Being childless past 40

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Im glad you have gained this awareness. Now its time to man up and do the right thing and go for what you want.


Im almost certain you want children. Becauase 99% of men who are normal do. Whats holding you back is fear,fear of uncertainty and probably overthinking. Im going to reccomend you look into your astrology and see whats preventing this for you.:respect:
 

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good on you OP for breaking out of the matrix and not following your programming like the rest of these NPC's doing what nature wants.

sign of a good brain.
OP is a porn addict and jacks off often as he has mentioned in the past, something many NPC's do. He still is following his programming and doing what nature wants.

You wouldn't have even existed if your parents followed what you said.
 

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I know people say that but in many respects I am a person that is rotten to the core and only really capable of living for myself. I can't be a father and a child doesn't deserve to have one that raises them out of a sense of obligation and not love. I would not love my child because they'd consume resources that could have gone to me.

I understand I'd have to be responsible for them and I'd see to their physical and financial needs but I could not provide the emotional support and love a child needs.

A lot of that is my parents fault. I'm sure if I had brothers or sisters my entire trajectory would have been different because I'd be forced to compromise better to get along with others.

I'm a 42 year old man that has never even changed a diaper in his life. I couldn't even tell you the last time I held a baby and I detest interacting with all children and go to great lengths to avoid doing so to the point I give simple one word answers when forced to do so. How could such a person be a father or love a child?



Donald Trump has children who love him,and some he loves,and even appears to love a little too much:scust:


Everything your saying sounds like overthinking and cope. Go seek fatherhood asap:respect:
 

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Damn. The way you laid that out was really sad.

I'm personally enjoying not having children. I never wanted that responsibility. But all of my brothers and sisters have families, so my parents know the joy of having grandchildren.
Me either. I'm good with just being an uncle

I love my nephews but I don't see how my brother and his wife do it. Kids got too much energy and all that crying get old fast :snoop:

Good thing about being unc is you can send em back home and it can stay that way :russ:
 

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