Being A Weekend Dad Is Depressing…

[SheWantTheD]

Loser mentality. I'd definitely fight tooth and nail for weekly custody

Watch the lead attorney.. someone with 20 years experience in family law.

He has said time and time again that men will spend tens of thousands of dollars and still not get even joint custody.

It’s a losing battle. The system is fukked

 

[SheWantTheD]

Exactly. This man knew his rights and exercised them. I love it

He’s one of the lucky ones. I’m not just talking out my ass. I’m repeating what a family law attorney of 20 years has said vehemently.

50/50 custody is damn near impossible to get unless the mother is completely unfit to be a parent, can’t for some reason or she agrees to 50/50 custody. Courts will always side with giving the mother majority custody.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

You doing that so we don't have to go through that

 

[Paper Boi]

this thread made me laugh more times than it should have...


good luck breh..

 

[MoveForward]

Hopefully things get better but the bolded is the problem. Weekend or everyday sounds like you don’t have the correct amount of authority/respect. Either that or you & mom ain’t moving as one. They should already know if one of y’all say something the other will back them

Have you always been in they life?

Day one father not one ultra sound, doctor, or dentist appointment EVER missed. For the ones saying I don’t spend quality time… That bs. What more quality can you get than going on vacation, putting him in sports and never missing a practice, playing video games, going in the back yard and throwing the football around, having dinner at the dining room table every night he’s here, going to therapy together etc.

I’m an exceptional father… shyts just not appreciated by anyone and you get tired of being humiliated, disrespected, talked down to, told you need to do more and all kinds of sh*t.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

He’s one of the lucky ones. I’m not just talking out my ass. I’m repeating what a family law attorney of 20 years has said vehemently.

50/50 custody is damn near impossible to get unless the mother is completely unfit to be a parent, can’t for some reason or she agrees to 50/50 custody. Courts will always side with giving the mother majority custody.

i feel like that is because the mother has always been with the child since even before birth. the goal of the court is to provide the most stability for a child. so if the dad hasn't been there everyday from the beginning, think about how that will effect the child to go from being with someone they barely see, to now they have to make effort to spend half the time with. if the child is school age, does traveling back and forth like that interfere with the school schedule? does one parent work more than the other so they actually don't have as much time to spend? it's not about what the parent wants lol. they should have thought about what they wanted before it came to this

 

[The God Poster]

Day one father not one ultra sound, doctor, or dentist appointment EVER missed.

Got it so yeah it sound like you & kids mom need to have lengthy talk. Y’all not moving as one

 

[ItsPeople]

If you are going to be a weekend pops be more constructive. Sit ya kids down teach them about investing,read with them,let them mow lawn rtc do the boring shyt.You playing PS5 and watching movies with them you sound like their big brother .Not saying you cant have fun,make a negative out of a positive. Kids gonna be calling you by their first name the way you going

Coming through the door…”yo Kevin wuhddup?!”

 

[MoveForward]

Got it so yeah it sound like you & kids mom need to have lengthy talk. Y’all not moving as one

We’re not but shorty hates me for no reason… She has punched me in the face, broke my belongings (including a set of Tiffany wine glasses and bone china dishes that my new chick bought me), and even spit in my face.

 

[Macallik86]

yeah you either gotta legit go to war with the BM legally until she or both of yall crack OR say F them Kids walk away and just pay your CS and start a new life.

All that in the middle stuff is just a slow death.

"fight for your kids" how that sound lmfao, them aint your damn kids in the rules of this society.

Wow.

As men, we can see how disgusting it is for a woman to not let her kids see their dad, but you over here threatening to leave the family to show the mom who's boss. This is one of the most bytchmade posts i've ever seen on this website which is saying a lot.

You're dumb enough to nut in an aint shyt bytch and now your kids have to suffer for the rest of their lives because you aint man enough to do your part. The only silver lining for a nikka like you going ghost is that the kids are probably better off without a piece of shyt like you in their lives.

 

[Wild self]

Reading this thread, makes me think that a lot of women are better off sterile and childless due to their selfishness and lack of respect for men. I said it: some women are better off dying along without biological offspring.

 

[The Radiant One]

Wow.

As men, we can see how disgusting it is for a woman to not let her kids see their dad, but you over here threatening to leave the family to show the mom who's boss. This is one of the most bytchmade posts i've ever seen on this website which is saying a lot.

You're dumb enough to nut in an aint shyt bytch and now your kids have to suffer for the rest of their lives because you aint man enough to do your part. The only silver lining for a nikka like you going ghost is that the kids are probably better off without a piece of shyt like you in their lives.

More reason he should leave lol trying to Shame stay there is no family they aren’t together it’s not like he could have an abortion.

You also think anyone really cares what a coli tough guys says? This man is doing his best but he is the piece of shyt?

Just endure it? Naw nikka then go be a step dad and raise them and put yourself on child support

Dumbasses like you support a woman who can abort and you think a man is a slave that must always endure disrespect. Get fukked faggit

 

[Cape Town JHB]

No one is talking about the demonic bytch that's doing this to you and what should be done about them

 

[Nokids]

We’re not but shorty hates me for no reason… She has punched me in the face, broke my belongings (including a set of Tiffany wine glasses and bone china dishes that my new chick bought me), and even spit in my face.

I remember when I was younger I used to fukk with this single mom and she would drop the kid off every weekend to get smashed etc and one time the father called needing help with something about the kid while she was suckin dikk the way she looked so damn evil while telling him to be a man and figure out the problem as soon as she got off the phone it was like she was a different person

I knew after that day I would never ever ever want to be in that predicament good luck homie and the fact she spit in ya face how the hell did that happen? Were y’all arguing? Did you just wipe it off?

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Thought this was one of my threads at 1st glance