Black people need more patriarchy not less

[TripleAgent]

Over 60% of black households in America are headed by women. It’s been well known that boys from fatherless homes are more likely to resort to crime and have LOTS of other issues, allow me to break down the depth of the problem:

• 70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
  
  
• 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (U.S. Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.
  
  
• 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.
  
  
• 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
  
  
• 80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol. 14, p. 403-26)
  
  
• 71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
  
  
• Father Factor in Education – Fatherless children are twice as likely to drop out of school

The way I see it, given the dismal state of black fathers, the black community doesn’t have enough patriarchy.

We are literally being run by women and it’s not working.

GMB I hope your listening ouchea

Go on Twitter with this and link it back. The comments would be hilarious.



I agree, BTW

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

nikka pulled em stats out of his a$$hole

 

[Bossino]

The number of young men seeking role models in the wrong places and screw their lives over want to have their word with you

I and most black folk are well aware of this but this is due to not having a present/involved father which is in turn due to women chooding shytty men to get pregnant by. Meanwhile women like Angela Simmons are regular occurrences, coming from stable 2 parent homes and goimg full tard. That's why I say women are more impressionable. That doesn't mean men aren't susceptible it just means women are moreso

 

[Thethirdpew]

Religion needs to be reinstated in society

Its profitable

Divorce is profitable. Child support arrangements are profitable. Repeated failed marriages is profitable. Programming most american women into delusional consumerist is HELLA profitable.


You think the govt wants you to have 1 stable lifelong marriage? You think they want you at home content with just collecting tax breaks all day instead of stimulating industries through dating, marrying and divorcing over and over?

Nah. They programmed a generation of ppl addicted to the dopamine fix of buying trinkets and reduce relationships to sponsors, tricks, sugar daddies etc. Game set match

Also, women are net consumers. Studies have shown that women take out more loans than men and are more active in the consumer based economy.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Religion needs to be reinstated in society

Its profitable

Divorce is profitable. Child support arrangements are profitable. Repeated failed marriages is profitable. Programming most american women into delusional consumerist is HELLA profitable.


You think the govt wants you to have 1 stable lifelong marriage? You think they want you at home content with just collecting tax breaks all day instead of stimulating industries through dating, marrying and divorcing over and over?

Nah. They programmed a generation of ppl addicted to the dopamine fix of buying trinkets and reduce relationships to sponsors, tricks, sugar daddies etc. Game set match

/thread. This is also why divorce courts usually favor the woman. Most bachelors are frugal compared to their married counterparts. Gotta have that new car and that new house to keep the wife happy. We're a consumer based economy; the last thing the government wants is less Americans consuming. This is also one of the reasons why the elites went crazy a few years ago when they realized that the diamond industry is dying (less people getting married)

 

[Thethirdpew]

But marriage and strong relationships, that create families, is called nation building..

Since nobody it talking about building up the black community, there's no need to talk about marriage and relationships..

One of the main reasons most people are GMB is because we're too far gone. The matriarch and its values has been normalized so there's no point in getting married. As for those of you doubting the patriarchy, take a look at East Asian housrholds. They follow patriarchy to a tee (in Japan women pretty much need to choose a career or child rearing.... theres no middle ground).

 

[Thethirdpew]

nikka pulled em stats out of his a$$hole

These are all easily accessible online. You raised by a single mother breh .
Here you go, since you lazy asf https://www.fixfamilycourts.com/sin...f runaways, 70%,come from single mother homes.

 

[BlackJesus]

nikka pulled em stats out of his a$$hole

Gave the actual references in the bullet points numb nuts. Read and look them up yourself

 

[Thethirdpew]

Literally one of the lowest IQ posters on this website.

Dude uses a personal anecdote to make his point. Statistics say otherwise.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Might as well change the thread title because it is 50-11 pages of Ciara, Russel, and Bow Wow bullshyt.

Y’all have the attention span of a toddler. Can’t even stay on task with the topic at hand without getting caught up in shyt about Ciara that doesn’t even matter.

The real issue is men simply choosing Not to be leaders. Not leaders of themselves, leaders for their households, not leaders for their kids... Nothen. Leadership has lost its value to many men. A lot of men don’t even attempt or try to do any true heavy lifting that can benefit the collective.

However.. ima let y’all cook.

Dumb nikkas took control of the thread and derailed it

 

[Thethirdpew]

someone who doesn’t care wouldn’t argue about it for as long as you did

Female "bay area" . I got a question. Why are all the gyms closed up here? Yes I realize that we in a pandemic but when I was in san siego they at least had outdoor gyms setup. I'm sitting here in cupertino trying to find the spots where people got outdoors gyms setup. Mind helping put a breh . I honestly can't do this no working put shyt no more .

 

[Thethirdpew]

Before I get to the other misconceptions in this thread, I gotta start with this. You're one the better posters too, but you're talking about an effect/symptom of the problem not the root cause. A good father teaches a boy standards, how to maneuver, and get things done consistently. In essence how to plan, manage and be responsible. Those three aspects comprise leadership. If these good men are not seen as desirable they won't get the opportunity to pass this knowledge on to their own children. Moreover if the number of women who find them desirable is too low in their community, they'll either quit or move to a different community. I say that to say something @Dallas' 4 Eva @Youseenmywork and others on this forum if they're honest can attest to.

In the U.S. the average black woman, due to media (music, movies, TV), upbringing, and environment is more attracted to black men with an edge/dangerous element. IT DOESN'T matter how legitimate this is aka wanna-be-thug/fake gangsta, nor the tier of edge weedman, scammer, moving work, gang member. With looks being equal if these type of men are put against "square" men who work regular 9-5s the majority of black women 18-25 are choosing the former. There's a ton of reasons for this but the short term thinking is in the forefront edge dudes tend to have flash to themselves, tend to spend, show more aggression/masculinity even when unnecessary, they don't necessarily feel pressed to save/plan for the future and are usually have more "mouthpiece" as they have more downtime to shoot game at women. Conversely 9-5 dudes generally have less energy/mouthpiece due to lack of free time, don't want to waste their money, because they know making it is most of their day. These guys are usually more reserved and less overt.

In the long term 9-5 dudes not only survive but if they don't fukk up there money and if they get promotions/gain experience end up ok, but in the short term black women 18-25 see that as boring and the antithesis to the protecting/providing/edgy baller. It's only after they hit a wall and often end up with a child that they seek these regular stable "square" 9-5 men. In growing amounts these "square" men are holding grudges against they type of women who dubbed them when they younger and now want them after almost a decade of them working hard and being more or less alone. Chiefly due to the fact they see the legal financial stability and safety they can provide. So if this is the leadership you're speaking on that again falls on spousal selection. I know a ton of solid brehs who black women just aren't checking for, yet.

Well written post. I gotta add that this isn't a circumstance exclusive to black America. In fact, this phenomenon is happening across all cultures in America (with the exception of Asians). The rate of single mothers is going up among white and Hispanic women as well.

 

[Thethirdpew]

Makes perfect sense. And as a woman there is only so much I’m aware of from a mans perspective when it comes to the challenges of leading. When it comes to the challenges of our culture around spousal selection. Many women grow up desiring a man who is ambitious and not on no “bad boy” shyt. However, i think a lot of it is upbringing, varying values in social classes along with age and what you mentioned above. Women from the hood may not be exposed to a man who went to law school and desires to build a strong family unit and leave a legacy for his kids. They are more likely to choose who they are exposed to. It’s a vicious cycle. But I agree, what I mentioned was merely the effect of a deeper more complex issue at hand.

The thing is that an overwhelming amount of us grow up in low income hpuseholds. These factors will shape the kind of men that black women choose. You can see thst same pattern in low income hispanic households.

 

[Thethirdpew]

What "consequences" do you want to see women get for making bad dating choices when they are young?

I hope you're not trolling. Becoming a single mother is a consequence in itself. Most men don't want to step up and be that step dad because you will always be second to their real dad. Ive personally seen a kid say "you're not my dad" to his step dad. Dude looked like he was about to break down after that .imagine raising a child who isn't yours only to end up in second place .

 

[Thethirdpew]

We should stop impregnating women that aren't marriage material.

Black men are actually more involved with their children than men of other races but the economics of not being in the same home can be an issue.

Again though, as brehs, we can't demand patriarchy if we don't act like patriarchs. No more raw-doggin every other woman we fukk. Focus on finding a wife and getting married first....plenty of sistas out there.

We gotta lead from the front.

Women are the choosers my guy. Don't be disingenuous