being introverted can be a gift and a curse.

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Honestly when folks start this shyt but be all up on the nets I can't but feel y'all cats insecure about yourselves and wish y'all could be extroverted :yeshrug:
to a degree yes actually. i acknowledge myself as introverted but extroverted people are needed for the balance honestly. i hang with extroverted people. its like trading cultural secrets. :yeshrug:
 

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Honestly when folks start this shyt but be all up on the nets I can't but feel y'all cats insecure about yourselves and wish y'all could be extroverted :yeshrug:

I can talk to people if I want. It's just draining after long periods of time or if they have nothing to say. On the net, I'm not talking to one person. If they get boring, it's easy to back out without worrying about hurt feelings also, I have time to sit and think about and review my response before sending it.
 

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i enjoy floating in my own mind. yet interacting with people is the most stressful shyt ever. public conversation is draining. i prefer being solo most of the time, but its like envy the people that can easily make small talk, even though i lack that skill and hate to waste words with no thought behind them. i'm not good with conversation unless its about something i know. then i go off with that topic and wont stop for days. most of these females out here are instant extroverts that are all over the place and will freak out if they're in the house for at least a day. yet i could chill at home and have actual fun. i feel like an old man compared to women my age .:yeshrug:
Bruh it's harder for you to build that connection being introverted but once you take the leap and get to listening to a female and making her feel comfortable you in dawg. Play yo strengths bruh that's how we win the game. Strong silent type cuh. Since you in yo mind all the time you got some deep as shyt to say and you see shyt other people overlook. Best thing about being a introvert is that when you DO say something people always listening cuz they know you ain't spoutin bullshyt.
 

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Lifelong introvert here. Im fine mingling with people, its easy. Unfortunately I like to be by myself. Its great cause most times I don't miss the company of men. Its those times I wish I had a happy woman sitting on my lap that I have a problem with myself. :ufdup:-----------------------------------Me.
 

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Honestly when folks start this shyt but be all up on the nets I can't but feel y'all cats insecure about yourselves and wish y'all could be extroverted :yeshrug:
for some theres insecurities. well socially for me. for my appearance i dont really worry about it honestly. its just being social when its called for.
 

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Bruh it's harder for you to build that connection being introverted but once you take the leap and get to listening to a female and making her feel comfortable you in dawg. Play yo strengths bruh that's how we win the game. Strong silent type cuh. Since you in yo mind all the time you got some deep as shyt to say and you see shyt other people overlook. Best thing about being a introvert is that when you DO say something people always listening cuz they know you ain't spoutin bullshyt.
snipers. we hate to waste ammo yet we're hesitant and sometimes the hesitation doesnt get anything done.
 

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Lifelong introvert here. Im fine mingling with people, its easy. Unfortunately I like to be by myself. Its great cause most times I don't miss the company of men. Its those times I wish I had a happy woman sitting on my lap that I have a problem with myself. :ufdup:-----------------------------------Me.
facts. in a weird way the solitude is like a lifelong love. yet sometimes i want the actual physical woman there and i cant have both
 

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its like introverts are

snipers. we hate to waste ammo yet we're hesitant and sometimes the hesitation doesnt get anything done.
That's on you bruh. You gotta realize as an introvert, yo aim don't gotta be perfect to still get results. Once you realize that, you reach your full potential socially.
 

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Honestly when folks start this shyt but be all up on the nets I can't but feel y'all cats insecure about yourselves and wish y'all could be extroverted :yeshrug:

or maybe we feel comfortable online sharing things we have in common with people who we can tell based on content of posts have similar personality traits as us.
 

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facts. in a weird way the solitude is like a lifelong love. yet sometimes i want the actual physical woman there and i cant have both
Exactly. Im currently battling with a few projects so I can actually be living good within the next few years (my screen name alludes to it) and im hoping some things pan out. Especially if your like me, I have no huge burdens, and im still young, and while I always looked good, the past near year in the gym has put me at my absolute best physically. I think about how much time I waste on days when I wake up at 10am, realize it is my day off, next thing you know its 2am the next day I only left my room to eat or hit the bathroom. While solitude is absolutely golden, I won't lie, the situation I just described sums up YEARS of my existence. We gotta make moves to get the best of both worlds, breh.
 
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I can talk to people if I want. It's just draining after long periods of time or if they have nothing to say. On the net, I'm not talking to one person. If they get boring, it's easy to back out without worrying about hurt feelings also, I have time to sit and think about and review my response before sending it.
I hear you but let me tell you the vast majority ain't worried about you hurting their feelings by not talking to them or ending the convo. Lol they probably glad you did cause they didn't want to do,the same to you so end them bad boys yourself with no worry. Like I said y'all really need to get that confidence up cause some of what your saying and others in this thread just sound like lack of confidence. You have to think about your responses and shyt you, me, nobody is perfect let it fly. You not an idiot right so you'll be just as good as everybody else for the most part.

for some theres insecurities. well socially for me. for my appearance i dont really worry about it honestly. its just being social when its called for.
Why social though what you afraid of? Its not like somebody going to bite your head off or anything.
 
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