Been with Shorty three years. This weekend she moving in. Gimme some do's and don'ts...

Kiyoshi-Dono

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
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That ain’t “high key love”..
But good luck..
 

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BREH. THAT WATER shyt IS THE WORST THING EVER.

I TOLD MY GIRL I WASN'T COMING BACK UPSTAIRS FOR AWHILE JUST SO I DIDN'T HAVE TO GET HER SOME WATER. :laff:
I LEGIT GOT IN THE CAR AND DROVE TO HOME DEPOT TO BROWSE THE POWER TOOLS SECTION. TIP TOE BACK IN THE CRIB AND MY PHONE GOES OFF. "BRING ME SOME WATER WHEN YOU COME TO BED. :dead:


:mjlol: She still got your ass

my girl waited for me in the garage holding a bag of trash one day when I pulled up from work talking bout “since you already out here can you put this in the garbage bin? I don’t have my shoes on.”

you been home all day but you waited til you heard the door going up? Lazy ass
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“oh yeah on your way back in could you stop by the mailbox too? I should have a package from Amazon. Thanks babe I love you.” :lolbron:


:gucci::martin::beli:
 

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OP..

You will be alright. You already made up your mind to move your lady in, so make the best of it and enjoy each other's company...

I do hope you and your lady decided about who pays for what along with house chores and other house rules?????

Lastly, once she establishes residency and y'all fall out, you can't just tell her to get out your spot. You gotta go the legal to get her out, but hopefully y'all are good enough with each other that it will not get to that level...

Good luck!!
 

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Pretty much everything most people said in this thread...

Personal space is key

Compromising is key

Cleaning up after oneself and having a designated day for cleaning is key

Understanding is most important. She should also respect you, your hobbies, your space, etc.

Today I just cussed my girl out because of something as small as her setting alarms and not turning them off or even waking up. shyt is dumb af to me, especially because I work nights.

so when I get home and get in the bed, or if I’m sleep on my day off, I have to continually wake up to either get her up to turn her shyt off or turn it off myself.

I cussed her out but im going to have a serious tak to her today about it because its stupid af and lowkey disrespectful. I’m not supposed to be up at 5am to cut your shyt off. And if you’re not going to get up then don’t set the fukking alarm.

Like i got class later this morning so I sleep in so I won’t be tired for my exam. If she doesn’t understand that then we will be sleeping in separate rooms and eventually in separate homes.
this shyt would have me heated bruh.

these women really test your patience. its low key akin to raising a child
 

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- I can’t speak freely anymore. I feel like every move I make is being watched. I’ve had to turn notification previews off on my phone bc of all a sudden I feel like my phone is always in eyesight and my conversations are in earshot. Not sure how I’m gona navigate that one.
- it be the little things that really matter. It’s almost like all the biggest moves are irrelevant if the small things aren’t done.

- finally. It’s almost as if EVERYTHING moves when I say it does. We be chilling watching TV, I’ll go and get a drink and she’ll say oh I’ll have one. Ten minutes later I’ll go and get an apple she says get me one. I’m like, bytch if I didn’t go to step up to get one would you have wanted it? Why did it take ME to get one for you to want one? Lol
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