Black people: NEPOTISM is NOT BAD. Stop hating on it, and start doing it for YOUR kids.

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As with anything, there are levels to it.

Example of when it's ok: If I'm a doctor and my son gets an infection, I'm using my connections to get him to the front of the line for the best care.
Example of when it's not ok: I'm a doctor who attended a prestigious medical school. My son wants to be a doctor but doesn't have the grades or the desire; he just a coli poster who heard that doctors get bytches. I use my connections to get him into medical school anyway, possibly filling a spot that could've been used by a student with more passion.
Well if this was what we talking about I agree but thought we were moreso on example A than B.
 

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Smh I hope you nikkas don't have young kids, or are planning on having kids saying this shyt. If you're not having kids that's different, but i know most in here are.

The selfish mentality you nikkas on here have is the reason why your kids aren't going to get shyt passed down to them. You're happily continuing this cycle.

Your reasoning is that since your parents didn't pass you anything, you shouldn't pass your kids anything either. "Ain't nobody give ME no handouts! So why should my KIDS get a handout from ME?"

Generation Y nikkas need to build, you don't have as much as an excuse as our parents did because we have access to more technology and opportunities than they did. Instead of bashing nepotism and calling it a "handout", why not try to build something for your (future) kids and put them on
That's what I say to men that are comfortable staying broke, should avoid having children at any time of their life. It's guys like him that will force his children to seek out jobs from big corporations only to get denied job because his child doesn't fit the requirements or they have to go college and get into an extraordinary amount of debt till they doubtfully pay it off in their lifetime. I really hate men that think they are the shyt because they can have kids, but in reality, the're the biggest losers as they don't own a business, land, any type of property or even a car, they only thing these buggers own is a second hand PS4 and phone.
 

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A massive mental brainwashing amongst blacks must happen first to reverse our current way of thinking.

Common sense spit by the OP but most won't see it that way.

I hope the views of alot of you aren't the average black persons way of thinking
General folk have a hard time processing and understanding pragmatism. They are too conventional in thinking due to media, parents, and academia.
 

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Some people rather make excuses over building for their children and grandchildren. How you raise kids, and have no assets to pass down ?

"B b b bu but they are soft if you give them a position. They gotta grind and be broke before they can stunt in the club"
That's literally backward's thinking. I don't know how these knuckle draggers want their children to suffer the burdens of life, when they themselves are probably suffering currently or before due to parents selfish choices. Logically a sane human wouldn't want their children to experience the same financial burdens as they did. Some these punks are way too docile and selfish to not understand the importance of owning any type of asset.
 

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nepotism is bad

Sure it may be.......but every other race does it and lives with the consequences good and bad from it

why the fukk should black people be any different? because you want to set a better example?

fukk outta here
 

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Im from congo and i see this all the time
I will do the same thing for my familly or close friends:ehh:
 

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That's literally backward's thinking. I don't know how these knuckle draggers want their children to suffer the burdens of life, when they themselves are probably suffering currently or before due to parents selfish choices. Logically a sane human wouldn't want their children to experience the same financial burdens as they did. Some these punks are way too docile and selfish to not understand the importance of owning any type of asset.

It definitely is backwards. I've been noticing this for awhile, and based on what i've seen, a lot of black americans believe in something that no one else does. That help from your parents or relatives is weak, and that non-blacks who acquired ownership did it without any help. It's like we don't get that they pool their money together, open a business, hire each other etc. That's how they get it in the first place. Black people have fell for the "individualistic" spiel, meanwhile other races are pooling money together, building businesses, hiring each other and practicing group economics. But we think this individualistic mentality is winning, when it is really failing. That's why brehs are proud to come on here saying that their kids "aren't getting a handout" :gucci:

We don't get how this stuff works. That's exactly why nikkas used to laugh at Indians and Mexicans clothing or "swag", or how they lived with their fam, pooling their money together. Now fast forward years later, they can't laugh at them because you see them with business ownership and land ownership. We only think about TODAY, so we didn't see what their end goal was, we saw them wearing clothes from Wal Mart and living together and thought they were going to stay in that position, but they were working together to OWN something. Now many have businesses, real estate, can afford better cars, better clothes or what they want.

Our definition/view of "independence" is way off too. We think renting some little place, living check to check, working some mediocre 9 to 5 under a bunch of white ppl is being independent. No, OWNERSHIP is independence. And to get to the point of ownership, you often need to work with your family or friends or someone. Some ppl get there all by themselves, but most had help from family and there's no shame in it. I don't know when black ppl in general will get this :snoop:Seems like we would have caught on to what everyone else is doing by now
 
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I think people just want the right people for the job at the end of the day. Just because they’re family, doesn’t mean they’re right for the job. The concept of a “hook up” is very sketchy.
 
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Yeah, yeah, i know not ALL of us hate on nepotism, but many do. I'm not the only one who noticed this either because other threads have been made about it in the past:
Why is nepotism frowned upon in the Black community?

Nepotism - the practice among those with power or influence of favoring relatives or friends, especially by giving them jobs. It usually takes the form of employing relatives or appointing them to high office. It is based on favor granted in various fields, including business, politics, entertainment, sports, religion and other activities.

That being said, Black people need to get rid of this mentality that "starting from the bottom" and struggling every generation makes you "realer" and noble. Stop glamorizing it. "They ain't start from the bottom...their PARENTS put them on!" That's GOOD...if being a real nikka is about starting from the bottom, pressing the RESET button every generation, then i don't want to be a real nikka then :dame:

We need to break this anti-nepotism mentality and start practicing it with our own kids/relatives. NEPOTISM IS NOT BAD/WRONG. Stop hating on it and DO IT.

When i was about 15, i worked in my dad's business. I also would assist him with maintaining houses he owned or picking up rent from tenants after i got my license etc
And even though this was real work, there were some other black people my age (or even older) who would hate on me for it, because they had to work at McDonald's or Wendy's, and act like i wasn't as "real" because i didn't have to work some fast food job under a bunch of white managers.

I also think some of the hate was due to the fact i enjoyed working for my Pops. i didn't hate my job, it was work, but i didn't hate it. I also got to see firsthand how you run a business. Other nikkas would be mad about having to go clock in at Bojangles and slaving for white ppl, but i liked my job. Now i am a landlord myself and also have my own business, but i may not have if it weren't for learning from my father. My father did what he was supposed to.

I get that not everyone can do the same thing my dad did. But, you can at least do something on a smaller scale. At least have a decent savings and investments. And teach them financial literacy.


Agreed.

I always like to point to the Wayans family as an example of Black excellence through Neptism.

That nikka Keenan was a goddamn GENIUS. He put EVERY SINGLE ONE of his siblings on and now the entire family PLUS Their kids are eating
 
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But seriously, black people really need to get off this lame "moral high ground" stuff because nobody cares. At the end of the day it's about what you own, and your family being set. Jimmy Wong isn't feeling guilty for hiring his daughter as a manager in his business, or using your money to buy another house etc. Black people are stuck on this moral high ground stuff, "oh it ain't right! i ain't doin that!" Look, nobody's giving out merit badges or medals for you refusing to do something. Nobody cares. Moral victories are for minor league coaches.

Other races view economics as being similar to a sport, they have their own team they're on, but most black people don't want to play with our own team, we don't want to work together, don't want to pool money together, etc and somehow think you can win the game as an individual. That's why you aren't winning the game (numbers don't lie). You might score a point here or there but you won't beat them or even compete on their level as an individual.

"So what if they're taking over black communities....they didn't do it honestly...they cheated....at least i have morals!" :mjlol:

Indians will open a business and hire their brother or friend as a manager and put nothing but Indians in the rest of the positions, and not feel an ounce of guilt about it. We'll sit around talking about how it's not fair instead of trying to do it ourselves.
 
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Agreed.

I always like to point to the Wayans family as an example of Black excelelnce through Neptism.

That nikka Keenan was a goddamn GENIUS. He put EVERY SINGLE ONE of his siblings on and now the entire family PLUS Their kids are eating

Stan and Sanaa Lathan too :wow:
 

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America wouldn't exist without the nepotism of white slave owners passing down their fortunes/property and human slaves (that they didn't work for and inherited from their parents) down to their kids so they could do the same and repeat the process.


Any black person against it should be neutered




Trump got his whole damn unqualified family in the white house with jobs

Exactly!!!
 

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A story on nepotism

My boy is an assistant manager at a Wal-Mart. Within his first month there he suggested a few black brehs for department manager roles. Word got around and one cac who's been working there for 7 years decided to call Wal-Mart HQ and report him for Anti-White discrimination. His reason was he's been there for as long as he has and hasn't been offered a promotion :upsetfavre:

Nepotism is definitely the key. My mother occupies senior level positions in several hospitals and always hooks up black women over these cacs. She tells me about all these ex-dope fiend cacs who get walked right through the process by their counter parts. The way my moms even got one of her senior positions is because another black woman who occupied the position suggested my mother and greased a few elbows for her to get the job. If you're against us doing this then you're playing to lose because for instance in the hospital field these latino's do it, the Filipino's do it and you'd be a dumbass to not play the game.​
 
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