the proximity rule. If your in my space often and arent that aquainted with me then you like me or have some interest on some level. Unless it's a group thing.

Hell I do it, women I don't find attractive I won't be in their space often or for long. Unless they are just cool people and we have rapport.

This rule is a good gauge.
Dapped.

 

[Prynce]

Never tripped bout my appearance.. my problem has always been lookin like a young ass nikka

Me too

 

[Prynce]

Ever try to talk to a girl and she makes the face and walks off with out a word

That ether

The life of a ugly man

I'm about to commit that

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm actually attractive as hell,but I am usually mad unapproachable because I spend a ton of time in my own head with the face.

I thought I was an ugly dude back when nobody wanted to fukk with me as a young'n without heaps of effort, but when you graduate high school
and find out there was more than a handful of girls that would have fukked (with) me had I said something to them or they weren't under social pressures...
that stuff stings.

Life sense then has been me walking into spots usually wearing headphones and in my peripheral watching women stare and size me up. Even better
when it is a group. If it isn't for my face or muscles, they are staring at my ass I ain't mad though, it means when I am ready, I am going to EAAAAAAAAAAT

 

[Sccit]

WHEN U TAKE SHROOMS, U REALIZE THAT THE PHRASE "YOU ARE WHAT U THINK" IS LITERAL

 

[Archimedes]

Forensic artist draws how women see themselves vs. how others see them.

 

[Kobe24]

I've been wondering. In your opinion, are we more attractive than we think we are to others or less attractive than we think we are to others?


I can see both sides.

More attractive because you see your flaws and things you don't like, and also look at yourself the most and we're often our own worse critics.

Less attractive because some of us kind of have a way I think I look set in stone in my head. Body changes over time or again can be not in a good way. (Let's not use the arguement of IG and social media cuz even then a lot of those females really think they ugly but put up a facade to appear more confident with pics to get attention)

If you are low IQ and prone to DELUSIONS, most likely you will think you are 2-3+ points more attractive than you really are. If you are high IQ and Reasonable you probably are 1-2 points below what you think you are. I know individuals with completely look ruining defects and they still think they are 8-9s. Most stupid people are delusional about who they are. You know in Poundcake where drake says "You know it's real when you are who you think you are" hes talking about these kinds of people. How many nikkas do you know on complete brokemode that think they are EL CHAPO running shyt? shyt just about every other nikka in the hood thinks they are the new 50 cent when in reality there is only 1-3 real nikkas amongst 100 nikkas who Think they are real.. Most of the uglies that pretend they are good looking deep down know it is just a farce and will get extremely defensive against anyone who brings them back to reality. Denial is the coping mechanism for the mentally weak.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I so what you wrote b4 you're edit, I was just too busy to respond. But I can see where she is coming from. You knew what she was about b4 you entered into a relationship with her but you're pride got in the way thinking you can change her. You were the one that was being unreasonable. Should've found another girl on the same wavelength.


Generally speaking, I would agree with you but from personal experience idk.
I'll pm you.



I've already been claimed. sorry

But bae.......