Brehettes how would u react if your child's father

[AtomicUse]

A female in here really tried to equate a man texting another woman, to a man raising another mans kid under false pretenses for a lifetime.

"If you want a paternity test to prove that the kid I'm charging you with raising and financing for a lifetime, then I should be able to look through your phone. ".

That is a disgusting false equivalency and a full display of female entitlement. This is why I'm glad I'm married to a good woman and these birds are out here chairing their tails and watching reality TV.

 

[Claudex]

In today’s climate I understand I really do... but yea I would be offended and hurt. It would definitely damage our relationship That’s not a threat to try to stop him either, it just is what it is.

If you think I am cheating, not only cheating but would have another man impregnate me. Not only that but try to pass the baby off as yours, why are you with me?

I’d rather not know, but then if I found out I’d be worse it’s a lose-lose situation.

First time I see the other side of the argument stated so clearly. Basically you're saying it's a request that amounts to three offenses.

Thanks brehette.

 

[86\*/98]

In today’s climate I understand I really do... but yea I would be offended and hurt. It would definitely damage our relationship That’s not a threat to try to stop him either, it just is what it is.

If you think I am cheating, not only cheating but would have another man impregnate me. Not only that but try to pass the baby off as yours, why are you with me?

I’d rather not know, but then if I found out I’d be worse it’s a lose-lose situation.

How would you feel if the man let you know that was his rule off rip and it doesn't matter who fills in the role of his woman, he's having the test done regardless?

As I said earlier my lady is cool with that and I'm sure her knowing that no matter what I'm getting the test done helped her come to peace with it.

 

[King Poetic]

nikkas should have listen to cube in 1990 on

you can't fade me...always check the results from test before u go out signing shyt like Jim Jones

 

[Phantom Dreamer]

women really catching feelings like that. Any bytch I ever "impregnate" is just gonna have to hate me

 

[50CentStan]

It needs to be mandatory by law.

 

[Sassy]

I'd have no problem with it.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

ALL men need to get DNA tests done at birth.
Yes, even you "happily" married nikkas.

1.Fukk her feelings. It's your RIGHT to know if you're the father just like it's the woman's right to keep the child if you didn't want it.

2. When I worked as a social worker, you wouldn't believe the amount of men surprised that they've been raising a child that ain't theirs. Then the guys who waited too long to get the test done STILL have to pay child support. The married guys do too because they are AUTOMATICALLY the father legally. Get the test done brehs. Don't let these females in here get you caught up in a lifelong emotional and financial hell hole.

 

[Gold]

I made a promise to myself that no matter how goofy in love I might be I’m getting the test done for all children that are supposed to be mine.

My lady knows how I feel and she understands. I feel like any woman who doesn’t get that is sus.

True, but its something you gotta establish early on, not on the day of birth.
There are certain things I mention early so that there is no confusion.

If they are dealbreakers, at least I know early on so I can leave


But yeah, this should be part of the birthing process.
Its actually asinine that it is not considering the impact being the legal "father" can cause

 

[Raava]

First time I see the other side of the argument stated so clearly. Basically you're saying it's a request that amounts to three offenses.

Thanks brehette.

It’s a level, a serious level of betrayal. If you think I’m capable, or our relationship has gotten to the point I could do all that we probably shouldn’t be together, let alone having a kid.

I know there are people who put nothing past anyone. I kind of am the same way but that is something it would make me look at the relationship different if he thinks of me that way.

How would you feel if the man let you know that was his rule off rip and it doesn't matter who fills in the role of his woman, he's having the test done regardless?

As I said earlier my lady is cool with that and I'm sure her knowing that no matter what I'm getting the test done helped her come to peace with it.

Like I said I understand why. I guess it would be better because if that’s just your rule, that makes it less personal. Plus if there is background information as to why you feel this way it could be helpful. I would think you had trust issues off the bat that would make me wonder how deep they are and how they would affect he relationship.

 

[Verbal Kint]

A real woman would be fine with it as she would want to make sure her child's father is completely secure in the knowledge the baby is his . Women get cheated on by men they are 100% sure are faithful but when they get pregnant they know the baby is theirs . They should want their man to have the same security knowing that there are men that raise babies they're 100% sure are theirs that turn out not to be. If you take personal offense to the question you must be taking the stance that you, somehow, are the one sexually active person on earth who is incapable of cheating or simply on a higher moral plane than the rest of humanity. If that's the case the man needs to leave anyway since being with someone who believes themselves to be perfect is a terrible situation to be in.

 

[Voice of Reason]

I mean, if he thinks I'm a hoe and doesn't trust me, why is he in a relationship with me?

Sounds like a damaged man projecting his hurt and insecurities on me. I'd tell him to get the test, suggest we open the results together and then dump him bc with that level of paranoia and irrational thoughts and actions, he surely has more false ideas about me. Life comes with enough bullshyt to have deal with that much at home.

Break up a happy home and cause damage to the child because of your hurt ego brehettes

 

[Entropy Fan]

Why would you impregnate a woman you think is cheating on you

Are you planning on getting in an accident why are you wearing a seatbelt.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

It's easy to see why a man would want this, and to see why every father should do this. It's also easy to see why a faithful woman would be offended.

Logically, there's no question that some women cheat. Some women don't. There are men who believe to their core that they're girl/wife is faithful, and are right. There are men who believe to their core that they're girl/wife is faithful who are WRONG. Knowing this, the prudent thing to do is to always verify paternity. Any levelheaded human should be able to grasp this.

I would establish my feelings on this long before conception tho. Same with a prenup. Springing it on her at the last minute is a recipe for disaster.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Are you planning on getting in an accident why are you wearing a seatbelt.

You can still die in a crash with your seat belt on