Black woman calls out single men

[Mr. McDowell]

I am trying to figure out why people are putting an age limit on achieving one's passions. Who cares if it takes you all of your life to do it? If you are single, you aren't hurting anyone.

In these scenarios, we're supposed to feel bad for a hypothetical woman who could use a "good" husband? All I have been told is how educated and independent today's women is... well if that is the case, a few single men delaying relationships while their focus remains on their professional goals shouldn't be a problem.

It is interesting how at some point women seem to want to revert back to some form of traditionalism, when it suits them. Not feeling that.

 

[The Fade]

I am trying to figure out why people are putting an age limit on achieving one's passions. Who cares if it takes you all of your life to do it? If you are single, you aren't hurting anyone.

In these scenarios, we're supposed to feel bad for a hypothetical woman who could use a "good" husband? All I have been told is how educated and independent today's women is... well if that is the case, a few single men delaying relationships while their focus remains on their professional goals shouldn't be a problem.

It is interesting how at some point women seem to want to revert back to some form of traditionalism, when it suits them. Not feeling that.

It all comes down to stability. Men take risks for a bigger reward, women chose stability for survival. Thats why we get paid more at work.. because we tend to die at work more or have work related health problems.

They want to be apart of the success only for a stake within it. IE: "I held you down, so you better think twice about ---".. If the man is already built by himself, she cant stomp around his domain barking orders and has no collateral to steer the ship in her direction. He can toss her out if shes starts tripping. Thats whats making these women nervous.

However, when theyre with a man hes taking all these risks to get a bigger prize, it makes them nervous as well cuz that threatens her livelihood, so they push them to try to succeed in the rat race instead or give the ultimatum of leaving(Ironically, this also causes a HUGE AMOUNT of the mdoern issues we see in relationships today). At this point they themselves are exploring their 'other options' as well just incase this mans ship sinks.

At the same time brehs, you cannot be putting your rent money in the stock market lol. So if you do reckless shyt like that trying to 'make it' maybe you should chill out a bit

 

[Cynic]

They want to be apart of the success only for a stake within it. IE: "I held you down, so you better think twice about ---".. If the man is already built by himself, she cant stomp around his domain barking orders and has no collateral to steer the ship in her direction. He can toss her out if shes starts tripping. Thats whats making these women nervous.

It doesn't stop them from trying ...

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Haha, What do these women want lol.

 

[Gold]

You get the bag and fumble it
I get the bag and flip it and tumble it

 

[Serious]

You gotta be patient.

You gotta be easy


@TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

You gotta be easy


@TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY

 

[Carlton Banks]

Women love to pretend like they aren't just an anchor to your life. Never met a woman outside of my mama that I actually benefited from

 

[Commish]

Actually, what she said wasn't bad. I agree with her to an extent...

But, I do not have a problem with men who want to get their finances right before settling down. Also, not every woman is willing to ride and die for every man she deal with nor is every woman deserving of a successful and career driven man.

Other than that, I don't have an issue with what the young lady said.

 

[DaRealness]

I'm done taking anything these chicks have to say seriously.

You get criticised as a broke dude who doesn't have his stuff together, but when you're achieving shyt off your own back (you know, actually being a MAN ) then you're lowkey accused of selfishness for not having the "right" woman by your side. I get that a lot.

Many men achieved greatness by having a woman by their side. OK? And? A lot of men have also achieved greatness through their own strength and abilities. Some women are actually threatened by men who have independence and could walk away tomorrow and still do good without them, let's just call it what it is.

Everything I have right now is because of ME and my hard work and no one can throw back anything in my face and say "you wouldn't have such and such if wasn't for me".

Who is to say who the "right" woman is anyhow? People change and they also have agendas.

When I meet the "right" woman whatever that is and she's loyal and not a burden, then fine. Until then I have the right to be picky because too many care more for what's in your wallet than who you are as a man, plus it's not like the law is exactly in men's favour when marriages break up.

The only person a man needs is the one in the mirror.

I'm patient. I'll take my time because I'm not gonna link up with someone who is a liability pretending to be an asset. I worked too hard for that.

 

[Kings County]

women say this but yall get in one argument ... "you're broke, u dont even have a car, i paid for those shoes you're wearing, u live in my house, i pay all the bills "
women will always attack your manhood when yall get into it they know how to make u feel like less of a man
nikkas know what time it is
so until i get my shyt together all u get is dikk

 

[Shorty K]

My thoughts are I never expect a woman of low character to say anything different.

Also, every woman thinks they're the right woman.

 

[The Fade]

women say this but yall get in one argument ... "you're broke, u dont even have a car, i paid for those shoes you're wearing, u live in my house, i pay all the bills "
women will always attack your manhood when yall get into it they know how to make u feel like less of a man
nikkas know what time it is
so until i get my shyt together all u get is dikk

exactly why I'm not dating til I get my shyt right.

I'm not gonna be told "I gave up so much for you" when she gets uncertain of me. Nope, there's the door, go get your bag/dikk then, imma do what I want

 

[Gold]

To each his own, but i'm not chasing women without having my own house in order.
To me that's some ass backwards priorities.

And it is much harder to build when you're chasing/entertaining women. There will be time for that, but build up first always

 

[philmonroe]

Women's standards have gone up tremendously

Most want the finished product, but don't want to be there for the process

That ride or die chick that'll be with you when you're struggling and broke that existed in the past has become hard to find, especially in this reality tv show, love and hip hop, real housewives, generation of women


Some brehs decided to say fukk it, ill focus on my career, get my money and my shyt together and then I'll find a wife or just live life fukking bytches

Bold is half true. I don't think women have a problem doing the ride or die when they are younger but nikkas be in their 30's talking that shyt that sounds good as a teenager even in your 20's but not in your 30's or beyond.