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I often think like I'm too busy right now to fukk around with women, but honestly that's just a lie I tell others when they ask me why I'm single. The real truth is, women don't want to fukk around with me :yeshrug: and I think the same would apply for a lot of men who say this type of thing. That team ugly card is usually the real reason. Saying you're too busy pouring everything into your career and into achieving some goals is just to provide a reason for being single which isn't as painful as admitting the truth to others.
 

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Nah, she wants to get married but the guy wants to wait a bit longer. And she lives in the UK, while the BF spends most of his time in LA chasing his dream as a video director. I believe she just feels threatened most of the time due to how the guy is always surrounded by video models due to the nature of his career and also the distance. But their parents have already blessed the union. She also wants a kid but he isn't ready for that now.

I suspect she paid Shaderoom to put that post on summerjam screen. :russ:


Come to the UK and you'll meet bad naij chics. And since you're American, you'll eat the same way us man eat in the US.

This is her BF -- man like Daps the tallest




That's hilarious if she really did that. :mjlol: Talk about investing in a dude. She might be a keeper for that. Comes off kinda flattering to me.
 

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These chicks live in a fukking cloud of their own. 99% of them ain't fukking with nikkas who really working his soul, mind out, 70-100 hour work weeks brehs who only come home to sleep. Make up any excuse for why they are still single

This isnt a relationship. Like at all. So I dont blame them..............
 

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This isnt a relationship. Like at all. So I dont blame them..............
A lot of guys feel like they cant have a relationship AND work on a career at the same time. Which is really just as excuse.

Career and height of career are 2 different things. Wife, children, family, dealing with someone else's needs/want is a job within itself. It's been shown too many times that woman will hold you back in achieving things because their needs are vastly different than man. A big mistake a lot of young dudes make are getting with chicks seriously before they have their career moving in a direction. People don't know how to balance one or the other or to determine which one is more important at which stage in their lives.
The only type of woman who understand these kind of guys are just has busy working or grew up with fathers/mothers who were hustling everyday. Smart woman who want these type of man or look after these types, play in a supportive role to enhance a man success. A lot of them, just want the imagery of success like shorty is showing in her IG.
 

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I need some of you lurkers who going to run back and tell this chick about the coli...

ASK HER THIS QUESTION

WILL SHE BE WITH A BROKE BROTHER WHO'S WORKING ON HIS CAREER TO BE A DENTIST, LAWYER, REAL ESTATE AGENT, ETC, ETC WHO DOESN'T HAVE A REAL JOB YET, EAT NOODLES EVERY NIGHT CAUSE HE PAYING FOR SCHOOL AND DRIVES A 1987 CHEVY WITH A SPARE TIRE ON IT AND HE HAS LIKE 5 YEARS OF SCHOOL YET AND ANOTHER 3 YEARS TO BE SET IN HIS CAREER..

DO SHE HAVE TIME TO WAIT???? I GUARANTEE NOT... LOOK AT HER PICTURE, SHE WANT THE WHOLE NINE RIGHT OUT THE PACKAGE WITHOUT BEING IN THE OVEN


FOH HOE
 

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Career and height of career are 2 different things. Wife, children, family, dealing with someone else's needs/want is a job within itself. It's been shown too many times that woman will hold you back in achieving things because their needs are vastly different than man.
The only type of woman who understand these kind of guys are just has busy working or grew up with fathers/mothers who were hustling everyday. Smart woman who want these type of man or look after these types, play in a supportive role to enhance a man success. A lot of them, just want the imagery of success like shorty is showing in her IG.
Just because you support your spouse/boyfriend/whatever, doesnt mean you can or want to put up with NEVER seeing them. Only being home long enough to sleep? No matter how much you ride, or want to hold it down, that is in no way a HEALTHY relationship. Point Blank. I mean, if its for a short amount of time thats one thing. Long term? It would be naive to think that it wouldnt be detrimental to even the strongest relationship.
 

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These women can be desperate sometimes. :mjgrin:

But she's a good girl and she won the most beautiful girl pageant at her uni when she was there. Her grandad was also a prominent Yoruba king and she's doing well for herself. Her parents are also well off.

But Daps is just normal London nikka trying to take his time because nikkas aren't getting married out here like that. And Daps used to be a rapper however, after his half-brother, Luti (he directed Jay-z and Kanye's 'nikkaz in Paris' video), showed him how to direct videos and he got with Migos, he hasn't looked back since then. My man is just trying to milk that and all the other links he's getting for now. He is like 30/31 now and she should be around my age at 27/28. That's why she's going nuts. :russ:


I can't say I blame him. I salute that man and am rooting for him. And that's not taking a side either cuz one has to be empathetic to women trying to get hitched. But breh is living his life. I'm happy for him.
 
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