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ill_will82

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First explain why you think someone should stay with someone that barely likes them :gucci:

I assume if two people like/love each other that the feelings/attraction is mutual. Let me slowly back out the thread before I walk straight into a landmine.
 

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Where did she say she needs a man to like her more? Maybe she wants someone that feels as strongly about her as she does about them? There's no rule that says you must stay in relationship with someone who doesn't feel the same about you. I have no clue why you would have a problem with a woman breaking up with a man for that reason. I guess you think women should just accept anything.
Maybe ain't part of this discussion dear. We talking about what was and was not said. Not no maybe, what they meant or seemed to say.

I never said she said those things.
 

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Who said that? LOL you trying so hard to be right.

Am I?

Her response:

Why would I settle for not getting attention from the man that I love?

Why would I settle for attention alone without feeling like I hit the jackpot with the man I'm getting it from?

Maybe I'm being unrealistic but I refuse to settle. Rather be alone than with someone and lonely or worse with regret.

you think a woman should just stay with a man that makes her feel like she's in love alone? Just so she can have a man?
 

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Am I?

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you think a woman should just stay with a man that makes her feel like she's in love alone? Just so she can have a man?
you don't know if she was talking about her relationship in that post or in general. And that post was not posted at the time of my thread.

You sure like to argue huh?
 

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I assume if two people like/love each other that the feelings/attraction is mutual. Let me slowly back out the thread before I walk straight into a landmine.

Well, she obviously doesn't feel like it's mutual, it's her life so if she doesn't want to stay with a guy that doesn't feel that great about her, I think that's perfectly fine.
 

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you don't know if she was talking about her relationship in that post or in general. And that post was not posted at the time of my thread.

You sure like to argue huh?

:gucci: that post was in the thread you made this thread about.

I like to argue? you're the one making threads trying to make a woman seem dumb for leaving a man that makes her feel lonely.
 

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so what does liking someone less than they like you mean?
That he likes her a lil less than her

:manny:

But that's just going from her side....I'd wanna hear both sides before condemning the dude.




and why is she required to accept that?
She ain't, but this seem to be eating her up more than him, she the one making threads...

Again, don't got enough info to start making judgements tho
 

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Ehh...she was right to imo. the male equivalent would be a dude breaking up with a girl cause she didn't put out fast enough for him. Men want time to fall in love and the power to withhold love and women want time to give it up and the power to withhold it.
 

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That he likes her a lil less than her

:manny:

But that's just going from her side....I'd wanna hear both sides before condemning the dude.





She ain't, but this seem to be eating her up more than him, she the one making threads...

Again, don't got enough info to start making judgements tho

No one is condemning him and I don't expect men to agree with her decision, you guys are all for men stringing women they don't care for along. I think that's why she made it in the salon.

What's funny is if a guy made this thread, he'd be getting called a simp, saying he's friend-zoned, saying he needs to move on. But since it's a woman she's wrong for wanting a man that cares for her as much she cares for him and not a guy that likes her less.
 

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you guys are all for men stringing women they don't care for along.

:stopitslime:

What's funny is if a guy made this thread, he'd be getting called a simp, saying he's friend-zoned, saying he needs to move on. But since it's a woman she's wrong for wanting a man that cares for her as much she cares for him and not a guy that likes her less.

Nah he'd legit be getting praised if he made a thread saying he actually bushed her ass like OP did...if he made a thread talmbout he still with her, then we clown the nikka.
 

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It kinda is a dumb reason, she just mad cause subconsciously he has too much power in the relationship...:ld:

Of course it's dumb to a man that just wants to play games with women and use them. But look at it from the point of view of a woman that doesn't want to be played or used, it's a really good reason. I know it's hard for you guys to put yourself in womens shoes because we aren't people but just pretend for a second.
:stopitslime:



Nah he'd legit be getting praised if he made a thread saying he actually bushed her ass like OP did...if he made a thread talmbout he still with her, then we clown the nikka.

Exactly. Women are supposed to just accept anything from men but men are allowed to want to be treated better. smh
 
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