Black woman calls out single men

[Larry Lambo]

True for some not for others.

Some men have to reach their pinnacle to find the right woman, while others can build with a Day 1-2 chick.

For every Lebron, there's a D-Wade.

For every Denzel, there's a Will Smith.

 

[MMA]

Just because you support your spouse/boyfriend/whatever, doesnt mean you can or want to put up with NEVER seeing them. Only being home long enough to sleep? No matter how much you ride, or want to hold it down, that is in no way a HEALTHY relationship. Point Blank. I mean, if its for a short amount of time thats one thing. Long term? It would be naive to think that it wouldnt be detrimental to even the strongest relationship.

Social platforms are telling, he is posting his work 24/7. She is posting what she wants out of life. 2 different seeds, hard working woman on SM like to let the world know they are making moves.
You telling me short amount of time? You think a doctor, a lawyer or whatever will slow down when they are at the height of their career. I've dealt with enough woman and my girl now. Who understands you want someone who works from morning to night. You need to pen yourself into their schedule and deal with possibility of not seeing them often. What I've found is the woman who usually will be okay with this are go getters themselves.


Some woman just need to come to the conclusion that the man whose ambition comes first ain't for them. You are not prepared for someone who can only be around when they can.
You want all the benefit but zero of the sacrifice. No established professional only works a "short amount" of time to get where they are at. That's why I advise brehs, marry a woman with similar ambition/movements. If they don't follow that suite you are putting yourself through a battle you are not suppose to face. They will never understand the drive

 

[Rockstar Mom]

What woman need to do is start actually giving Solutions or Answers to what they want or think is fair. You telling me short amount of time? You think a doctor, a lawyer or whatever will slow down when they are at the height of their career. I've dealt with enough woman and my girl now. Who understands you want someone who works from morning to night. You need to pen yourself into their schedule and deal with possibility of not seeing them often. What I've found is the woman who usually will be okay with this are go getters themselves.
Some woman just need to come to the conclusion that the man who is ambition comes first ain't for them. You are not prepared for someone who can only be around when they can.

I feel like people make time for the things they want, and whats important for them. These same doctors and lawyers have kids right? Do you neglect your parental duties because you're at work/school? Same thing. You can make time for your partner if you really wanted to. Of course I'm not saying yall are going to be up under each other all the time. Thats unrealistic even for people in non stressful careers. But you still need to make some time.

 

[ORDER_66]

most women don't want you when your broke and most don't want to grind with you, and most don't believe in you accomplishing your dreams... Soooooooooo......

Even my own mother has no faith in my vision cause all she cares about is working a straight 9-5 I give her the too...

 

[Cynic]

In as much as you can't blame most men because it's easier to get the woman of your dreams when you're made and getting one when you're building/struggling, I agree with her.

Sometimes you just have to tie a good woman down even if you're not where you want to be and hope she'll provide the needed support system for you to continue to build. You never know, certain women are like unicorns and they're irreplaceable.

She;s citing history when women had no career options, less entitlement,lower standards
and had real consequences for sh!t.

These girls are now miles removed from that.

but continue spreading this "unicorn" propaganda,like a girl doesn't turn 18
every couple seconds.

 

[MMA]

I feel like people make time for the things they want, and whats important for them. These same doctors and lawyers have kids right? Do you neglect your parental duties because you're at work/school? Same thing. You can make time for your partner if you really wanted to. Of course I'm not saying yall are going to be up under each other all the time. Thats unrealistic even for people in non stressful careers. But you still need to make some time.

You are right but let's be honest the doctors running sectors of the hospitals are not being attentive to their kids or wife like some others can. It's impossible. That doctor chooses what events to go to, what time and how to maximize his time with his family but is it ever enough, probably not. I think Nelly said it on some interview. The average man is with a woman for 5 years and sees her everyday. I'm with this woman for 5 years and probably see her a few times a month.
Just read up on Elon Musk struggle. Dude asked if 10 hours a week is enough for a woman. Now honestly ask yourself if you are good with seeing someone from 9pm to 11pm everyday. Most people honestly won't answer yes and be really okay with it.

My girl pens herself into lunch dates, staying over some nights, staying over the weekend between each other places. Understands some weekends I'm working from home or at the office or traveling. I try to make my effort and my limited time for her too but I know deep down most woman even man are not down for that limited amount of time with their other.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

She’s threatened because she has nothing to offer him long term. If her videos and lack of credentials are any indication, she relies on her looks and she has no real career ( just speculation)
When all you have is vagina competition is fierce.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

You are right but let's be honest the doctors running sectors of the hospitals are not being attentive to their kids or wife like some others can. It's impossible. That doctor choices what events to go to, what time and how to maximize his time with his family but is it ever enough. Probably never. I think Nelly said it on some interview. The average man is with a woman for 5 years and sees her everyday. I'm with this woman for 5 years and probably see her a few times a month.
Just read up on Elon Musk struggle. Dude asked if 10 hours a week is enough for a woman. Now honestly ask yourself if you are good with seeing someone from 9pm to 11pm everyday. Most people honestly won't answer yes and be really okay with it.

My girl pens herself into lunch dates, staying over some nights, staying over the weekend between each other places. Understands some weekends I'm working from home or at the office or traveling. I try to make my effort and my limited time for her too but I know deep down most woman even man are not down for that limited amount of time with their other.

There was a time I only saw my man on the weekends, because he moves to the state over for work. It sucked. Like it REALLY sucked. I dealt with it because I knew it was something he had to do, and it benefited us of course. But even with the benefits, there was no way I could've done that arrangement for years. I just cant. I dont think that women dont want to build with a man. I think women(and men) dont like the feeling of being alone in a relationship, because what would be the point? Thats being human tho.

 

[MegaTronBomb!]

There is nothing "ironic" about her counter argument...nor is the notion of making sure you got your shyt together before you seek out a mate somehow flawed thinking.

Most of these arguments aren't even presented to bring clarity,discussion or an alternate POV to such issues, their only intent is to start shyt and further divisive ass stances

 

[Originalman]

more bull shyt from crazy folks on social media.

Actually a lot of men look to be at the height of their career before marrying is because society places a salary range on how much a man (some times women) should make before getting married.

You actually got men thinking they can't get married until they make 6 figures. shyt is mind boggling cause most men will never make that much and if they do some may be in their 40s and 50s by that time.

 

[MMA]

There was a time I only saw my man on the weekends, because he moves to the state over for work. It sucked. Like it REALLY sucked. I dealt with it because I knew it was something he had to do, and it benefited us of course. But even with the benefits, there was no way I could've done that arrangement for years. I just cant. I dont think that women dont want to build with a man. I think women(and men) dont like the feeling of being alone in a relationship, because what would be the point? Thats being human tho.

That's why you get with someone with similar drive. A busy woman is too busy to worry about her busy man

 

[Originalman]

Also you can go on any college campus and see single dudes getting husband up after graduating.

On the real the difference in those kats is they girls/wives were looking to find a mate while in college. Instead of pulling the whole bull shyt about trying to only find a mate when they graduated and started their career.

 

[BeeCityRoller]

You can't talk about how men achieved greatness with a woman by his side in the old days, when most of todays women are running on the new clock. Most women like her very liberal, corporate-minded, and dependent on attention/validation (as evidenced by social media handles). That does not compliment marriage well.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

A lot of women come off as tone deaf to me. It's like they don't understand basic struggles that men go through and can't even relate to a perspective other than their own.

Plenty of men would love to have a loyal woman by their side but good luck finding that if you're a dude that's still in the struggle stage of your climb towards success. A lot of women can't stick with a man through their down periods in life and even then they do it leads to them finding a reason to leave the dude eventually.

 

[AlainLocke]

Why bytches like to act like they are a damn asset and help nikkas do shyt anyway?

If a man is going to be great, he going to be great without the chick...like that's a no brainer...that's why you are with him...

There ain't no man sitting around, a bum ass dude and then gets a wife and some kid, and then he great...


Let's be real, being great, requires a motherfukker to be alone and do shyt alone, and not listening to other people.


It requires sacrifice.

And I mean to be great. Not to finish grad school or whatever or get a six figure job, none of that shyt. But to be a historical motherfukker.

I ain't having a wife and kids and have them fukk up my life with their neediness and attention whoring.