Attractiveness and how we and other view ourselves

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EightBall said:
Beauty is subjective, breh.
Just because a few people think your unattractive doesn't mean you're unattractive to the whole world.

Everybody has their own tastes and standards of beauty. What matters is how you view yourself.
If you look in the mirror and find things you like about your face then subconsciously you will think that you're attractive regardless of what someone says. Finding yourself attractive also boosts your self esteem which also helps when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex.
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Having that "aura" is extremely important.

Have to be on a hundred trillion yet still humble.

Fine line to walk.
 
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ben anderson said:
well like i always say. i wasn't a loser per say when i was fat, because i was a class clown. And the only reason i was funny/ acted like a fool was because i knew i was fat and ugly, and there would obviously be no way to get women. i wasn't a virgin, but i wasn't hitting anything "quality" i guess is the word before. the difference between being fat and in shape is like night an day. everyone treats you better. you yourself might be oblivious to it but you treat good looking people way better than you do fat/ugly people. and you might even realize that someone is attractive and intentionally try to treat them as you would someone unattractive because you don't want to come off as that kind of person, when in reality everyone is. i Can't sya i enjoyed being fat because i didn't it caused me a lot of pain and bad memories, however it did make it into the person i am today. it opened my eyes like a person on molly, to the way peple treat others in this world and i will not forget it. no matter how many peple tell you to get over it or " grow up" it will never go away. call it bitter or jaded:yeshrug: i could careless.
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This shyt is real. I was a little fat c*nt in high school, not obese but definitely very overweight lol, and then I lost like 65 lbs. around age 20-21. You're completely right about the way people treat you. I remember times where my previously fat ass would be at school or work like...

Someone walks by

Me: "Hi how's it going" :jawalrus:

Get no response, or some half-ass ".... hi..." in a low tone.

4 seconds later someone else says hi to the same person, they're like :krs: "HI!!!! How are you doing!? Good! Me too! OK have a good day!"

Me watching this happen: :dahell:

Then when I lost the weight, I lost my hair with it. :banderas:The cycle continues (nah I'm only half-serious, I'm balding but since losing weight I get way more respect off first glance.... way more)
 
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Not sure what to think, I get looks and some attention, but feel that I have issues sealing the deal. I used to think I was attractive. Probably just a normal/slightly uglier than avg dude.
Edit: All my mom's coworkers and even her boss' husband said I was goodlooking/handsome but how am I supposed to believe that?:pachaha:
 
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Real talk hoes always tell me i have an attractive face, but at 5'7 I'm the size of their 13 year old brother. Too bad it's a crime to flash my dikk, cuz hoes ALWAYS comment on how big it is.
 
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wingzboy said:
Real talk hoes always tell me i have an attractive face, but at 5'7 I'm the size of their 13 year old brother. Too bad it's a crime to flash my dikk, cuz hoes ALWAYS comment on how big it is.
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Its not a crime if its jus u or me :shaq:
 
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BlackPanther said:
yep, i'm ugly af. some girl even had the nerves to tell me I looked like an ugly version of Nas except my beauty mark is on the left side of my face instead of the right. :deadmanny::to:

#Uglyteamstunnin :mjcry:

i don't even look like Nas.
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At least u look like the ugly version of a pretty nikka :wow:

I look like a uglier version of Michael Blackson :mjcry:
 
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