being introverted can be a gift and a curse.

[Roman Brady]

And you sound ignorant and keen on arguing.
I'm not interested in derailing the thread over a needless back & forth about something everyone sans you seems to grasp.
You got it, breh.

derail a thread about being introverted by talking about shyness?

 

[sfgiants]

i hate meeting friends of girls im dating... like one time a girl i was banging and i met up with one of her friends, man they wouldnt shut the fukk up. blabbering on and on about bullshyt that had nothing to do with me, so i just sat there n said nothing

when we left the bytch was like "wow ur quiet " im like bytch at what point in ur conversation about other bytches i dont know did u want me to chime in


the thing with introverts is (or at least in my opinion), if u dont talk about things that dont interest them, or find a way to include them in ur convo, then they're not gona say shyt. im definitely like that. if someone asks what i think about something then i'll say a bunch of shyt, otherwise im not really the type to interject
often gets confused with conceit or aloofness. fukk them tho.

 

[Danny Up]

Bit of a contradiction, you dont wannt to be noticed but then you ask why nobody talks to you? Anyways I aint one to talk, sometimes I have days when I dont want to be noticed and when it happens i'm like that was easy.Then other times i'm like wait why exactly are these ppl acting like I am invisible can they not see me?

You just said what I said

 

[Roman Brady]

You just said what I said

not really, I work in a face to face type of role I don't really need small talk from co-workers but if you can't even manage a hi that arouses my suspicion

 

[Danny Up]

not really, I work in a face to face type of role I don't really need small talk from co-workers but if you can't even manage a hi that arouses my suspicion

yes, really.

 

[Brandeezy]

Outside of 2 Uncles, my grandmother (who i live with), cousin, parents and sis no one else speaks to me. I don't even know why i go to family functions because they act like I don't exist. I remember going to my Uncle's Thanksgiving party and no one knew I was in the bathroom while they said the prayer so I just stayed upstairs until I got hungry. Hell even the family reunion last month, all my cousins around my age would chill and talk amongst themselves but I wasn't included even though I attempted to make small talk. They talked to my sister though

It's funny though, every time I go somewhere I'm always reminded to "talk to people" and "be social" but i'm like "yeah ok ". I could careless and idgaf. I don't even know why I have a FB, Instagram, Twitter etc. when no one talks to me on there. I just use those outlets to tell my mother what people from my school have been up to or just to see for myself how they're doing. Hell I have a total of like 6 likes on my Instagram and I have 20+ pics. Last time someone wrote on my Wall on FB was my cousin who took a pic of me at the family reunion which was almost 3 months ago

 

[Roman Brady]

yes, really.

like I said I am happy to stay invisible cuz I am just weird like that but if someone else who clearly adheres to the laws of socialising can't even manage to say hi that makes me curious . Clearly you can't comprehend the slight difference

 

[BossmanChad]

I'm also an introvert while I love going out with friends and socializing (especially outside, I can't stand being in someone else's house) , I can't do it everyday, it's like I need days to charge my batteries. Alchool and weed is a HUGE help to the biggest cases of introversion

 

[eufemism]

when i finally want to talk to someone i end up being really quiet and stuttering and it doesn't help i can't make interesting convo

it's weird tho. sometimes i kill it and have everyone laughing and then at school no one wants to talk to me cuz they think i'm boring
making friends is hard. especially when you commute in college

 

[Lo-Co]

i had said fukk facebook, twitter, and instagram. 90 % of my friends just forgot i existed completely. honestly my last status was "im off this shyt for good cause most of yall are phony to me. and suck my dikk" lol i went out guns a blazing. most didnt fukk with me anyway. i had bytches that talked shyt literally behind me in class. i remember this one girl saying, "i dont like him" within earshot. i was ready to curse her the fukk out cause she was so idiotic and sloppy. and wsa a piece of shyt to me most of the time. she was only nice when she needed money. i had daydreams like robert deniro in the family.

 

[MCMXCBIATCH]

LocoZeJok3r I can feel your pain but take it as an advantage we are more aware of our surroundings. But i can carry on a conversation if we have something in common Im just awkward when meeting new people. and to help me out i've taken up a public speaking class in college.

 

[ReggieFlare]

I have no issues socializing in the right environment with the right people....I just have periods where I need to be alone. When I have that feeling, I tend to become very quiet and observant. It's kind of annoying because even though I don't want to be bothered when I'm in that state, if it hits me during a social setting I actually stand out MORE because of it, then people want to ask me "why are you so quiet" or "are you okay?"....I'm just not in the mood to talk.

Not understanding this "small talk" issue some of you are going on about. Every conversation doesn't have to be about curing cancer. The only type of conversation I hate is when someone is talking AT me and not WITH me. Whenever that happens I usually just begin to ignore the other person until they get the hint.

 

[LA Fisher]

Outside of 2 Uncles, my grandmother (who i live with), cousin, parents and sis no one else speaks to me. I don't even know why i go to family functions because they act like I don't exist. I remember going to my Uncle's Thanksgiving party and no one knew I was in the bathroom while they said the prayer so I just stayed upstairs until I got hungry. Hell even the family reunion last month, all my cousins around my age would chill and talk amongst themselves but I wasn't included even though I attempted to make small talk. They talked to my sister though

It's funny though, every time I go somewhere I'm always reminded to "talk to people" and "be social" but i'm like "yeah ok ". I could careless and idgaf. I don't even know why I have a FB, Instagram, Twitter etc. when no one talks to me on there. I just use those outlets to tell my mother what people from my school have been up to or just to see for myself how they're doing. Hell I have a total of like 6 likes on my Instagram and I have 20+ pics. Last time someone wrote on my Wall on FB was my cousin who took a pic of me at the family reunion which was almost 3 months ago

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

bagging a bytch when you have no social circle is one hell of a task will a woman ever look past it and see the goodness in me?

 

[GilSho]

bagging a bytch when you have no social circle is one hell of a task will a woman ever look past it and see the goodness in me?

Nah, it's pretty easy. The thing is that it probably won't last at all due to obvious circumstances.

Superficial things will always attract women and she will stay a little longer if the dikk is good but they will eventually they all get bored and leave.