Being childless past 40

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In a way I'm kinda sad how I let my parents down in that respect. My mother and father will never know what it's like to have a grandchild or even a daughter-in-law or see their son with a family of his own. They have to live every day knowing their line ends with me. I really wish they had another child who could have gave them those things but I'm not capable of it and I'm all they decided to have.

I know society looks down on me for my choices and that doesn't bother me but what does is that my parents never really got what they deserved. Not that I want to give it to them but they still should have got to experience it. Being a grandparent is one of life's great joys for the elderly and they were robbed of it.
you still have plenty of time.

my uncle didn’t have his first child until he was 55.

you can’t operate on a schedule set by others.

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Have a kid and make them raise it :lolbron:
This.

All due respect to mom and dad, but fukk that. The only reason to ever even consider having kids is because you want them and you ready for them.

Parents just wanna be grandparents so they can have the best of both worlds...kids that they can love on and then send home before they get annoying :russ:.
 

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good on you OP for breaking out of the matrix and not following your programming like the rest of these NPC's doing what nature wants.

sign of a good brain.
 

Ezekiel 25:17

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You'll be 58 by the time they're grown. I get jealous of those who had kids early 20s. Probably struggled, but they get to enjoy the rest of their life child free. 32 is cutting it close, and I'll be 36 this year. :francis:


Worst of yet, if you 40 and want a kid, you're a pedo for going less than a 33 yr old woman. So you stuck with single mothers.:to:

With that said, if you stay in shape, 58 is still relatively young. Kettlebell, Yoga, and Diet should have you set up nice.
 

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With how cost of living so expensive these days and only going up with each year, I see a lot of people skipping out on kids or waiting late into 30’s or even 40’s

It’s only going to get worse
 
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