Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Zapp Brannigan]

First of all, this thread is indicative of a more intense negative effect on gender politics in general.

If I can get a story in, here... my coworker was complaining to me that she recently lost her old group of female friends because they were talking about how one of the girls was dating a really great guy (that my friend was also friends with) and that she should trap him with a baby because then he would have to propose to her and he would have to marry her. This woman really was trying to get the clamps on some guy because he had a good job and seemed stable enough. No attention to whether he wanted this shyt to happen to him or not, she would just "forget" her birth control, get pregnant, then trap his ass in a marriage he didn't want to be in. Or shame him if he didn't wanna get married as a deadbeat. Needless to say, she warned him and he dumped her like a bad habit. When they found out why, she got dumped by her friends.

I fukking hate when women try to pull this shyt. You ever hear the stupid ass fukking shaming that these women do? "If you didn't want a baby, you should have kept your dikk in your pants!!" This implies that they weren't a part of the sex, too (spoiler alert: they were), and that women are held to the same standard. Imagine if someone were to tell women, "If you didn't want a baby your ass should have kept your damn legs closed!" There would be an outcry against sexism. Women everywhere would act like it was the man's responsibility to assume a child that they didn't want.

You can't trap a good man, you have to actually give him a reason to stay. Women these days seem to think that men automatically owe women something because she had an "accident" and became pregnant with his baby after seeing a dude for 6-7 months. That's not going to make a family, that's going to fukk your shyt up and you're not going to create a stable family relationship. He will secretly resent you and the child you had together.

Women also seem to think that by fukking people that they're empowered and that they are owed something for having a vagina and using it with tons of guys. I dated a girl who thought that the main character from "nurse Jackie" was sexually empowered because she cheated on her husband. You can imagine how fast I left that relationship. Women who do this shyt are not fukking impressive. Even a fat ugly bytch can get dikk. All she has to do is go to the local bar and find some wasted sailors on shore leave or desperate frat guys. Nothing that is easy is empowering. How does this relate? Women these days, even after getting married will still try to get extra D on the side just to prove that she's empowered and can do this.

As corny as it sounds, only love can really create a strong family relationship. And it has to come before the family begins to grow. Growing and maintaining a good family is empowering and beautiful, but it sure as fukk ain't easy.

 

[Wild self]

A couple of scraps? Scholarships and jobs are scraps?

What do you want people to do? Give them handouts? Tried that for decades. See where that has gotten them?

Haven't you been reading this thread? These people have limited time in this country. The culture they come from is dying out, thank God. Those that can't save themselves are doomed. The sooner these people are eliminated from the cultural landscape the better.

you may be a c o o n, but you right since the prototypical super extroverted black culture (a black family cookout, for example) didn't adapt well these last few years. I mean the fact that it's finally OK for the black "weirdo," the oreo black man, the black nerd, and the alternative black people to expresses themselves without social persecution. They were normally outcasts who are now getting positive attention. Which translates for the "normal" nicca forcing to do shyt that he doesn't normally do (wear rockstar clothing, listening to techno in clubs) in order to adapt to the times.

Blame Lil Wayne for the social trends, but the dysfunction is going to end...in a way that people don't expect it. The typical nappy headed black person may be a thing of the past and turn this into a fatter, sloppier, more rude version of Brazil in the not to distant future, thanks to mass interracial breeding.

 

[The Nigerian]

Yes, if they can't even make it to the jobs, or scholarships then yes, you are throwing scraps instead of actually trying to help.

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."

It's a cliché because it's true.

Scholarships and jobs ARE handouts.

You're an excuse making apologist. Your attitude is no better than the people that we're talking about (maybe you're one of them yourself)

Scholarships aren't hand outs. You need to do things to qualify for them, typically. Jobs aren't hand outs. You get one, you have to work to keep it.

I read all that other gobeldgook that you wrote afterwards about community blah blah blah blah. But you're just here to poo-poo demanding excellence. Sorry, but that's the only way to succede as a black person in this society. You gotta move mountains or you languish. America will never be a safe or fun place to be a loser, no matter how bad you want it to be. This is especially true if you're Black. But white people are quickly finding this out, too. 2008 leveled the playing field in a profound way.

Havn't you been reading the thread "these people" are having more babies than anyone else so unless someone steps in to help the children the cycle is destined to repeat itself.

The culture is the problem. The culture is on it's last legs. These people that perpetuate the culture are being pushed to the margins of society. In every aspect. Politically, socially, and even geographically. The new home for these people is not the city, where people are doing business and working. They're being pushed out to Flyover, USA... way out in the sticks. Way spread out. Far away from anywhere where they shake a change cup in my face. Don't believe me? Just look at New York.

That's my point. These poor inner-city kids don't know how to make use of opportunities that are made available to them. We can have all the social assistance programs in the world, but if theses kids don't even no how access and use these programs to their advantage, then they will never make anything of themselves.

More excuses. I hate to play this card, but you Americans are pathetic. Especially the Black Americans. See how easy it is for a good number of you to poo-poo opportunity?

Disgusting.

There are not very many positive examples of their friends and neighbors doing well, and starting families, with good positive relationships. Yeah they see wealthy black people on tv, but those people are just as foreign to them as the white folks on tv. And we are talking about KIDS, they don't know right from wrong unless somebody tells them.

The kids that are too dumb to figure it out end up dead, broke or in jail. The ones that aren't idiots succede. Simple as that. That's the way the world works, breh. It's tough out here.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

"You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink."

It's a cliché because it's true.

In this case the kids don't know how to drink or even what water is, Seing that they've never had a taste before. Your tired cliche doesn't work.

You're an excuse making apologist. Your attitude is no better than the people that we're talking about (maybe you're one of them yourself)

Scholarships aren't hand outs. You need to do things to qualify for them, typically. Jobs aren't hand outs. You get one, you have to work to keep it.

you have to do things to qualify for food stamps and cash assistance too.

I read all that other gobeldgook that you wrote afterwards about community blah blah blah blah. But you're just here to poo-poo demanding excellence. Sorry, but that's the only way to succede as a black person in this society. You gotta move mountains or you languish. America will never be a safe or fun place to be a loser, no matter how bad you want it to be. This is especially true if you're Black. But white people are quickly finding this out, too. 2008 leveled the playing field in a profound way.

The fukk is that supposed to mean

The culture is the problem. The culture is on it's last legs. These people that perpetuate the culture are being pushed to the margins of society. In every aspect. Politically, socially, and even geographically. The new home for these people is not the city, where people are doing business and working. They're being pushed out to Flyover, USA... way out in the sticks. Way spread out. Far away from anywhere where they shake a change cup in my face. Don't believe me? Just look at New York.

It's already been proven that these people are having the most babies, so the culture isn't going anywhere, the only way to fix the problem(culture) is to do something about it. And I think the best way to do this is to help the kids.

More excuses. I hate to play this card, but you Americans are pathetic. Especially the Black Americans. See how easy it is for a good number of you to poo-poo opportunity?

Disgusting.

Says the nigerian dude who was lucky enough that his parents made it to the land of opportunity, with these fukked up Americans.

And again is this poo poo shyt you keep talking about

The kids that are too dumb to figure it out end up dead, broke or in jail. The ones that aren't idiots succede. Simple as that. That's the way the world works, breh. It's tough out here.

I disagree, you and I had someone to teach us right from wrong, and how to navigate the world outside our own small communities, these kids don't, so I have no problem teaching them.

 

[The Nigerian]

You're the problem, dude.

You ain't teaching sh!t.

 

[frush11]

So you'd like to keep them at a distance, and throw them a couple scraps whenever you see fit?

Isn't that what they get now? It hasn't worked so far, so more needs to be done.

Like I said, you are as much of the problem as the worthless adults you like to talk about. The kids don't give a fukk cause the adults don't give a fukk on both sides of "the hood". These kids need positive influences and outlooks not scholarships.

You wasting your time, because they refuse to understand or even try to under the circumstances some people come and have to overcome.

It's very simple you put people in a positive healthy environment from day one, the majority will grow and become successful, but you people in fukked up, unstable, unhealthy environment, only a minority will make it.

 

[The Nigerian]

You wasting your time, because they refuse to understand or even try to under the circumstances some people come and have to overcome.

It's very simple you put people in a positive healthy environment from day one, the majority will grow and become successful, but you people in fukked up, unstable, unhealthy environment, only a minority will make it.

Yep. For good reason...

You really want a bunch of losers being able to persist and thrive? You want their lifestyle habits being rewarded? You want that poison in your society? They're being forced out of relevancy. Those that don't want to get with the program lose.

 

[Wild self]

pretty much


black women on some hitler shyt. they want the good black males genetics to die off while we raise their lil devil spawn kids.

People need to read this!

 

[↓R↑LYB]

2013 is almost here and I still ain't gonna mentor any of these lil nikkas. It's two people's responsibility to make sure these fukk nikkas in training turn out right. They moms and they pops.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

People need to read this!

Why would I read the words of a known c00n

 

[Real N Quotes]

submission to God is the only solution to the so called negro's problem in Amerikkka...black man or woman, to break the cycle of poverty, death, prison, disease and insanity one must decide to follow the glorious path of righteousness...EVEN IF IT MEANS LEAVING OTHERS BEHIND

 

[winb83]

Ghetto hood nicca mentality and its funny how most of the male posters are obvious products of single moms. How about you tell niccas to stop stickin their dycks in any ol bytch especially if he cant see the bytch being the mother of his child. Mane i tell you these young azz black males these days are really bytch made brag about fukkin and raw doggin strippers,escorts,prostitutes and all the ratchet shyt i seen on here but then when the bytch gets pregnant you run away from your responsibilties as a man. Lmaooo black males are worthless as hell glad i got my six figure a year educated white guy

how about the black women that get pregnant and end up carrying to term babies they can't afford to have or take care of on their own?

a child isn't a fukking pet dog. you don't have a child just because you're lonely and want companionship or because you want a living baby doll to show off and brag about. a child is your legacy. the decision to have a child should only be made when one can afford to take care of and provide for the child. when one can give that child everything it needs to have the best chance for success in life including a whole healthy family. you owe it to your child to being them into the world in an optimal situation.

yet despite this we have women irresponsibly having children they can't really provide for because they know the state will help them, because they know that child can produce income for them by just being born.

 

[Wild self]

As long as women who look like this get wet for nikkas who look like this, young nikkas will emulate those sort of characteristics to get her.

It is what it is. Sorry for disrespecting the wave Max

Man, if people understood this halfway, then progress can be made.

 

[blackslash]

This pretty much sums up my thoughts on this thread

 

[TheNig]

I like how shyt like this puts the onus. Completely on the black man who has absolutely nothing to do with that shyt and alleviates the black woman who made the wrong choices of everything.

It's almost 2013. bytches need to stop pointing the finger and do for themselves.