I didn't read thru the thread just skimmed thru it. But to respond to the thread, yes being a good looking man is overrated. Being good looking to a women is everything, but for a man, its basically a waste. What makes a man is not really his appearance, but all the entanglements that comes with being a man man. i.e being paid, educated, masculine, being a provider, etc, etc. Yall know this already. Being good looking is cool and all, but its not the end all be all for a man. That's why you have ugly nikkas, short nikkas, and etc with bad shorties cause where they lack in one area they make up in another.
edit: To add to this shyt. Women don't even like manicured, prettyboy nikkas (such as myself

) they're more into that rugged, rough around the edges nikkas. You can get away with not being handsome and still pull your fair share of baddies if your shyt together