DJ Paul's Arm
Veteran
All those bytches on that table look confused as fukk.



That's Mr. Organik? I thought that looked like him. Seems like he came a long way, still a nobody though

Dudes ALWAYS say this. But what exactly are you building?
I work on my body and my mind everyday and no bytches magically appearing near me. Push my body to its absolute limits and make it a goal to learn new shyt everyday
Lemme guess, once I start making 6 figures and get some cookie cutter condo these women will magically all come sit on my lap at once![]()

Breh I’ve been doing this shyt since I was 19 and I get even less bytches than I did back then. I do this shyt breh. I work out daily, always wear nice clothes, fresh haircut, groomed, smell good, nice car, all that shyt.I build myself as in I build my knowledge, my skills, my body. Put yourself in position to "get women." Get and keep a decent job, take care of yourself, and your house. Wash, have some style, workout and eat right. All of these things build you up as a man, and THEN women will see your work, your CONFIDENCE, your swagger, THEN you have to conduct yourself properly around them. Talk to them with ease, like you're their "big brother," but with the confidence that you GONNA get that vag!
I mean, if you're a moderately handsome guy with an approachable confidence/swagger, women will position THEMSELVES near or around you. They will let you talk to them and give you receptive signals.
Again, this is after you get yourself right. Like @HARLEM AL said, do it for you, not to "get" them. Honestly, do ANYTHING in life that way, for you, not for someone/something else. If you do it THAT way, it will give YOU confidence and happiness/contentment...YOU exude that, that in turn helps you to get women. They can see you projecting confidence cause ya money up, you got nice style and ya body/mind is right. That puts you in position where you don't NEED them but want them for companionship and romance, women pick up on that, that in turn makes you desirable!
some ugly or no money getting nikkas be bagging chicks with ease, because they understand that dynamic. That women are attracted to men who have themselves together/are in control (of themselves) they can sense it bro. You on the right track, just keep gaining confidence, keep your ish together and the women will see and follow![]()

Where do they find these bird brain bytches at? Every chick I've seen on this show is either slow or obnoxiously smug, entitled and arrogant. Sometimes I wonder if they're even real people with real emotions. They literally ALL sound and act the same way.
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Shut up nikkaContinuously substituting niqqa for the word man is such a turn off to me...


Breh I’ve been doing this shyt since I was 19 and I get even less bytches than I did back then. I do this shyt breh. I work out daily, always wear nice clothes, fresh haircut, groomed, smell good, nice car, all that shyt.
I don’t get play at all when I’m out. No eye contact, women “positioning” themselves. None of that shyt. Hell even when I do approach on some fukk it shyt the women not feeling me like that.
Maybe I’m missing something here. How the fukk can you project confidence beyond doing all they shyt I’ve already been doing?
Approaching is another thing in itself. Appreciate the advice on that.No doubt bro. Look back at your approaches, see where you can stand to do better. What are they not feeling? What types of women are you approaching? Where are you approaching them? Is there anything you can glean/learn from those encounters? (there ALWAYS is)
Maybe get em laughing first, or approach with a smile. I'm not saying you're doing things wrong or aren't doing some of these things, but there's GOT to be lessons you can take from those initial failures. Maybe you going in too confident, or approaching at a bad time. Maybe you overthinking it.
there's nothing in common you can approach the ladies with? Maybe you in the grocery store you approach with a question, something to break the ice. IDK, all I'm saying is they out there, even moreso now that they been couped up in the crib for the better part of a year.
Not saying you aren't trying, I'm SUPER laid back and not much the approach type. But I make exceptions, and I go after what I want. I also wait and look for signals (good or bad) before cold approaching. Most of the time, I hedge my bets and make sure that the woman wants me. That's how I got my wife, then I'm able to go in with full confidence that all I have to do is not mess it up when I talk. It takes practice and patience. It also helps to have a short memory. Again, you want them, but don't NEED them
Approaching is another thing in itself. Appreciate the advice on that.
However, we’re talking about women coming to me as a result of all the work I’ve been putting in on myself. That’s what sparked this whole conversation. I don’t see that shyt happening - like I don’t have women approaching me or throwing me choosing signals at all.
I said everyone always tells you to do that “work on yourself” advice, until you actually do it, and realize it changes nothing. At least for me it hasn’t. I haven’t seen any change in the way women act towards me. I really don’t get where you guys are getting this information from.
And hell this past year I really took shyt to diff level and in the process of taking it to another one. Hell, it’s actually making me focus more on myself bc these women don’t give af about what I do either way. So fukk em
good luck bro, that's all I gotI had to stop watching when they were faking the funk. It became a lifestyle blog when he moved to la doing stupid shyt. That's why slim and him almost got killed in inglewood when they moved there.Same thing I thought, him and Slim done come a long way. Leveled up something serious when they both made that move to LA. I check in on both their channels from time to time, Organik always seemed like a try hard clown ass dude but I’d be a lie if I didn’t say he was slightly entertaining and that he and Slim are living that life.![]()
ExactlyI build myself as in I build my knowledge, my skills, my body. Put yourself in position to "get women." Get and keep a decent job, take care of yourself, and your house. Wash, have some style, workout and eat right. All of these things build you up as a man, and THEN women will see your work, your CONFIDENCE, your swagger, THEN you have to conduct yourself properly around them. Talk to them with ease, like you're their "big brother," but with the confidence that you GONNA get that vag!
I mean, if you're a moderately handsome guy with an approachable confidence/swagger, women will position THEMSELVES near or around you. They will let you talk to them and give you receptive signals.
Again, this is after you get yourself right. Like @HARLEM AL said, do it for you, not to "get" them. Honestly, do ANYTHING in life that way, for you, not for someone/something else. If you do it THAT way, it will give YOU confidence and happiness/contentment...YOU exude that, that in turn helps you to get women. They can see you projecting confidence cause ya money up, you got nice style and ya body/mind is right. That puts you in position where you don't NEED them but want them for companionship and romance, women pick up on that, that in turn makes you desirable!
some ugly or no money getting nikkas be bagging chicks with ease, because they understand that dynamic. That women are attracted to men who have themselves together/are in control (of themselves) they can sense it bro. You on the right track, just keep gaining confidence, keep your ish together and the women will see and follow![]()
Right it’s never overt. Always subtle, ie if you keep seeing the same chick all the time it ain’t a by mistake. Women put themselves in your space. They only overt if they really attracted to you."working on you" is supposed to change your mentality. Give you a confidence that you actually project out. Women see how you are moving now, they can see what you're projecting...confidence, protection, "got-it-togetherness" and that is what makes them act differently toward you. Also, make sure you're actually picking up on the signs (not saying you aren't, but in general)
A lot of times with women, it's subtle. I mean, it can be be overt, but a lot of times they play the chase game. It's a look that's a second longer than normal, it's a sly smile, her positioning herself to be in your path/near you, turning to face you/look you in the eye, her asking a question for you to follow up and continue the convo. I mean, it can be anything. All I'm saying is make sure you pay attention to the small things. Keep what you're doing up, trust me, if you looking, you will find women who ARE receptive to what you throwing/projecting. Use the ones you don't like or don't want as practice. Talk to them, get comfy doing it, then it's a bit easier when you in front of the one you want/like.
If you're halfway decent looking, it shouldn't be THAT tough. Also, a lil key is, you tend to find what you want/are looking for when you actually STOP looking for/desiring it.good luck bro, that's all I got