Austin Dunham "White men have it easier in dating"

[BlackJesus]

Or you could just not want to be married. It’s neutral and your projecting your own beliefs as it being a sign being anti social, lacking maturity and fulfilling lives. Your taking your subjective views and saying that objectively proves something.

Actually it’s been pretty objectively demonstrated people are happier in relationships. And you can’t tell me women wouldn’t want a single guy who’s both socially competent and mature. These men generally aren’t single.

Let me guess, you’re single too?

 

[Lonj]

This is why I hate shyt like the OP, because even if it's true on some level, A it's overstated as there are several factors that go into your dateability not just your race and B certain brehs start using it to validate their lack of success and start sounding like dry dikk cacs. You should get your money up, your fitness, your social skills etc. whatever you need to do, before you even think to worry about this dating disparity between cacs and black men. It's too many women and too many options to be worrying about bullshyt scenarios like the white equivalent of you getting more hoes. Most dudes regardless of race ain't even trying anyway out here, especially amongst the younger generation, shyt has never been easier.

 

[Wargames]

Actually it’s been pretty objectively demonstrated people are happier in relationships. And you can’t tell me women wouldn’t want a single guy who’s both socially competent and mature. These men generally aren’t single.

Let me guess, you’re single too?

No, see that like all things are relative. Harvard did a 80 year study of men and happiness and being married or dating a woman didn’t make the list. Just being social and having relationships with people was all that was needed. Incels are miserable because they are lonely in general, not because they don’t have a woman.

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also I see you trying to shame me for being single and it’s pathetic. As a man, I’ve had a girlfriends, side chicks, one night stands, and friends with benefits. They’ve all been either been helpers and distractions. I wouldn’t get married until I wanted to raise kids, and I don’t have the urge to put myself through that yet.

Like I said earlier this thread is a “p*ssy on the pedestal” thread. A Women’s value to a man’s life is subjective.

 

[Phitz]

he looks ALOT like Russel Wilson, like they're related

 

[Boxchevy]

He isn’t wrong.

Racism and that “white makes right” mentality is everywhere. People point that all the time, why does it not apply to dating? I’d go so far as to say we have it harder than most races.

I don’t like to use the word entitlement because it’s basically a buzzword at this point, but the only reason why there are so many white incels is because they literally are entitled and expect dimes to fall from the sky and/or have given up

Go on Reddit, tiktok, whatever social media you see and you’ll find young black men complaining about dating or dating apps or asking for advice, and it’s all usually barebones shyt.

And I keep reading ITT that it’s only hardmode when you’re just seeking white women, but even that isn’t even true. Latinas, Asian women (Tyrell Shaw literally committed suicide over Asian wome), even black women depending on the type you’re looking for and what you are.

And the white men these women are dating, even the other races of men, don’t have to put themselves through the wringer the way black men do.

Black men dont have to put themselves through the wringer. I have said it before on here, but black men boxed themselves in with their own image and self promotion. Now that society and women see them through that lens black men wanna cry foul. Thid is the result of not collectively being on code and every man being out for himself.

 

[Givethanks]

White people have the powerhouse known as the mitochondria Hollywood backing them up.

If you live around them, you'll know how beat they truely are man.

It's funny when white girls walk by me and they assume I'm checking them out but I'm just in disbelief in how flat they're asses are. It's like looking at someone with 2 heads. You look because you shocked

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Black men dont have to put themselves through the wringer. I have said it before on here, but black men boxed themselves in with their own image and self promotion. Now that society and women see them through that lens black men wanna cry foul. Thid is the result of not collectively being on code and every man being out for himself.

Women refuse to pay attention to the black men that try to deviate outside of that box.

 

[Ahadi]

Women refuse to pay attention to the black men that try to deviate outside of that box.

Because you’re image is entertainment. If you want prime black women, yes you MAY have to switch it up depending on your environment.

You can deviate, but it will be harder for you in 2023 (this is a millennial perspective / 30)

Deviate too much, and you’ll look like clean up / safe man / resource guy

 

[FukkaPaidEmail]

one minute y’all say black,Asian and Mexican females prefer white men

Then the next minute y’all call this man a c00n for saying the same shyt
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I don’t understand y’all or this redpill shyt at all . Let’s make it simple if you’re a normal ass person making 45k+ or more you can get p*ssy . It’s easier than ever .

 

[Houston911]

No homo but this dude is not ugly.
He can pull good looking women of all races.
This video would be more believable if a ugly gang guy made this video

He didn’t say he was struggling. He said that he won’t eat the same with white women as a white dude who is similarly good looking to him.

He even said he gets the “I don’t usually date black men, but you’re different” from white women

 

[Houston911]

Women refuse to pay attention to the black men that try to deviate outside of that box.

What does this even mean?

Are you referring to the most sought after women, or just women in general?

 

[Neuromancer]

What does this even mean?

Are you referring to the most sought after women, or just women in general?

Very good question. I have a story that refutes this claim but I want to see how he defines this before I refute it.

 

[Mordith]

With all of the CACs posting here I knew this thread was going to do numbers...

 

[CoolinInTheCut]

This red pill blue pill rainbow pill shyt was always mad corny but what he's saying is facts, and it's weird how some people are being abrasive and defensive with this topic. And it's got nothing to do with confidence, this is just the reality of decades of white supremacy ingrained in society.

White dudes can have dirty shoes, messy hair, bad skin, be borderline alcoholic and still be a potential prospect for most women. You know this if you take care of yourself and are in the dating game. Women are also way more submissive and respectful with white men.

This shyt doesn't just apply to dating either. If you work in a corporate environment, you know that you need to be clean cut and on point at all times. Meanwhile white dudes can be unprofessional and openly discuss how drunk they got the previous weekend while picking their nose without anyone judging.

 

[SNG]

Exactly. And tbh the brehs who can get high volume casual sex will often stay single because of it. Many men enter relationships primarily for consistent sex and this is why folks subconsciously conflate the 2.

It depends on the guy. Casual sex ain’t always it. Especially now everyone is having sex with everybody women and men, women and women, men and men so you’re prone catch an std. I remember I was messing with one chick and she called letting me know she caught an std and I was mad as shyt. But what can you do when it’s open season. Sometimes there’s peace of mind in not catching anything also I hate wearing condoms and if I’m in a serious relationship it feels much better going raw. Back in my casual days a nikka had to strap up.