Black woman calls out single men

[Micky Mikey]

reality is finally starting to set in for the 25 and up chicks.
most will be single and/or struggling with relationships for the remainder of their lives. The window of opportunity for women to find an adequate males dwindles rapidly with each passing year of their lives.
Men, as long as we stay healthy and focused blossom with age.
Its rather unfortunate but it is the great equalizer. I cannot express how much p*ssy is being thrown my way as a 29 year old handsome male with a healthy career. And I aint even got it like that yet. I can only imagine what life will be like at age 40 and start to show a little grey stubble.

 

[LunaticVillage415]

I've noticed that a lot of celebrity men who actually have wives don't even have the "baddest" women on their arm. Look at T.I. with Tiny. And the celebrity men who do have bad women on their arm don't have the women with the stereotypical "exotical" big butt big chest Instagram thot/stripper/video vixen image. Lebron's wife, Steph Curry's wife, E-40's wife etc., all look like around the way girls. It's because those women were with them before the money and the fame. Looks ain't everything. A lot of these so-called "dime" "bad bytch" instagram hoes just sell their p*ssy any way or get dogged out by hella players and never get wifed up because they're not wifey material even though they might have a natural body like Nicki. And we see what happens to dumb ass celebrity men who do wife up thots who offer nothing but looks and orifices; the men always end up getting finessed because their nose is open. It's happened to everyone from Rob Kardashian to Tyga to Wiz Khalifa to even Mos Def. When you value a woman like a Rolex watch or a new Benz, she often gets repossessed by the game just like all of these other material trinkets that most people can't afford to keep. But relationships between men and women are often too monetized, especially if you looking in the wrong places.

 

[hood b. goode]

Women dont get men. Like, at all.

 

[Easy-E]

All these women with $200,000 student loans talmbout ain't a burden

Not to meantion they working 40 hours a week, don't want to be held by antiquated standards and would be damned to even go half at dinner

I'm never getting married

 

[I Really Mean It]

Hard out here for good dudes like me that has no real options because the black women I want to date end up being wenches and I won't date a cac (including non black minorities). It's a wrap for black women in America. shyt is depressing.

 

[intra vires]

Women dont get men. Like, at all.

When you're the pursued and not the pursuer you don't really need to understand the other side.

Sure it would help, but it's not necessary.

 

[Cat piss martini]

naw i'm good.

 

[BigMan]

Hard out here for good dudes like me that has no real options because the black women I want to date end up being wenches and I won't date a cac (including non black minorities). It's a wrap for black women in America. shyt is depressing.

Where do you nikkas live

 

[The Fade]

more bull shyt from crazy folks on social media.

Actually a lot of men look to be at the height of their career before marrying is because society places a salary range on how much a man (some times women) should make before getting married.

You actually got men thinking they can't get married until they make 6 figures. shyt is mind boggling cause most men will never make that much and if they do some may be in their 40s and 50s by that time.

Cuz a lot of us don't wanna get hurt, when we're at our strongest we feel no one can poke at the weakness.

You know how women get when they get spiteful, they take a chainsaw to your Achilles heel and a rusty knife to your jugular And say shyt they shouldn't. We want to earn our strength and worthiness so no one can say we're the burden/straggler

If we're the ones with the absolute power, already with the guaranteed success, then it's the women who have to jump thru hoops, not the man. As opposed to the man trying to convince a woman to believe in his potential and her uncertainty making her choose up

 

[TNOT]

Let's be reality brehs. Like really, the avg dude doesn't have access to a woman like that.

I'm not out to put her on a pedestal, but it is what it is.

As far as a nikka waiting until he's settled in his career, it's to the women's advantage.

She gets a better income
A more mature family oriented man.

It takes most dudes at least 5-6 yrs to establish a stable career. However those 5 or 6 years are spent working hard and playing hard.

I've seen it too many times, nikkas marrying the college sweetheart, have kids, a few years later he stepping out cause he wanted the life his peers have.

Driving coupes
Happy hour meet ups
Trips with the fellas

 

[Bonk]

She;s citing history when women had no career options, less entitlement,lower standards
and had real consequences for sh!t.

These girls are now miles removed from that.

but continue spreading this "unicorn" propaganda,like a girl doesn't turn 18
every couple seconds.

As a guy, I agree with your points. And I'm also a firm believer in waiting till you're at least relatively stable and perhaps one step away from your dreams before settling down or having kids. It's also always better to be in a decent space where you can easily pull top-notch women with all the qualities you desire in a woman, than when you're struggling and would probably have to settle for less due to how materialistic the society is today.

However, I do get her point because there are still top-notch women out there who would take you as you're even in dirt and love you for who you're and your potentials - not what you have. Women who can see a diamond in the dirt and are willing to build with you from the bottom, up. So I believe when you've that type of woman in your life - you just need to lock her down. Trust me, some women are unicorns in today's world and you wouldn't know their value until they leave you.

It's just like me: I've got a reputation for wasting good girls because my mentality has always been about 'me first' and getting to the apex of my career before sharing the most intricate parts of my life with a woman. But now that I believe I'm super-ready than ever to share my world with a wonderful woman, in courtship for a few years, before taking it to the next level - it's a tad difficult to find the type of good ones I used to get with ease in the past. I just don't connect on that level with them and there's always either a red flag, they're doing too much, or they're just in it for something I don't rate. Now I'm starting to look like a gyalist (player) again to most people, despite all the maturation/growth and changes I've made in the past few years because I keep changing women. And that isn't the real motive - I just want one good/decent one that ticks certain boxes and I can be proud of. It's hard out here on these streets.

Both POVs are valid. She's a traditional woman who views things from the purview of a different generation due to how she was raised. You're a realist who understands what's attainable in the current clime as a man. I can't fault none of the two perspectives.

 

[Rawtid]

Women dont get men. Like, at all.

And vice versa.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Working on yourself requires a certain level of focus, sacrifice and selfishness

Personally, I wouldn't want anyone to even entertain the thought of me not being able to make it without them

If she's not there when you're ready then she wasn't meant to be there

 

[I Really Mean It]

Where do you nikkas live

America.

 

[BigMan]

America.

Aight buddy