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Most black women, even if they never ultimately date out, want to be validated by white men.

I know so-called pro-black sistas who can barely contain their smile when they tell other black women about a white man/men that approached them.

Of course, nobody can ever really admit they want to be validated. People claim only they validate themselves, but that is bullshyt. You might be confident, but when someone whose opinion matters to you, see value in you, your chest/breast stick out a little further.

Simply put, a lot of black women want in on the outside attention they feel black men have been enjoying to a greater degree.

Black men also want to keep that attention all to themselves. Let's keep it a buck; black men want to be desired by all women, and only have black women be desired by them. You know many times I've seen and read brothas PASSIONATELY argue that white men ain't checking for black women like white women are checking for black men. More than once I've heard brothas quote the stats that say, black women and Asian are deemed the least desired of all races.

I can pawg in peace, 'cause I realized, all of you are full of shyt - and just want to control the actions of other people, because of the psychological benefits for you.

fukk yo' couch.
 

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You are literally doing what you speak out against. :dead:


All kinds of black people date each other. All you have to do is walk outside to find it. If you can't find a suitable black partner that's 100% on you.

The BW in this thread aren't trying to hear this.....

And I'm sure you aren't telling them the same thing anyways....

:mjlol:
 

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The BW in this thread aren't trying to hear this.....

And I'm sure you aren't telling them the same thing anyways....

:mjlol:
That was a general statement to anyone. Everyone would benefit from a bit of introspection. If the people that you want aren't into you maybe you aren't as fly as you think, and you need to do some self-improvement.
 

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It’s heading this way naturally due to many factors. There is no amount of shaming on this site that will change that course. It isn’t THE ANSWER but the way many BW approach dating is outdated.
That's fine by me. But y'all wanna play both sides and shame black men for it, meanwhile coming up with all kinds of excuses why you date out. That's what I meant by nobility.

"As a Black woman my reasoning for dating out makes sense because of XYZ. Bbbut YOU black men date out because you all are black women hating c00ns"

That's how BW on this site and on Twitter and sometimes IRL come across.

:yeshrug:
 

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That was a general statement to anyone. Everyone would benefit from a bit of introspection. If the people that you want aren't into you maybe you aren't as fly as you think, and you need to do some self-improvement.

If you're going to make a "general statement" and quote someone be sure you specify that it's a "general statement" otherwise your post just comes off as a cop out to save face.
 

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If you're going to make a "general statement" and quote someone be sure you specify that it's a "general statement" otherwise your post just comes off as a cop out to save face.
The first two sentences before that statement contain the word all. Anyone with adequate reading comprehension skills could see that it was a generalized statement.
 

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Y’all still trying to discuss colorism with black males :pachaha:

I advise all of my chocolate women to open your horizons and stop mean mugging a nonblack man when he approaches u and smile instead

Your life will get better almost instantly :smile:
If her life is instantly better then why is she so hung up on black men after following your advice?

Once would think she would be with a white man happy and would move on already since she already dates out instead of making videos like the one in the OP.

Something doesn’t add up.
 

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The if her life is better why is she so hung up on black men after following your advice

Once would think she would move on already since she already dates out.

Where did she say her life was better. And dating out doesn’t mean you don’t date your own race or is that what it means you?
 

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Where did she say her life was better. And dating out doesn’t mean you don’t date your own race or is that what it means you?
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Your life will get better almost instantly
^That’s where she said it.

Based on that she is saying that dating out will make your life better. Yet the woman in the video went with the white guy and their relationship failed.

Something doesn’t add up. :patrice:
 

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If her life is instantly better then why is she so hung up on black men after following your advice?

Once would think she would be with a white man happy and would move on already since she already dates out instead of making videos like the one in the OP.

Something doesn’t add up.

Bro everyone hates black males and wants us to disappear but we stay on their minds.. what the fukk.

The most imitated and most hated @Indiglow Meta (R$G) why do our shine stay making broads mad when they got their oh so perfect white boy?
 
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