Main issue with most men. You want to share YOUR world and not a world you build together. Treat women like an accessory or piece of furniture that you just add in and then get confused about why you can’t find a decent woman. “Good” women are building worlds of their own and not trying to abandon that to live within your dream. Now a Days women just want a decent partnership and men aren’t willing to be that unless they feel they have pursued all their dreams, no matter how unrealistic they are.
Black woman calls out single men
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Working on yourself is great but how long should someone wait? nikkas be out here 40 years old talking about “living out dreams”, sir you have bills, children and households you’re neglecting in the process.Working on yourself requires a certain level of focus, sacrifice and selfishness
Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to even entertain the thought of me not being able to make it without them
If she's not there when you're ready then she wasn't meant to be there
Elle Driver
Veteran
You gotta be patient.
channelblond
Banned
She is right that you don't have to be at the height of your career to settle down, because not every-man will reach his potential.
Like my mother said no woman wants to starve. I doubt she will be attracted to a brother stacking shelves for minimum wage.
At the end of the day, you need to focus on financial independence, before you settle with a woman.
Like my mother said no woman wants to starve. I doubt she will be attracted to a brother stacking shelves for minimum wage.
At the end of the day, you need to focus on financial independence, before you settle with a woman.
My bad, wrong choice of words and inability to make my point a mutual thing, on my part. Obviously, if I'm willing to share the most intricate parts of my life with someone, I expect it to be a two-way street.
I don't view women as an accessory/appendage. Relationship is a partnership that works best when it's done based on teamwork although the two worlds have to overlap and everything has to be mutually inclusive. But I've to be the team leader, though.
Precisely why that 40 year old dude should've took the time earlier in life to work on himself before piling those responsibilities on
The relationship shouldn't be a burden to either party
Just hold me when I'm down and I'll always carry you. 
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
The rest of us knew exactly what you meant breh. You dont want to be the one seen as the piggy backer and you want to contribute your fair share before you get with someone. You want to take care of your worries so it doesnt transfer over and affect your partner. And by you having your shyt together, you expect the woman to have hers together too
Damned if we do, damned if we dont huh
Right?
"Dreams" doesnt always mean, Rockstar Life. You can chase dreams while in your field and be on time with bills. Some people within their field go from a high paying salary, to a lower paying job WITHIN that SAME field because they were happier. That can be considered dream chasing
Btw my dad quit his corporate job which he could retire at 50 at, to start his own business and it wasnt super successful til his 40's. My mother told me to fukk the corporate life (have a degree in FInance as a safety net, gonna get masters) and to travel and pursue my real dreams before responsibilities. There are good women who understand life, not selfish bag chasers.
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channelblond
Banned
Facts
She is British/ Nigerian, so she was reared to hustle
She is physically attractive so she has options, so the average or broke brother is not pulling a girl like that.
She knows this. She is fishing for retweets
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I'd advise against settling down in any Western country. The fail safes to develop a stable family
are gone and I don't need to get into the judicial bias when it comes men.
I agree..you should lock her down but only in Saudi Arabia.
Picture a woman calling any man a "unicorn" in todays world
I went to the future to talk an older version of you and here is what he said
about you when you found "good woman" ...
One last thing.......
Get Married Brehs
:gmbrehs:
A woman like that has a different perspective on things because of her option.
She's not talking about dudes who make 35k a year, she talking about multi millionaires.
FWIW the average woman don't have access or the ability to pull a multi millionaire dude either. That don't stop them from dreaming tho.
She's not talking about dudes who make 35k a year, she talking about multi millionaires.
FWIW the average woman don't have access or the ability to pull a multi millionaire dude either. That don't stop them from dreaming tho.
Whore...... but all jokes aside.she's only referring to men who have a clear direction to being successful or wealthy. She's threatened.
It's mad annoying when a chick wants to build with you. Build by yourself and if we meet up with equally successful careers then so be it if not ok, I'll just get a submissive chick.
Most men have different responsibilities, taking care of their mama and being the head of a family - if your blessed financially that comes with the territory.
Last thing you want to do is argue with your live in gf over giving your mom's $1000- it's going to turn from "lets build together to, why the hell you giving out money we don't have".
Plus the grind/ struggle is sweat when you do it all alone.
Nowadays women want dominion not a partnership.They want it all.
To have intrinsic value in fertility, looks while also having resources
and power in relationships and also attention at all times.
Imagine if Tesla and The Wright brothers had been realistic ?
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
Nowadays women want dominion not a partnership.They want it all.
To have intrinsic value in fertility, looks while also having resources
and power in relationships and also attention at all times.
Imagine if Tesla and The Wright brothers had been realistic ?
Patrice said theres a ton of Jimi Hendrix-like geniuses working at Home Depot because their women shytted on them and told them to settle down to early and "grow up". BAsically told them to choose the cookie cutter life.
But being a man is all about taking risks
. We have a risk taking hormone ffs