Black Girl Lawst....Help!!!
- Thread starter PeridotPuss
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Small, mostly family and girlfriends from hs/college
all my life I've just taken what was given
everything i could get my hands on
never have i denied the love of many for just one
never have i played favorites
never pretended that anyone was mine
or that i was capable of belonging to anyone
my love is constant and it remains the same
if u choose to stay if u choose to leave
there was a brief moment where i contemplated in anguish
am i a monster for not conforming¿
that depression faded quickly
and i fell deep into a manic bliss
irretrievable and out of reach
the world at large irredeemable and lost to me
I'm not at fault and neither are they
i wasn't meant to know their pain
my love and my joy too great
modern days male marilyn magdalene madonna
feel me¿
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such eloquence
I don't think that's what he meant
Bless't
Living the dream
satireprod
Superstar
HEYI dated the squaresthe squares led me here....WHY do yall think there some loyal nerd nikka out there
nerds got dikks too
there are lady.satireprod
Superstar
Yeah that's the thing. Would you be interested in those types though @PeridotPuss
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
did he die
Playeroni
Aka Nasty Neighbor #CREEPLIFE
Smart, kinda corny kinda cool,confident, good jobs, education, comes two parent home,not atheist or agnostic. ...you know "good guys" or are those not "good guys" either ??
You just described the type of guys who have access to every type of girl from hood to corporate. If they have no problems getting women they not in what you are thinking of as a square
No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was saying I have been. ....for a year so far
I feel like a lot of people implying I don't love or like myself and that's the only part I'm not getting. I don't make the best decisions with men .....but I don't think it's a lack of self love. ....but whatever
I just feel like that's a blanket cop oUT for shyt like oh hey good with yourself first
I'm like. ...I amand i still think nikkas not shyt....now what? ???
From reading this thread I am not sure if you are actually willing to accept a change in mindset
What is ur relationship like with your mother and father? I am still kind of surprised a mother would do that to her child. Your father had nothing to say about this incident? What is your parents relationship with each other? Is there respect? Fidelity? Do you think they could of caused some of your trust issues? I'm just asking because it seems like you lost before you even started playing
Also....I read one of your posts in this thread about you willing to be the breadwinner, what exactly does that mean? Was he a total bum?
No no, that poster was saying I should just be single and I was saying I have been. ....for a year so far
I feel like a lot of people implying I don't love or like myself and that's the only part I'm not getting. I don't make the best decisions with men .....but I don't think it's a lack of self love. ....but whatever
I just feel like that's a blanket cop oUT for shyt like oh hey good with yourself first
I'm like. ...I am
Sounds like confirmation bias
You're convinced men ain't shyt based on your experiences and the experiences of others you've witnessed. You're human though, so I'm certain you do the same thing everyone does when we take up a stance or an opinion on something. You pay attention to anything that confirms this belief and you ignore anything which challenges this belief
If you want to change this mindset, I don't really have any specific advice beyond saying you have to start pay attention to anything which challenges this notion