Bae Is Becoming Cheap. Help A Bruhette Out?

[Mook]

and I would buy the snacks. (I like a lot of snacks, and I know they can be expensive)

so you want nikkas to tell you how to extort more money from this man?

shes also fat

 

[FTBS]

"Give an inch and he'll take a mile" implies that you are somehow being taken advantage of or mistreated. Since when is paying for your own stuff qualify as mistreatment? Now if you are on that old school shyt in terms of submissiveness, sexual double standards etc. then it's one thing and you should indeed address it with him. But if you are one of these "we are equals and my past doesn't matter" type females then you and you need to stop crying about getting what you claim you want.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

i'm utterly disgusted....

Why? He felt bad, and agreed he hasn't done anything nice for me lately.

It wasn't too expensive. We ordered it online.

It will arrive in a week.

 

[NobodyReally]

Just tell him you resent always having to pay for things. Remind him that in the beginning y'all used to take turns and that you'd like to go back to that. If he gets mad, then he's an a$$hole.

 

[Medicate]

This bytch is a troll.....

 

[LastEmperor2k2]

Seems like a dummy account from the OP.

Some shyt just to get the crowd riled up around here, so transparent.

Many will fall for this, some will simp for this. Exposal will come of this

 

[scarlxrd]

nikka...what?

This fairy tale land yall females enjoy living in hilarious to me. "I don't want to always have to"...so he should be paying for the majority of the time yall go out.....WHY? Are yall not in a relationship, aren't yall partners? so why should you be exempt from doing your part? You contributing shouldn't be a "gesture" or a "suprise" to him, you;re both adults in a relationship....where you both have to do your part to make it work...get this "the men should provide, wine and dine me" bullshyt mentality out ya head....do your part.

I can understand if dude is becoming stingy with his bread and it worries you, but if he has been going half on dates and fell off that wagon..cool you have a point, but to say that you don't want to always have to do your part in the relationship is pure fukkery. You don't always have to put up money, there will be times where one of you will want to treat the other to a dinner or something, but if it ain't like that you should have no problem on splitting the check with him...that is your boyfriend, correct?

Now for the other issue...him starting to settle for you taking care of the check....just talk to him, its that simple, find out what is going on with him. It may not mean he is being cheap, maybe he is saving money or is having money issues, you don't need to run to the coli and belittle him by calling dude "cheap" if you don't understand the circumstance for him not spending money, that's corny. Also, you claim to not want someone to provide for you, but then you contradict that by saying he is not spending enough money on you...make up your mind.

stop slandering ya man to a bunch of anonymous people, log off and go talk to him...this shyt ain't rocket science

/thread

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I cook.

Hamburger Help-Me doesn't count. Level of proficiency, frequency and presentation are taken into account

 

[The Mad Titan]

"Bruhette"

 

[Mowgli]

Women keep score in relationships because they have to answer to their friends about giving less then they get from a man

Women keep score in relationships so when they breakup they don't feel like they did more fir the man then he did for her. Preparing themselves for failure.

 

[Mowgli]

"Bruhette"

help a tranny?

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

We all can agree that op is a hamhock built bytch?

 

[KangCraSS]

We all can agree that op is a hamhock built bytch?

MY nikka you just won with that comment g .

 

[Mook]

We all can agree that op is a hamhock built bytch?

 

[Calmye]

NO! It is not about extorting "more money" from a man.

It's about him appreciating my contributing and simply treating me better. financially, because he is GREAT to me other ways.

Just cheap.

you need a sugar daddy BabyGirl. You're not mature enough to be in a real relationship