Been with Shorty three years. This weekend she moving in. Gimme some do's and don'ts...

[O.T.I.S.]

Pretty much everything most people said in this thread...

Personal space is key

Compromising is key

Cleaning up after oneself and having a designated day for cleaning is key

Understanding is most important. She should also respect you, your hobbies, your space, etc.

Today I just cussed my girl out because of something as small as her setting alarms and not turning them off or even waking up. shyt is dumb af to me, especially because I work nights.

so when I get home and get in the bed, or if I’m sleep on my day off, I have to continually wake up to either get her up to turn her shyt off or turn it off myself.

I cussed her out but im going to have a serious tak to her today about it because its stupid af and lowkey disrespectful. I’m not supposed to be up at 5am to cut your shyt off. And if you’re not going to get up then don’t set the fukking alarm.

Like i got class later this morning so I sleep in so I won’t be tired for my exam. If she doesn’t understand that then we will be sleeping in separate rooms and eventually in separate homes.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Good luck and hopefully everyone remains happy.

 

[Panther]

I hope you have a decent sized spot. My girl moved in and it was cool cause I have a townhouse. Couldn't have started out in like a 1 bedroom tho, I need my space

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

How can you be sure you want to marry someone if you haven't lived with them

If you need to do that to know if you want to marry someone you can stay at each other's place here and there.

 

[killacal]

Get some Poo-Pourr. Ain’t nothing worse than getting your dreams crushed smelling the bathroom post shyt from the women you love. It’s an asseaters worse nightmare

If regular human function is the worse nightmare maybe stop sticking your tongue in there

 

[skylove4]

If regular human function is the worse nightmare maybe stop sticking your tongue in there

When the vagina bleeds my tongue doesn’t go there until it stops . Same concept with the ass

 

[killacal]

When the vagina bleeds my tongue doesn’t go there until it stops . Same concept with the ass

Except....... it's that time of the month everyday with shytting

shyt eater with shytty logic

 

[Weaver31]

I'm not as doomsayer as most in this thread. They've been together for 3 years so hopefully they know each others ins and out. Just clear out any financial expectations (is she splitting rent? Bills?) and go for it. If it fails just kick her out.

U can't just kick someone out if they been there a certain time frame...even if u own or rent the property. U gotta look at the legal aspects of this shyt. She could get mad at u and lie and say u hit her and have it where u can't even go in ur own house.

 

[skylove4]

Except....... it's that time of the month everyday with shytting

shyt eater with shytty logic

Date dirty butt stinky women

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

If you need to do that to know if you want to marry someone you can stay at each other's place here and there.

It's not the same breh. And this still doesn't answer what the downsides of cohabitation before getting engaged are.

 

[killacal]

Date dirty butt stinky women

You sound like an 8 years old who doesn't get his internet watched by his parents

 

[J.E.T.S]

Stay out each other business!

both of you move freely as you would if you still lived separately.

dont get on each other nerves

Do not try to cheat while living together

Don’t count on her to pay any of your bills if she moves in with you.... even if it was agreed on prior.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Except....... it's that time of the month everyday with shytting

shyt eater with shytty logic

Some of the logic these cats be running with out here

 

[skylove4]

You sound like an 8 years old who doesn't get his internet watched by his parents

You sound like a lame ass virgin. If you had a chick I could take her From you

 

[RicanHavok]

Key things I learned are ya should be on the same page with cleanliness, finances and how ya handle disagreements. These 3 items hit different when you live in the same house.