Black Men...it's time we start spoiling our women

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I hand selected these flowers last week

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She was super happy talking about no man ever gives her flowers


Good job!
 

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clearly referring to those that i see in every day life, in America.

breh keeps citing shyt from other countries with no rule of law:mjlol:. we live in America last time I checked:dahell:.

you wouldn't understand. :mjcry:

other countries? ain't you talking about mexicans? you're a mexican and your folks come from mexico bruh. :laff:

why you trying to ignore what goes on in your own country? mexican women deserve better :mjcry:

you trying to ignore their deaths just like your government :smh:

hope ya aunts, nieces, and girl cousins stay away from them murderous mexican men breh :whew:
 

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Applying static rhetoric across the board is dangerous. Every chick's womanhood is unique. You got guys spoiling women they don't understand as people and getting mad when it doesn't work. shyt you got nikkas marrying women they don't understand as people and wondering why it didn't work :mjlol:


nikkas gotta get making a woman feel right mentally (just your brain + her brain) downpat first, that's the stem and the branches. Understanding her is the roots. Spoiling her is the flowers. Telling cats to just spoil chicks random can fukk up cause it's jumping the gun. You got nikkas buyin flowers as a hail mary cause they cheated, now flowers don't mean shyt to her cause she associates them with a bad experience, so the next nikka that presents her flowers gives her a mental callback to that other fukkboy and she revisits those emotions, so the flowers do nothing. Now the new nikka is vexed like some of you in this thread. Spoiling is supposed to take her feelings from A to A+, meaning her emotions for you gotta already be on A status minus the spoiling, then hit her with the extra shyt for the high score. You got nikkas in this bytch on F/ D-minus status talkin bout some flowers. Nah nikka ya grades ain't there yet. School semester just started fukk you doin extra credit for :dahell:


EDIT: That's why rich nikkas get cheated on, and wonder why "but i was spoiling her tho:why: ungrateful bytch:pacspit:" like nah nikka you jumped the gun that's why :pachaha:
 
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No... not spoiling our women, but leading them.

Gotta become something worth following first.

To do this we've gotta become smarter, stronger, better. This will take effort but it's possible as long as we're consistently preparing ourselves to seize opportunities. And to do this we've gotta acquire knowledge. Once we up our knowledge we'll be able to get our women on the same page as us. A lot of the problems in the black community stem from black men and women not being on the same page as one another mentally.
 

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I have a hard time really spoiling anyone... Mainly because I worked for pretty much everything I have.

First I would have to be in a position to spoil a woman and then she would have to do something to gain my complete trust in spoiling her.

And if she prefers not to be spoiled or isn't hard to please, it makes me WANT to spoil her even more...


And let's be honest, the only reason why a lot of these white, Latinos (definitely not as much), and Asians are even with certain women is because they spoil them.

If it's a vice versa thing then I'm down. But it's usually it's not. Women tend to focus on themselves a lot

I'm not gonna spoil a chick to make her do the basic shyt expected of her, yet I have to do the basic shyt expected of me and STILL spoil her at the same time without that same effort in return.

On top of that, a lot of women are unappreciative. I'm good for now :francis:
 

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Well my last 8 plus year relationship, I spoiled my black woman with loubutins, purses, vacations and etc. In return she spoiled me with a whole new wardrobe, new furniture, etc.

I say this because, if you really love each other, this will come naturally. Not something you consciously think about.
 

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most of yall dumbasses in here posting or one starring are missing the concept of the thread

OP i agree

but i also agree with the comments about building our businesses and wealth before we can do any of this tbh

we need to show our real potential and power, yall dont see it but the level of respect black women would have for us would increase tremendously if we started REALLY building, doing things men should do, helping each others business grow, increasing our economic wealth and providing things for them and the children
 
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Comparing ourselves to cacs and Mexicans brehs :stopitslime:. Spoiling your woman won't make her stay. I don't "spoil" my wife I live to show her and my daughter what a good man should be.
 
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