Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[FukkaPaidEmail]

bytches are attracted to what is bad for them.

Chicks call me an a$$hole/rude all of the damn time but will still fukk with me on some "You mean as hell but you're handsome" type shyt.Women make bad decisions,it's life.Not just hoodrats but educated women too.I know plenty of goofy ass ho's that fall for bullshyt on the daily. It's their responsibility to do background checks on these nikkas they are letting inside of them.They hold the power.

Dante didn't turn into some ain't shyt nikka overnight.He was always that type of nikka and she just chose to ignore the signs because that nikka was attractive.

I'm not gonna fault a nikka that doesn't want to deal with a seed that isn't his.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Yep I see it mang. And dat "boys will be boys" can only be valid if dese brauds are ALLOWING dat kinda bullshyt to occur in da first place. If a single mom is seein a dood and buddy is showin lil to no real interest in INCLUDING her child/children in their courtship then it's on dat braud to get dem spidey senses up n poppn n tell dat nikka to go kick rocks. But unfortunately a good number of dese single moms recognize game (knowing bein a single mom doesn't exactly leave her much wiggle room for being "picky") and just accept dem ratchet ass nikkas for fear of bein alone.

It is what it is. All dat shyt coulda been avoided if some of em just stopped n put da condom on or just said no. Mah sympathy for dese strugglin single moms is strictly on a case by case situation but mah sympathy for dem kids is across da board.

I take it as a case by case basis as well. I just think the blame should be distributed equally. Chick shouldn't be fukking with a sorry ass dude. And dude shouldn't be a sorry ass dude.

 

[Just like bruddas]

I think there's a difference between helping each other, and doing another person's job.

Like when I was younger my mom told me, "I'll help you out with your finances as long as you're in school and have a job." That's helping out. Not, "do whatever you want, and I'll bail you out."

there is a big difference but it seems yall dont know the difference.

Mentoring isnt doing another mans job, its helping keep young males on the right path. Yall think spending time with them for 3 hours a day doing someone else job? Most of my kids come from single parent homes and usually their mother is at work at the time. Its not like yall buying them clothes, giving them money, taking care of them. Just showing them that its help and advice when they need it is more then enough.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

now that he's discovered a dictionary, he correctly applies "emphasize" to make his point. A pointless point, but he finally got it right.

But now he's creating arguments to "empahsize" another point that wasn't able to make the first go-around. Boy I love the inna net scholars on coli

All the smileys in the world can't hide your anger.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Ok so when little timmy lose his pops, his suburban community cuts him out or do they pretty much chip in and help raise him? Some white kid was in tears during his college graduation speech cuz his father was killed in iraq and thanks a least 7 families that chipped in, and paid for his classes and car and kept food in his mouth. He said without them he wouldnt have made it.

lil Juquan is smarter then timmy whom pops was killed in the streets when he was ten, but yet no ones gives a fukk bout him and he cant get the community full support. things dont work out for him, he drops out of school and well yall know the rest.

You bring up kids losing their dad due to the war in Iraq. That's not the same as paying for a woman's dumb choice in a man. I've always been in the suburbs and this whole "community raises him" idea doesn't really exist. It's not being "cut out". It's keeping it moving. Other groups aren't asking for handouts like people in the "hoods" are. People there want everyone to solve all their problems. The exceptions don't kill the rule either.

 

[theGoldmangod]

As long as women who look like this get wet for nikkas who look like this, young nikkas will emulate those sort of characteristics to get her.

It is what it is. Sorry for disrespecting the wave Max

You wanna bytch like that that don't want you, yet y'all be quick to tell these broads to date a nerdy frail nikka. Not to mention what type of personality do you think the hoe has if she out there like that? And that's who you nikkas want to wife and build with?

 

[Rawtid]

bein a single mom doesn't exactly leave her much wiggle room for being "picky")

LMAO!! Are you serious? You do realize that women do no impregnate themselves, so for every woman with a child, there is a man with a child. The pool of guys (especially black men over the age of 25 ) WITHOUT children is very small. Hell if he only has one that's great. So are you saying that only dudes without kids are a good catch?

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

LMAO!! Are you serious? You do realize that women do no impregnate themselves, so for every woman with a child, there is a man with a child. The pool of guys (especially black men over the age of 25 ) WITHOUT children is very small. Hell if he only has one that's great. So are you saying that only dudes without kids are a good catch?

fukk are you talmbout nikka?

 

[Rawtid]

You bring up kids losing their dad due to the war in Iraq. That's not the same as paying for a woman's dumb choice in a man. I've always been in the suburbs and this whole "community raises him" idea doesn't really exist. It's not being "cut out". It's keeping it moving. Other groups aren't asking for handouts like people in the "hoods" are. People there want everyone to solve all their problems. The exceptions don't kill the rule either.

If you won't invest in the child, then invest in the dude that didn't do his part to raise the child. You don't agree that a man who walks away from a life he helped create is clearly in need of help?

 

[Just like bruddas]

That's that simp shyt breh.

Coming for dudes that pretty much play tough but will buckle down for some p*ssy. Most of these guys are so out of touch with reality it sickens me
I mean nikkas would rather spend half of their day on here pming/simping chicks from 1000 miles away then go outside and get some, but yet them aint time for

 

[frush11]

I understand some of your, your be the first one to call someone a c00n, and complain about how fukked up the community is, and how we need to do better. But yet is fukk them kids and fukk them women.

What in the hell do your want. Or do most of your just like complaining, and having people to look down on?

 

[Rawtid]

fukk are you talmbout nikka?

You're saying that single mothers can't be picky as if there isn't a huge pool of single fathers out there to date.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I understand some of your, your be the first one to call someone a c00n, and complain about how fukked up the community is, and how we need to do better. But yet is fukk them kids and fukk them women.

What in the hell do your want.

lol wuh?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

The pool of guys (especially black men over the age of 25 ) WITHOUT children is very small.

Does it count if they don't actively claim them?

Let's be reality for a second, the older you get, the more single mothers you're going to come across. The Anti-Marriage brigade constantly harps on the high divorce rates so eventually a lot of single mothers in their 30s are going to hit the market. Then what?

 

[Sierra Mist]

If you won't invest in the child, then invest in the dude that didn't do his part to raise the child. You don't agree that a man who walks away from a life he helped create is clearly in need of help?

If a hole in the wall roach infested shop is out selling Wal-Mart do you think the shop owner will listen to the guy who owns the Wal-Mart?

In their minds they don't need help. They are fukking multiple women. They are in style. They are desired. No matter what someone says to them they don't want to listen and ultimately as long as they are in style, why SHOULD they listen?

People are pieces of shyt. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE TRYING TO SAVE THE WORLD. I tried to save the world before. People don't want to be saved. All I can do is laugh at them as they burn. I'd love to say I told you so.