being introverted can be a gift and a curse.

[philmonroe]

or maybe we feel comfortable online sharing things we have in common with people who we can tell based on content of posts have similar personality traits as us.

I must have really hurt some feelings with that comment. If you don't fit what im saying why y'all feeling some type of way? Of course that's why people get on here but I'm talking about a specific group but whatever faux outrage at an all time high.

You're on the coli on a friday night too breh

Learn how to read fam before trying to be funny and its 2am on the east coast why wouldn't I be in the house on the net.

Damn that low key ether you sent him

You must be super stupid if an incorrect statement is ether.

 

[Lo-Co]

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/the-introvert-thread.75973/

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yeah i realized that after i posted this. can un-explode a bomb

 

[cyndaquil]

Hits close to home. Im literally mentally hyping myself up NOW to make an effort to go out tommorow. Feels like a sickness sometimes.

Do it breh. Go out with some close bros, somewhere wit some females. Find one that's feelin you and let that introvert shine bruh. Listen, build a connection, ask her about shyt she interested in and find some mutual interests. Get them digits and meet up cuh. You don't gotta be alone if you don't have to.
Or go play pickup ball wit some homies ore

I must have really hurt some feelings with that comment. If you don't fit what im saying why y'all feeling some type of way? Of course that's why people get on here but I'm talking about a specific group but whatever faux outrage at an all time high.

Learn how to read fam before trying to be funny and its 2am on the east coast why wouldn't I be in the house on the net.

You must be super stupid if an incorrect statement is ether.

obviously it struck a lil truth cuz you replyin with this sensitive shyt

 

[Ciggavelli]

Learn how to read fam before trying to be funny and its 2am on the east coast why wouldn't I be in the house on the net.
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Learn how to read what? You wrote two simple sentences

2am on the east coast. Shouldn't you be out with your friends drinking or something, given that you're so secure and extroverted.


Trying to come in here shytting on introverts, when you're at home by yourself in front of your computer on a party night.

 

[philmonroe]

Do it breh. Go out with some close bros, somewhere wit some females. Find one that's feelin you and let that introvert shine bruh. Listen, build a connection, ask her about shyt she interested in and find some mutual interests. Get them digits and meet up cuh. You don't gotta be alone if you don't have to.
Or go play pickup ball wit some homies ore

obviously it struck a lil truth cuz you replyin with this sensitive shyt

Its nothing sensitive about the truth. If you think his incorrect statement is ether you're stupid and if that's what sensitive is being nowadays fukk it that's what I am.

 

[Matt504]

I hear you but let me tell you the vast majority ain't worried about you hurting their feelings by not talking to them or ending the convo. Lol they probably glad you did cause they didn't want to do,the same to you so end them bad boys yourself with no worry. Like I said y'all really need to get that confidence up cause some of what your saying and others in this thread just sound like lack of confidence. You have to think about your responses and shyt you, me, nobody is perfect let it fly. You not an idiot right so you'll be just as good as everybody else for the most part.

Why social though what you afraid of? Its not like somebody going to bite your head off or anything.

you're like a person who listens but simply doesn't get it no matter how well it's explained because you think the solution is as easy as doing ___

thinking about what we say before saying it isn't because of a lack of confidence, many of us are acutely aware of how our words can be perceived by people, many of us are so "in our heads" that we have entire conversations before hand just to have a few ideas of how to effectively communicate our thoughts as efficiently as possible because we're trying to limit the chances of there being any small talk.

I can become agitated very quickly when someone, usually an extrovert who's oblivious to social cues and body language, tries to talk and I'm politely trying to show them that I don't want to talk, yet they continue talking because they can't catch a hint. there's no amount of confidence on planet earth that can make me want to interact when I'd much rather be alone with my thoughts.

 

[Lo-Co]

honestly. i realize i posted this late. i do realize there are other threads like this. on the real i was just looking to vibe out with people that feel what i feel. i wasnt trying to stroke my supposed assumed introverted ego.

 

[At30wecashout]

Do it breh. Go out with some close bros, somewhere wit some females. Find one that's feelin you and let that introvert shine bruh. Listen, build a connection, ask her about shyt she interested in and find some mutual interests. Get them digits and meet up cuh. You don't gotta be alone if you don't have to.
Or go play pickup ball wit some homies ore

Yea, thats the plan, minus the bros. I always felt like the people I knew held me back from doing that because they were forever in the highschool mindset, not yet on they grown man shyt. On the other hand, I just gotta get my gear ready and look up some places since I have sunday off, and I can wild out saturday if I find the motivation. Besides, between drawing and working on my novel, looking at instagram fitchicks is wearing my ass out. Women looking too good and I think "Where do I find THEM girls?" Shyt, won't find them sitting in my room 12+ hours a day.

 

[Lo-Co]

you're like a person who listens but simply doesn't get it no matter how well it's explained because you think the solution is as easy as doing ___

thinking about what we say before saying it isn't because of a lack of confidence, many of us are acutely aware of how our words can be perceived by people, many of us are so "in our heads" that we have entire conversations before hand just to have a few ideas of how to effectively communicate our thoughts as efficiently as possible because we're trying to limit the chances of their being any small talk.

I can become agitated very quickly when someone, usually an extrovert who's oblivious to social cues and body language, tries to talk and I'm politely trying to show them that I don't want to talk, yet they continue tailing because they can't catch a hint. there's no amount of confidence on planet earth that can make me want to interact when I'd much rather be alone with my thoughts.

its like reading the choose your own adventure books over and over.

 

[Ciggavelli]

Its nothing sensitive about the truth. If you think his incorrect statement is ether you're stupid and if that's what sensitive is being nowadays fukk it that's what I am.

You getting real defensive breh. You need to be more secure

 

[cyndaquil]

Yea, thats the plan, minus the bros. I always felt like the people I knew held me back from doing that because they were forever in the highschool mindset, not yet on they grown man shyt. On the other hand, I just gotta get my gear ready and look up some places since I have sunday off, and I can wild out saturday if I find the motivation. Besides, between drawing and working on my novel, looking at instagram fitchicks is wearing my ass out. Women looking too good and I think "Where do I find THEM girls?" Shyt, won't find them sitting in my room 12+ hours a day.

Best place to find them? The grocery store between 6 and 8 pm on a weekday NO JOKE

 

[philmonroe]

Learn how to read what? You wrote two simple sentences

2am on the east coast. Shouldn't you be out with your friends drinking or something, given that you're so secure and extroverted.


Trying to come in here shytting on introverts, when you're at home by yourself in front of your computer on a party night.

Part of being what you must want to be is I don't have to go out every night because you are right I am secure. I don't care about being in/extroverted I'm just me fam. Yeah I really tried to shyt on people but was giving out advice FOH. You got me I'm at home by myself but hell I live by myself so what point are you making? Ill be out tomorrow night for the fight so I'm good staying in tonight

 

[cyndaquil]

Its nothing sensitive about the truth. If you think his incorrect statement is ether you're stupid and if that's what sensitive is being nowadays fukk it that's what I am.

First step to recovery is acknowledgement of the problem

 

[At30wecashout]

Best place to find them? The grocery store between 6 and 8 pm on a weekday NO JOKE

Been wondering if I should try that. I have no problem attracting women normally, but I don't see any in particular taking care of themselves with the weights. Sure, lotta cardio bunnies moving around, but a well put together woman who respects her body? Snap right the hell outta my introversion if I run into one. Good looks on the grocery.

 

[Ciggavelli]

Part of being what you must want to be is I don't have to go out every night because you are right I am secure. I don't care about being in/extroverted I'm just me fam. Yeah I really tried to shyt on people but was giving out advice FOH. You got me I'm at home by myself but hell I live by myself so what point are you making? Ill be out tomorrow night for the fight so I'm good staying in tonight

You come in here all aggressive talking about we all wish we could be extroverted (presumably like you of course) and that we're all "insecure."

In actuality, we just like you, talking on a message board on a Friday night.