i heard of a dude who met an asian/chinese chick in the states, they got engaged, but her family wouldnt accept the dude
do you just accept the racist? or be friendly? are they just tolerant?
again, it's not about race, you're thinking of things too technical which isn't your fault you were programmed this way.
the family might have a problem with it, not because of race, but because you're a foreigner. you're an alien, you're not from china, you're from another planet. some parents may think it's wrong. others might not care at all. it all matters. both of my ex's parents were coo with me, they always asked her if she saw herself marrying me, how far was it going to go blah blah. one of their moms would come over bringing fruits and food. their dad bringing cigs and beer.
you can just generalize, its all up to that individual and that individuals family.
do I just accept racism. what would you consider racism? I have never been denied access into facility, nor have I had anyone look at me in disgust, on the contrary I have had both men and women call me beautiful which is real weird coming from drunken chinese men buying me beers with their arms around me. I get "handsum brack man" often. I also get "why you look so different for black man, not african?" they can sort of tell im not from africa and must be a black westerner. anyways. different culture deal with things differently.
places like beijing tho, you might see some racism fo sho, same with guangzhou, in fact for sure you're going to get into some shyt in guangzhou as a black man. you'll have cops on that ass, asking for ID errrwhere.