Black men, how did we allow this matriarchy in the black community?

[Ice Water]

It is crazy, problem is it's not true. There is not and never was a requirement that men not be in the house. The only requirement is that all adults are included on the application. So a man couldn't be living in the house and contributing to the bottom line while still recieving aid as if the woman was single. You really think men threw up their hands and left their families for $100 a month in foodstamps

LOL I did think this was a lil off, but was trying to find a damn reason why so many dudes stepped out on they fams. So I guess the reason for Matriarch families boils down to bad f uckin decisions man. From people runnin from responsibility, to fallin for those fast life traps.

 

[Taadow]

She didn't say anything of the sort. See, here's you all running with faint statements and trying to make them something.

The only thing she said was that black women were unhappy with the family structure they were in, the same way every other group of women felt.

It has nothing to do with being "ran by black men", but more so the expectations, rules, and norms for women at that time period. Y'all don't have to make everything so damn personally.

So...she didn't say anything of the "sort", she just said something of that sort.

It has nothing to do with being ran by black men, but just being ran by men. It doesn't matter if those men were black. So that's nothing of that "sort". Alright.

That's not how it came across. If Helga comes in and confirms that, i'm done with it.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

None of those things mean black men have it easier in the real world.
Most high schools Encourage black boys with lower grades to get a trade. Going to college is not even promoted to them. The black boys that do go to college most likely had the test scores and the grades to get in.

Stats show differently. Black boys enter college with some of the lowest grades and test scores.

I never said black men had it easier in the real world. But to act as if black women benefit more from it when black men benefit a lot from at the post-secondary education level is asinine.

Of course black women will benefit from it more at the corporate level. They are the ones getting education to get those jobs. When black men decide to take their education a little bit more seriously, maybe we will see those numbers even out.

Trust if corporate America was so scared of black men, we would not be advancing further than our female counterparts when we are in the corporate world. We would be the ones with the glass ceiling, not them. Smarten up.

Petty.

Ok.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

None of those things mean black men have it easier in the real world.
Most high schools Encourage black boys with lower grades to get a trade. Going to college is not even promoted to them. The black boys that do go to college most likely had the test scores and the grades to get in.

You continue to prove you have no idea what your talking about. College isn't for everybody. Those who can't do well in highschool won't do well in traditional college. They should be encouraged to get a trade, or so something they are good at and this is the case for all races, not just black boys. And most colleges are open enrollment meaning you don't need good grades or test scores to get in.

 

[Will Ross]

The fact is most black women have in their mind that all black men are no good.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Y'all nikkas in here writing these titangraphs need to cut the shyt out. Ya'll worse than art barr out this bytch. You know everyone sees the long wall of text and just hit you with the

 

[DaChampIsHere]

The fact is most black women have in their mind that all black men are no good.

I'mma tell Kenya on you for trolling.

Y'all nikkas in here writing these titangraphs need to cut the shyt out. Ya'll worse than art barr out this bytch. You know everyone sees the long wall of text and just hit you with the

The people who want to read and learn will do such.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

The fact is most black women have in their mind that all black men are no good.

That ain't too different than what most black men on the coli believe about black women. Especially that one dude, I think his name is Rill Wuss. That nikka don't like black women AT ALL.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

The fact is most black women have in their mind that all black men are no good.

Is that your real life experience? Maybe they just think you ain't shyt.

 

[Taadow]

But to act as if black women benefit more from it when black men benefit a lot from at the post-secondary education level is asinine.

but...

It's harder for black men to get to that point

Exactly.

 

[Will Ross]

Stats show differently. Black boys enter college with some of the lowest grades and test scores.

I never said black men had it easier in the real world. But to act as if black women benefit more from it when black men benefit a lot from at the post-secondary education level is asinine.

Of course black women will benefit from it more at the corporate level. They are the ones getting education to get those jobs. When black men decide to take their education a little bit more seriously, maybe we will see those numbers even out.

Trust if corporate America was so scared of black men, we would not be advancing further than our female counterparts when we are in the corporate world. We would be the ones with the glass ceiling, not them. Smarten up.


Ok.

black boys get Athletic scholarships tend to be the reason why those stats are the way they are + boys tend to slack off in school more then girls do. It has never been cool to be a dumb chick but a dumb guy is attrtive to a high school girl

 

[DaChampIsHere]

but...
Exactly.

So you are saying because it's hard, black boys should stop or not try as much? No part of something being hard ever makes me want to stop going after what I really want. I'm guessing this is the case for you since you are arguing that idea?

I don't entertain you on one subject because it's obvious you are being petty, so you trail me to the next subject to point out things I already know/have stated.

It has never been cool to be a dumb chick

Are you sure? Half of those stupid cartoons y'all post up and co-sign with the nerd, involve smart men chasing after dumb women. Not the nerdy ones.

 

[JasonSJackson]

"matriarchy"?

nikka this aint no phukin S.A.T.....

 

[Jesus]

Where did we go wrong?

How can we fix it?

We let hoe ass nikkas like you think you can be a voice for us in lieu of Malcolm and MLK.

 

[Jesus]

"matriarchy"?

nikka this aint no phukin S.A.T.....