Been with my girl for two years and she wants to live together
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Yall been together for two years already.
What are you waiting for?
What are you waiting for?
Black Rain
Honey Milk
Suck her dikk bruh..
Good luck!
King Biko
A King With A Concubine
Do it bruh. Its the only way you gone know if u really want her in your life forever. I learned so much about myself and my girl after of course after we did it. It was hard at first but now i feel like our bond is unbreakable.
GoldCoastSaint
Yall nikkas hate everything but Tariq Nasheed
You could do her like my man did me when I pressed the issue yrs ago.
He started talking about not wanting to just shack up because he knew i was the one and to give him a little time to get finances in order (he was already at 75k at that point) so he could have me living like Im supposed to. I was so impressed and happy then he told me yrs later he was just buying time lol.
Obviously this only works if she really is the one cause next she'll be hinting for the ring. But it gave my man about yr before moving in together.
He started talking about not wanting to just shack up because he knew i was the one and to give him a little time to get finances in order (he was already at 75k at that point) so he could have me living like Im supposed to. I was so impressed and happy then he told me yrs later he was just buying time lol.
Obviously this only works if she really is the one cause next she'll be hinting for the ring. But it gave my man about yr before moving in together.
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talked about getting an apartment yesterday
How does she carry herself with her living situation?
Is her place clean and tidy?
Her bills paid righteously on time?
Does she have habits that would conflict with yours if you were around her more?
Etc, etc..
Some folks just move into together sometimes impulsively without putting each other to a litmus test.
Dolla$
Minus the bullsh*t...life's great
my personal rule is I'll never do it until I put a ring on it. Lines tend to get blurred where you'll feel like a married couple when you're really not. I did it after only one year of dating so that's why my situation didn't work out
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
If after 2 yrs of dating u don't want to live with her than why the hell are Yall dating?
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
get a 2 bdr n split the bills down the middle n make sure ur name is on the lease, technically ull b roommates
I wouldn't live with a chick until it's marriage time, my girl comes over and spends the night often and vice versa, but a nicca still needs his space and days to himself.
Take it from me...U will learn more about a person and women period living with them.
But please don't make the mistakes I made. DO NOT BUY unless it's only ur name as owner. My name was only as owner but remember if it doesn't work out...it's a process getting her out. My ex fiance lied and said I beat her up and she stole a lot of the shyt out the house because she filed a protective order against me. It was because I called off the engagement because she used me for over a year, quit her job and lied saying she will pay 30-40% of cost but didn't help me with anything except one lil bill. She fuked up my credit and now I'm paying for it. I have to sell home and go back to parents crib to live for a year to rebuild credit and finances. I was vulnerable, inexperienced and she took my weak points and ran with it. She hated my mom and talked about me, my mom and dad to everyone in my family and caused more turmoil. My family already feels some type of way about my parents and she knew this and caused more drama. She was ungrateful, inconsiderate and disrespectful and she never loved me.
She didn't want to stay in a starter home or apartment and was very spoiled. I had to get a big home and she didn't tell me before buying home that she wanted me to pay for everything and that her family believes a man should pay for everything. I have no qualms being a provider but I believe we have to stay within our means and have money left for unplanned circumstances. She didn't care about that.
Just advising u to make sure u can be comfortable with paying for everything on your own even if she says she will help. I don't want nobody else to mess up like me. My health was also a concern and I didn't have enough money to extract a tooth and get an implant because of an abscess from a bad root canal done years back. I really wanted to die after all she put me thru. Please make sure u able to pay for everything on ur own, put lease in ur name and be cognizant that if she gets crazy and y'all not work out...that evicting her is a process and can take months depending on where u stay. U just can't put her out especially if she not willing to leave.
But please don't make the mistakes I made. DO NOT BUY unless it's only ur name as owner. My name was only as owner but remember if it doesn't work out...it's a process getting her out. My ex fiance lied and said I beat her up and she stole a lot of the shyt out the house because she filed a protective order against me. It was because I called off the engagement because she used me for over a year, quit her job and lied saying she will pay 30-40% of cost but didn't help me with anything except one lil bill. She fuked up my credit and now I'm paying for it. I have to sell home and go back to parents crib to live for a year to rebuild credit and finances. I was vulnerable, inexperienced and she took my weak points and ran with it. She hated my mom and talked about me, my mom and dad to everyone in my family and caused more turmoil. My family already feels some type of way about my parents and she knew this and caused more drama. She was ungrateful, inconsiderate and disrespectful and she never loved me.
She didn't want to stay in a starter home or apartment and was very spoiled. I had to get a big home and she didn't tell me before buying home that she wanted me to pay for everything and that her family believes a man should pay for everything. I have no qualms being a provider but I believe we have to stay within our means and have money left for unplanned circumstances. She didn't care about that.
Just advising u to make sure u can be comfortable with paying for everything on your own even if she says she will help. I don't want nobody else to mess up like me. My health was also a concern and I didn't have enough money to extract a tooth and get an implant because of an abscess from a bad root canal done years back. I really wanted to die after all she put me thru. Please make sure u able to pay for everything on ur own, put lease in ur name and be cognizant that if she gets crazy and y'all not work out...that evicting her is a process and can take months depending on where u stay. U just can't put her out especially if she not willing to leave.