BlackMajik
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I know @HarlemHottie ain't feeling this garbage



i hate to be this guy but man…i almost got out the chair a few weeks ago at this shop i went to, had not been there in about 11 years or so, this man had his grands with him (girl, boy) and dawg he going on about tiktok girls…every detail man, all barbers chiming in too, only one trying to be discreet or coded about it all. this was all in front of this young girl no more than 8 or so…i was conflicted like hell manBruh I've been going to barbershops my whole life and there's no way you'll hear language like that, let alone cussing I'm front of women
I don't know if I live in an alternate world than most of yall or what, but it's crazy that damn near everything most of yall have experienced, I've experience the opposite. Maybe I'm blind and don't know it...
Maybe not around women, but I've heard these kinds of conversations in barbershops since a kid. The older barbers will check the younger ones sometimes about the conversations, but only if the older ones are in the shop at the time.
nikkas getting shot outside the barbershop in the neighborhood I was raised in was/is not uncommon. Not that every barbershop is like that but if anybody is from Pittsburgh, no way in fukk you don't remember Ham's barbershop on the Hill getting shot up or nikkas constantly getting shot in front of it or McGinnis in Mt. Oliver where the same thing was always happening. Before I grew my hair back I seen nikkas fight at the neighborhood barber's house who cut out of his living room as a side job.
Where do yall nikkas live at that you experience none of the world that I see?

That clip is how women and gay men think we talk in the barbershop. It aint uncommon to talk about sex or other mature topics in the barbershop but it does not happen in this manner or w/ this lack of respect for the rest of the customers. This is just not how men talk about these topics.![]()
You're being disingenuous, but I'll answer in good faith. Rap is, ostensibly, created by those same black men, so that's them creating their own image, for better or worse. This, otoh, is negative imagery produced by outsiders.lay out your counterargument instead of throwing stones.
When it's rappers rapping about murdering Black men it's entertainment when it's some LGBT folk depicting some unrealistic barbershop shyt, brothers up in arms crying. It's either entertainment or it's not.
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members of our community make a strange pastime out of pathologizing perfectly human actions when they're performed by bp, but it's really just that simple.
people be fantasizingYou're being disingenuous, but I'll answer in good faith. Rap is, ostensibly, created by those same black men, so that's them creating their own image, for better or worse. This, otoh, is negative imagery produced by outsiders.
Similar to how women call each other bytches but you better not.
In group vs out group, sociology 101. I realize that certainmembers of our community make a strange pastime out of pathologizing perfectly human actions when they're performed by bp, but it's really just that simple.
I know @HarlemHottie ain't feeling this garbage![]()
As a rule, I avoid gynocratic programming regardless of whether it's related to my own particular hood or not. Still ain't seen Girls Trip neither.![]()

I feel so seen. This why I love the coli. 