Black man explains why the dating scene is messed up

[Ohene]

Uh, yea that goes for men too.

Plenty more men would live for themselves and COMPLETELY give in to their carnal desires if they weren’t “squares” or have some morality built in from religious teachings. PLEEEEEAASE

If men were so altruistic there wouldn’t be women out here turning tricks. They would just look at the would-be whores of society and put them in some government or charity funded group homes to keep them off the streets. But NO, everyone knows that when you encounter some chick who is down on her luck or a little slow or young/naive with no family assistance her ass is food in these streets because men will be throwing some money at her to use her body instead of guiding her to some social services to get on the right track.

Strip clubs, porn, etc are only a thing because of MEN. Women aren’t getting in their cars and driving into alleys at 2am to pay someone for some “strange”. Women aren’t leading double lives and sleeping with transwomen and then killing them so that the secret doesn’t get out. So let’s not get ahead of ourselves.


BOTH men and women are currently full of shyt. That’s why we are where we are. The people who want something genuine and aren’t being unrealistic will find a partner.

Women dont resort to prostitution because they dont need to. They just need to send a text to a few dudes and see who bites. Wtf

 

[Chrishaune]

lol

Broke boy banter. I think the real problem is that women have standards and most men don't. Whether a woman is a dime or not, she's going to shoot for the top guy. Tall, handsome, has money, etc. If she's a dime she's going to get what she wants eventually. If she's not a dime she's going to keep shooting until she either bags someone out of her league, or until she settles. But women don't settle on everything. Most women aren't going to go from shooting at the top tier to accepting a 5'6 broke guy who isn't handsome. Maybe instead they settle for the tall guy who has a decent job and isn't handsome but isn't ugly.

Flip side men are going to shoot for hot women regardless of whether she's a loser, broke, etc or not. They'll also shoot at average women, and may even shoot at a chubby chick. Again, regardless of whether she's successful, broke, etc. So when you're the average, unsuccessful, moderately handsome, 5'10 dude you're gonna get rejected. A lot. And instead of better themselves these guys complain about women having...standards.

A loooot of shyt would cease if dudes operated like women and upped their standards. If men stopped entertaining single mothers, broke women, women with obvious emotional problems, etc.

If you don't get all the way out of here


Neg

 

[Phitz]

People (men and women) who constantly have trouble dating are unattractive and lack self awareness. That's it. That's the problem.

yeah, but more men know their lane, than women do. A man is not turning down a woman in his lane for long term relationships.

A woman will sleep with a man out of her league, not in her lane for a while, trying to get him, turning down the men in her league.

 

[RareHunter]

Women are more prone to evil than men. But men commit far more crime, far more murder, far more violent acts, have started virtually every war in history, greenlit nearly every genocide....

You dusty bible nikkas need to get some p*ssy.

You’re speaking from a western mindset. The west tolerates crime. In other nations this isn’t tolerated, and problematic men are snuffed out by the community. Also the pookie ray ray men are raised by women, in the majority of cases. Why is it, the society is breaking down and all manner of evil, abominations, Alphabetism and collapse are happening when they started feminism? Disrespectful children and killer pookie and ray rays? Women have collapsed how many kingdoms? Are you a woman by chance?

 

[Satsui no Hadou]

It’s frightening to think how much dating has changed. Ten years ago I was in my early 20’s and I had some luck with dating sites, and I was regularly meeting women in real life too. It just feels so different now even though there are plenty of normal - relatively speaking! - women out there. Like, if I wasn’t committed I could foresee myself being single for the long term with the way so many women carry themselves nowadays.

Honestly, at this point you might as well just stay to yourself until you meet the right one and work on your own thing. Being single gives one plenty of time to constantly improve. I met my wife completely by chance and I’ve been with her 11 years

 

[RareHunter]

Uh, yea that goes for men too.

Plenty more men would live for themselves and COMPLETELY give in to their carnal desires if they weren’t “squares” or have some morality built in from religious teachings. PLEEEEEAASE

If men were so altruistic there wouldn’t be women out here turning tricks. They would just look at the would-be whores of society and put them in some government or charity funded group homes to keep them off the streets. But NO, everyone knows that when you encounter some chick who is down on her luck or a little slow or young/naive with no family assistance her ass is food in these streets because men will be throwing some money at her to use her body instead of guiding her to some social services to get on the right track.

Strip clubs, porn, etc are only a thing because of MEN. Women aren’t getting in their cars and driving into alleys at 2am to pay someone for some “strange”. Women aren’t leading double lives and sleeping with transwomen and then killing them so that the secret doesn’t get out. So let’s not get ahead of ourselves.


BOTH men and women are currently full of shyt. That’s why we are where we are. The people who want something genuine and aren’t being unrealistic will find a partner.

I agree. I never said men weren’t wicked tho. This thread just happens to be about women. Also what men do is overt and known. Also the majority of what’s going on now, is women in the mix.

That doesn’t absolve men, but when women have dominion like they do now, they tend to elevate evil (bad boys, thugs, smooth talkers, Ghay, Tranz aka “progress” LOL) and because these men lack values, and don’t care either way and just want sex, they may check a woman if the woman crosses his personal boundries,

but they don’t care about her actual well being, nor the well being of their community or tribe and they create a “me and mines” attitude. Righteous men bring rules, structure, and order and women use these wicked men, to snuff out righteous men. Then for public appearance they say these men were “nice”, “boring”, and ”too controlling” and the woman is absolved of all the responsibility. Plenty of evil/wicked/simp men have crashed out fooling around with women.

 

[RareHunter]

If you don't get all the way out of here


Neg

That guy is very simple

 

[Piff Perkins]

You’re speaking from a western mindset. The west tolerates crime. In other nations this isn’t tolerated, and these men are raised by women, in the majority of cases. Why is it, the society is breaking down and all manner of evil, abominations, Alphabetism and collapse are happening when they started feminism? Disrespectful children and killer pookie and ray rays? Women have collapsed how many kingdoms? Are you a woman by chance?

Definitely no genocide, war, mass murder (terrorism) outside of the west! fukkouttahere

 

[Ohene]

It’s frightening to think how much dating has changed. Ten years ago I was in my early 20’s and I had some luck with dating sites, and I was regularly meeting women in real life too. It just feels so different now even though there are plenty of normal - relatively speaking! - women out there. Like, if I wasn’t committed I could foresee myself being single for the long term with the way so many women carry themselves nowadays.

Honestly, at this point you might as well just stay to yourself until you meet the right one and work on your own thing. Being single gives one plenty of time to constantly improve. I met my wife completely by chance and I’ve been with her 11 years

yup. ten years ago when i was back in school women seemed a lot more reasonable and wholesome. now it feels like theyre just all so jaded with unrealistic expectations and looking to get over. shyt is weird man

i think i'm fortunate to have found my girlfriend but time will tell/

 

[RareHunter]

Definitely no genocide, war, mass murder (terrorism) outside of the west! fukkouttahere

I mean…men go to war. What do you want exactly?

 

[In The Zone '98]

Dude sounds hurt for the most part but he's partly correct about female nature

Go to therapy. Learn how to express yourself


You sound hurt!

 

[The War Report]

Women in the states are mad fukking standoffish and defensive for no reason. With a list of fukking demands like this is a hostage situation. Just spoiled.

 

[Wild self]

Men innate and natural high sexual drive will make this an impossibility. If men had the low sexual drive of women we would be as picky and demanding. We would have high standards for women too.

And women would take any breh if they had men’s sexual hunger.


Vast majority of men Operating from a place of Scarcity+high sexual drive+Being desperate = low standard simps.

Women don’t have the same urgency to have sex. Not even close. So women especially the most beautiful ones, can afford to sit back, wait and be as picky as they desire. Men can impregnate plenty of women because we can produce sperm anytime. We can have kids at any age. Women can’t have kids after 40 or so. Women have a very limited number of eggs/ovaries, and the quality of their ovaries degrade with time/age. So it is in their best interest to be picky and mate with the best man (money, height, looks, power, health)they can get.

That is why it is vital for every man to TRAVEL and have a car of their own.

 

[Satsui no Hadou]

yup. ten years ago when i was back in school women seemed a lot more reasonable and wholesome. now it feels like theyre just all so jaded with unrealistic expectations and looking to get over. shyt is weird man

i think i'm fortunate to have found my girlfriend but time will tell/

I think a lot of it has to do with the explosion in popularity of internet and technology. I have noticed people are becoming increasingly atomized. The things we had to do in the world are becoming digitized and the paradigm is beginning to shift and humans don’t have the ability to cope with such extreme variables in behavior.

Plus attitudes around sex and relationships are beginning to change. It’s becoming purely transactional - just look at onlyfans and sex work.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Bro, dating is NOT fukking hard.

1. Don't be ugly gang. That's like 90% of the battle. If you are, then you gon have to grind in the gym or be a fly nikka or something.
2. Have interests outside of "bytches".
3. Be gainfully employed.
4. Be intentional. If you are for relationships, say so. If you're for casual, say so. You can't do both.

Do them four things and majority of the female population will at least find you eligible.