Thank you, but "good dude"?
Can you tell me how to spot a good one from a bad one...bc real talk most men seem to do the same type of fukked up stuff regardless
Imma good guy.
Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!
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Imma good guy.
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I was just trying to discuss something impt to me and the first thread for b derailedso I cut the info down and made a more direct thread the next day
I'm weird for askin men for some insight on men?
you think we know wtf we do shyt half the time
Bless't
Living the dream
Damn I read this earlier and was like
Then came back and reread it and was like
I meant it in the best way possible. Kinda came off harsh. Sorry period puss. Just shooting it straight.
Hmmm...I must have misread that post above where you were talking about having tried the "alone for a year" route. My bad
No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was saying I have been. ....for a year so far
I feel like a lot of people implying I don't love or like myself and that's the only part I'm not getting. I don't make the best decisions with men .....but I don't think it's a lack of self love. ....but whatever
I just feel like that's a blanket cop oUT for shyt like oh hey good with yourself first
I'm like. ...I am
and i still think nikkas not shyt....now what? ???
I meant it in the best way possible. Kinda came off harsh. Sorry period puss. Just shooting it straight.
The #HardOnBros movement is just as flourishing as #HoH. 
Had one girl I was vibing with recently just completely cut me off cause she mistook a question I asked her. Probably thought I was just after the draws. I mean I wouldn't have turned em down
but I thought we were building. 
Oh well, I refuse to be friendzoned again.
No friend... zone
No friend... zone
U knooo betta
U goooo get her
Had one girl I was vibing with recently just completely cut me off cause she mistook a question I asked her. Probably thought I was just after the draws. I mean I wouldn't have turned em down
but I thought we were building. Oh well, I refuse to be friendzoned again.No friend... zone
No friend... zone
U knooo betta
U goooo get her
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Bless't
Living the dream
Quick side note: no love lost between @Bless't and @PeridotPuss.Same for @#SOG_soldier and the latter.
Huh?
Bless't
Living the dream
#SOG_soldier
New York knicks and phoenix suns stan
OKQuick side note: no love lost between @Bless't and @PeridotPuss.
Hou probably don hate men you just envy men, so be a dyke.last night's hoe tales derailment debacle of a thread got me thinking..... listen and learn from those who not tryna troll....
a brehette really could use some productive advice and I know it's some gurus on on here....
So long story short, I'm no victim and no angel but 11 years of dating as left a bytch jaded.....I want to stop seeing men as an enemy to my life and future but thus far have been unable to. The game might have sucked me dry.
Ive also accepted that I'm not relationship material due to my mindset towards males....everyone tells me I'm wrong....but I feel like I have the right outlook
Help!!! black girl Lawst
1. Get a piece of paper drawn line down the middle.. Write Assets on the top of one side then write liabilities on the other side..
2. Write your positive qualities under assets, the negative under liabilities..this requires total honesty on your part.. If your liabilities outweigh you assets your too far gone... If not you still have hope.
3. Recognize the situations in which your negative qualities override your logic....recognize your triggers.....once you do this it becomes easier to recognize what situations to avoid.....
4. Find a hobby...most women not all don't have hobbies....Their hobbies are men...also makes your world revolve around something else other than a man...
5. A man can't give you value....value meaning worth.... It sounds like your a buying into the societal pressure stating that you are less valuable if your haven't reached a specific benchmark by a certain time...ie marriage, babies yada yada... Set your value...you ain't value your p*ssy if you gave it to a whole heap of fukkbois.... p*ssy is a depreciating commodity....the value goes down every time a dude gets it...
6. Write all the names of the fukkbois down on one sheet of paper and burn it... When it burns visualize all the negativity associated with them burning out your spirit like a refiners fire.... The mafia use to burn pictures of saints to symbolize death of their old lives or something along those can't remember multitasking rite now...
7. Write down specific self improvement goals and put them on the back of your door and read them out loud...everything becomes a habit after 21days...by doing so your subconscious will automatically start doing the leg work without you thinkin about it...as a result the experiences and ppl you attract will change..
All I got right now.....( Nonchalantly waits for random disrespectful comment from Troll Inc)
2. Write your positive qualities under assets, the negative under liabilities..this requires total honesty on your part.. If your liabilities outweigh you assets your too far gone... If not you still have hope.
3. Recognize the situations in which your negative qualities override your logic....recognize your triggers.....once you do this it becomes easier to recognize what situations to avoid.....
4. Find a hobby...most women not all don't have hobbies....Their hobbies are men...also makes your world revolve around something else other than a man...
5. A man can't give you value....value meaning worth.... It sounds like your a buying into the societal pressure stating that you are less valuable if your haven't reached a specific benchmark by a certain time...ie marriage, babies yada yada... Set your value...you ain't value your p*ssy if you gave it to a whole heap of fukkbois.... p*ssy is a depreciating commodity....the value goes down every time a dude gets it...
6. Write all the names of the fukkbois down on one sheet of paper and burn it... When it burns visualize all the negativity associated with them burning out your spirit like a refiners fire.... The mafia use to burn pictures of saints to symbolize death of their old lives or something along those can't remember multitasking rite now...
7. Write down specific self improvement goals and put them on the back of your door and read them out loud...everything becomes a habit after 21days...by doing so your subconscious will automatically start doing the leg work without you thinkin about it...as a result the experiences and ppl you attract will change..
All I got right now.....( Nonchalantly waits for random disrespectful comment from Troll Inc)
If that's the case then what are you looking for...because you can't disassociate your dysfunction with men and your mother from your perspective [bold]. Your OP in this very thread says that you're jaded and....No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was saying I have been. ....for a year so far
I feel like a lot of people implying I don't love or like myself and that's the only part I'm not getting. I don't make the best decisions with men .....but I don't think it's a lack of self love. ....but whatever
I just feel like that's a blanket cop oUT for shyt like oh hey good with yourself first
I'm like. ...I am
so...
Unless you have had some thotpiphany since making this thread idk what you mean by cop out.
If you still hate us while being completely content with yourself then just be alone and dead this thread.:smuggyralph:
Or do a SWOT
OG_StankBrefs
Da Spice...
This girls wants attention, she does not want to be saved
No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was saying I have been. ....for a year so far
I feel like a lot of people implying I don't love or like myself and that's the only part I'm not getting. I don't make the best decisions with men .....but I don't think it's a lack of self love. ....but whatever
I just feel like that's a blanket cop oUT for shyt like oh hey good with yourself first
I'm like. ...I am
You definitely love yourself
I think they assume since you have problems with men, you have self deep seeded self esteem issues. But I can vouch and say thats not the case at all from what I know of you now.
You just have serious serious trust issues. You handle it like a nikka too,
"nah nah its all good, I just didn't know"
All the while...
Todd
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