Black men...come in here!
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*Angel*
Frozen Flames Goddess
Natural all day. I put weave and wigs in the same boat as false nails and garments that "shape" a woman. It is all falsehood. If she gotta rock a fade better than mine, cool, but weave just looks.
Look at how fine the facials are on Hairhat Jenkins. The basket weave detracts massively. Thats just me though.
No diss but ita. She is pretty but she might have one too many bundles in her head. Its a nice look, but it looks too weavy
kevin arnold
Superstar
Doesn't matter
Better question is...why arent you in the kitchen?
KyokushinKarateMan
Train hard, fight easy
It is a myth (and something of an "excuse" that some Black women use for wearing weaves) to think that Black men overwhelmingly prefer the weave/wig/straight hair to natural hair.
Nothing could be further than the truth.
Sadly, as has been mentioned here before, those same natural haired Black women hold a tendacy to overwhelmingly dislike Black men, and date exclusively outside of their race.
Their excuse? "Black men aren't attracted to me, they prefer weaves."
Or that Black men are "intimidated by their strawng soul sisterly looks and cawnfidence"..or whatever..
So, then, where does that leave us as Black men?
We aren't all that attracted to the weaverinas, yet, natty sistas don't even want us..
Suggestions?
Nothing could be further than the truth.
Sadly, as has been mentioned here before, those same natural haired Black women hold a tendacy to overwhelmingly dislike Black men, and date exclusively outside of their race.
Their excuse? "Black men aren't attracted to me, they prefer weaves."
Or that Black men are "intimidated by their strawng soul sisterly looks and cawnfidence"..or whatever..
So, then, where does that leave us as Black men?
We aren't all that attracted to the weaverinas, yet, natty sistas don't even want us..
Suggestions?
or these answers are all in men's heads. people often voice they want one thing but go after another. i don't think those ladies' opinions from experiences should be considered wrong automatically because a few guys said natural.
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NobodyReally
Superstar
It is a myth (and something of an "excuse" that some Black women use for wearing weaves) to think that Black men overwhelmingly prefer the weave/wig/straight hair to natural hair.
Nothing could be further than the truth.
Sadly, as has been mentioned here before, those same natural haired Black women hold a tendacy to overwhelmingly dislike Black men, and date exclusively outside of their race.
Their excuse? "Black men aren't attracted to me, they prefer weaves."
Or that Black men are "intimidated by their strawng soul sisterly looks and cawnfidence"..or whatever..
So, then, where does that leave us as Black men?
We aren't all that attracted to the weaverinas, yet, natty sistas don't even want us..
Suggestions?
When I first went natural, my harshest critics were black men. I had comments like "don't worry, baby, it'll grow back" and "why you go and do that?" Once my hair grew out, the negative comments stopped and I started getting more attention. I have a theory that hair length is more of an issue than the texture in terms of what men are attracted to. Although I will say, once I started growing my dreadlocs, my ex used to complain that they could never "be straightened" again and I would be "stuck" with them.
Diddly Drogba
Superstar
why dont you ask a asian man? 
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Date a black nerd and youll see men that prefer natural hair.
Date a black nerd and youll see men that prefer natural hair.
Black male nerds are the "asian men" of the black dating pool.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
and divorce rates are high and many of our people have baby daddy issues.Black male nerds are the "asian men" of the black dating pool.
what a coincidence
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