Being A Weekend Dad Is Depressing…

[DreadBrown]

We’re not but shorty hates me for no reason… She has punched me in the face, broke my belongings (including a set of Tiffany wine glasses and bone china dishes that my new chick bought me), and even spit in my face.

Damn bro how it get to this?

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

We’re not but shorty hates me for no reason… She has punched me in the face, broke my belongings (including a set of Tiffany wine glasses and bone china dishes that my new chick bought me), and even spit in my face.

Everyone is the hero in their own story. How do we know you aren't actually a shytty person and that's why they treat you as such?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

How do we know you aren't actually a shytty person and that's why they treat you as such

Not saying this is the case with @MoveForward but the protagonist is always the innocent victim when it comes to explaining a divorce/break up.

 

[Max.]

Thats tough bro…u sound like my cuzn…what he didnt know is his ex baby mama was basically brain washing the kids…

So she would be like
“Ow he got those six flag tickets for free”
“I asked him to get u winter clothes and sidnt hear back”


What she was doing is making her kids hate the father by bad mouthing and creating lies…he didnt fond out until on of his kids slipped up and said mom says this and that

 

[Ashley Banks]

That last line might sound depressing as hell right now, but I come from a broken home and have 2 young kids that don’t know who they grandfather is at all. Because he played it wrong and is so selfish to the point he not in they lives at all. I know it’s rough. But as they get older they will appreciate it if you are a good father.how old are your kids?

This is what I came to say. I had a “weekend dad” when my parents divorced and I hate that I didn’t show how much I appreciated what he did for us when we were kids because he was only doing what he was allowed but he never missed a weekend, was never late, called us before bed but for some reason we couldn’t let go of the fact that we only saw him on the weekends. My mom wasn’t the type to talk bad about him but she got remarried and we sort of replaced him with my stepdad because he was there…everyday being an amazing dad to us as well.

Now as an adult I realize that it more than likely broke my dads heart being treated like that when he was always a good father and never failed in that department. Luckily I can make it up to him he’s literally at my house everyday and I tell him everyday what great dad he’s always been

 

[Max.]

you should start a sibling rivalry…treat one ya kidsbetter than the other…

Tell ur 15 year old What u want a happy meal ? Okay

Than tell the child No jamie ur gona eat a can of baked beans at home

 

[The Wolf Among You]

You can do everything right and still fail.

 

[Max.]

That ain’t true my man… No cap, she came back begging for some d*ck a year or so after we broke up. I got a big dikk and I run a 7 minute mile comfortably…

Damn so small meat gang was able to break a happy home

 

[Cat piss martini]

Just be there for your kids.
what you dont get in the wash
you will get in the rinse even with
a broads negative indoctrination.

*me in the car with the kids*

me: junior i heard you fukkin up in school.
daughter: he was gonna ask you for a ps5
me: that's people that get good grades or got jobs.
son:
daughter: so what are we getting mama for mothers day?
me: she got her mothers day gift already......ya'll
son: are we hitting mall.....I need to look at kicks.
daughter: mama always get us stuff.

*pulls up in front of they mama crib*

daughter: we picking up mama??
son: i'm just gonna stay here if i'm not getting nothing.
me: get the fukk out my whip.

 

[Boogie]

50/50 custody lol.. you think the courts will just give it to him huh?

It’s hard to get full custody but it’s not hard to increase time. But I don’t know OP situation so I can’t really speak on it…

 

[( )-___-)]

How about taking them to the park and talking to them

 

[Still Benefited]

Day one father not one ultra sound, doctor, or dentist appointment EVER missed. For the ones saying I don’t spend quality time… That bs. What more quality can you get than going on vacation, putting him in sports and never missing a practice, playing video games, going in the back yard and throwing the football around, having dinner at the dining room table every night he’s here, going to therapy together etc.

I’m an exceptional father… shyts just not appreciated by anyone and you get tired of being humiliated, disrespected, talked down to, told you need to do more and all kinds of sh*t.

Be patient,its not your time yet. Women should definitely have the children when they are young. They need the sensitivity and nurturing during that era. Your era will be their teenage/adult years. Your only job is to push them,give them the game. Make them sit down and come up with a life plan. So you can come up with a plan to help them get their. You will provide the structure.


You also have to realize you may just be the "boring parent". Doing things with them doesnt mean you have good chemistry. Yall may just not connect like that which is okay. Doesnt mean you wont be loved or appreciated. But family is frequency. So you have to understand even in the future your kids may only talk to you because they feel obligated.

Hell,plenty of parents have no real connection with their child. In terms of actually liking them as a person. But in the end you still have a job to do.

 

[Still Benefited]

We’re not but shorty hates me for no reason… She has punched me in the face, broke my belongings (including a set of Tiffany wine glasses and bone china dishes that my new chick bought me), and even spit in my face.

Love can show itself as hate,but thats neither here no there. But sadly you still dont understand #TheChildOfMan.


This is the number one problem with babys fathers in america. Once we stop getting the p*ssy,or get put on child support. We no longer think we need to manage the childs mother. No you are still in a relationship. You still need to somewhat treat her like your dating her. But this is hard for men to do. Many men dont know they should. Or dont know how without blurring the line.


This is what you will need to master. Understand many kids will measure you based on how you treat their mother or make her feel. She doesnt have to say a bad word about you at all. Kids can sense the lack of enthusiasm from her about you. And sense your coldness when you interact with her.



Youve been a good father to your child,bad father to your childs mother

 

[Rawtid]

Being responsible is a thankless job. All the shyt you’re doing for your children, is what’s necessary to be a parent. Just because some parents fall short, doesn’t mean you’re owed any more or less praise.

Your thanks will come from putting good people out into the world to thrive. It’s just how it goes.

 

[kaldurahm]

Being responsible is a thankless job. All the shyt you’re doing for your children, is what’s necessary to be a parent. Just because some parents fall short, doesn’t mean you’re owed any more or less praise.

Your thanks will come from putting good people out into the world to thrive. It’s just how it goes.

Word,bat the end of the day that's the ultimate goal. Make your children successful, productive and good people; a gift to the world.