Being nice to her does not mean she owe you some puss

[HoustonHeat]

How come online forums always have so much strategery, lecturing and philosophy from men when it comes to dating?

It's the save-a-simp movement, but they don't wanna be saved, just let them be.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

when you BARELY KNOW her

The post he quoted was you talking about "down the line". How they liked you at first, but then got turned off. Doesn't seem like a "barely know" kinda deal breh.

 

[Jason B]

The post he quoted was you talking about "down the line". How they liked you at first, but then got turned off. Doesn't seem like a "barely know" kinda deal breh.

The thing is, the women would be turned off within a three-week period at the most, which in my opinion was not lengthy in terms of getting to know her as a person.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

The thing is, the women would turned off within a three-week period at the most, which in my opinion, was not lengthy in terms of getting to know her as a person.

Maybe they never really liked you and were just tired of stringing you along.

There's no such thing as "You're too nice" when a woman wants you. Women will ask you questions/bring up the subject themselves and "act out" to get attention/what they want before they just completely drop you.

 

[Jason B]

Maybe they never really liked you and were just tired of stringing you along.

There's no such thing as "You're too nice" when a woman wants you. Women will ask you questions/bring up the subject themselves and "act out" to get attention/what they want before they just completely drop you.

Maybe but it would be odd since I did not do things such as giving them attention constantly due to me being standoffish,buying them things, or playing their therapist AT ALL,therefore not giving them any reason to string me along.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Maybe but it would be odd since I did not do things such as giving them attention constantly due to me being standoffish,buying them things, or playing their therapist AT ALL,therefore not giving them any reason to string me along.

Maybe they never really liked you.

 

[King P]

It's the save-a-simp movement, but they don't wanna be saved, just let them be.

Because most of us genuinely hate simping. It fukks up the whole game.

We tryna help these dudes out, it's for their own good.

 

[rapdonttweet]

To both DaChampIsHere and rapdonttweet: I have never been one to hide my interest in a woman. But at the same time,based on how I was raised, mentioning anything about having sex when you BARELY KNOW her was considered disrespectful, not the act of showing interest in itself.

Why are you taking dating advice from your parents? And I don't mean talking to her about sex, I mean showing her some physical attention. Kissing her goodnight after the first date, getting some action on the second, etc.

The thing is, the women would be turned off within a three-week period at the most, which in my opinion was not lengthy in terms of getting to know her as a person.

Yeah 3 weeks without anything sexual happening is friend status, assuming you've been on at least 3 dates. You act like a nonsexual entity and that is what you are going to get treated like.

 

[Wild self]

How come online forums always have so much strategery, lecturing and philosophy from men when it comes to dating?

It's the save-a-simp movement, but they don't wanna be saved, just let them be.

SO you hate when men find solutions to the cancer known as simping?

We already saved lives on here. What is your solution?

 

[Wild self]

Agreed

The preselection theory is absolutely true. Especially with women. Girls love a guy that is adored by/attractive to other woman. The minute they feel like you're a lame/no one wants you, it's a wrap.

Yeah, and if you single, you gotta drop indirect answers and not act thirsty.

 

[ThatKidBlackHippy]

Being nice to her does not mean she owe you some puss


It's pretty sad that this even needed to be said.

grown azz men still crying and bytching about the "friend zone" needs to get some sense slapped into them forreal.

 

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

The problem is dudes were told that women arent as shallow as men and dont care about looks as much when it cant be further from the truth,women might be evne more shallow then dudes

Look at height threads most women evne average looking bytches on this site refuse to date guys under 6 feet which eliminates about 80% of males right off the bat

bytches lose they mind when they around a guy they really hot for.. im a complete piece of garbage but bytches love my pretty face and good hair so they overlook my personality

So it isnt that you are a nice guy its that you arent good looking enough for her,and its not that women like jerks they like good looking dudes and if hes hot enough theyll put up with him being a jerk

And spare me the nah its all about swag son i bag dimes garbage then u see these scallywags these dudes are really bringing home

 

[King P]

grown azz men still crying and bytching about the "friend zone" needs to get some sense slapped into them forreal.

Word.

The friend zone is some bullshyt and it's easy to avoid.

Just don't be her friend niqqa!

 

[RegB]

Maybe they never really liked you and were just tired of stringing you along.

There's no such thing as "You're too nice" when a woman wants you. Women will ask you questions/bring up the subject themselves and "act out" to get attention/what they want before they just completely drop you.

Dapped. Keep spreadin that wisdom bruh.

 

[KTD2]

Average Coli male:

*whines about being in the "friend zone" and about how "women don't want a nice guy"*
*is first to make a thread after a failed date talking about being "hard on hoes" and "fukk these bytches"*

Ohmygod. So. Nice.

fukk out of here.