Men over 25 with rudimentary dating experience and above-average discernment know this.
But, see, the problem is that most women on social media adopt this as a front to weed out men they don't want approaching them.
But you gotta realize they want the idea of a man they have not met, so they hold out and waste time chasing ideas of men who, in reality, would not be interested in them. Then, you gotta see it that they wanted a fantasy man who would probably have had to lower his standards to be with her.
And if that is what it is, then shorty has some deep-seated insecurities about herself that have affected her ability to be compatible with men.
Women who are perpetually single, always working, and claim they too good are overcompensating.
They don't want bums, but they don't understand men making 75K to 90K are just as rare as the ones they want making six figures.
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Neither black women nor black men crack 75K on average according to a four-year-old chart.
So... then, you gotta ask the question of how much shorty is making per year doing what she is doing to get where she is trying to go. I think the rise in the cost of living and, specifically, the cost of apartment housing and the real estate market in general has frustrated a lot of women who can't traditionally cohabitate with men they would otherwise find suitable as partners. Social media is another piece of the puzzle, but y'all know that.
So, I think you got a surplus of women who are frustrated because they want to cohabitate but the means of cohabitating are hard because of the cost of living and availability to do so. A big problem of this is that since healthy numbers of people are priced out of the housing market, they not taking relationships seriously and the ones that are know they have options.
So... shorty don't wanna go half payin' rent in a relationship 'cause she think there's something better. Meanwhile, men who can afford to live on their own recognize this and use it to their advantage to court multiple women. Multiple women get burned in dating 'cause they chasin' men who have more options due to more means and this is the result.
I'd like to move in with a shorty I'm committed to, but I'm still in school, paying for school, and out of the dating scene. But if I met a shorty that I was compatible with while I get my bread together and we were serious about moving in... if that was the case for most people, I don't think women like the one in OP would be as
emotionally bitter and scorned beyond repair as they are.
They want relationships and they know money is part of that, they just don't understand why chasing money is keeping them from connecting with somebody. It's more for sure, but I think the cohabitation angle has not been explored as much. My two cents. Carry on.