Brehettes say that a man isn't a real friend if he refuses to help a woman because she has a bf

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spliz

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It's an immature, odd response. A better one would simply be to make up an excuse for why you can't help...if you don't want to. Painting is not something that requires a dude, like say...moving a bookshelf into a new apartment. Most women who need to paint are going to ask their girlfriends to come over. Paint, drink wine, order some food...have a good time. Hell if a dude had to paint he'd likely do the same thing, but replace the wine with beer. So saying "don't you have a man" seems weird when my first thought would have been uh...don't you have girlfriends?
U gonna find urself in the middle of some bullshyt with this mentality brodie. Lol. U don’t wanna be randomly up in some shorty crib if she got a whole ass boyfriend. That’s a fukkin legit question. U have someone there closer to u than I am. What’s going on? Is he busy?
 

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how i'd help her.



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"This looks and feels like a completely platonic activity for the two of us to do alone while Bob is at work, right Sharon?"

"That's right, Dave! There's nothing at all to read into this situation where you literally help me establish the look and feel of my home where I will live for years and raise my children!"

"It's not like I have male instincts that would tell me this sort of thing might be inappropriate or unwise! That would just be SILLY!"

"Silly indeed, friend! The two of us, alone in this house, physically exerting ourselves in close proximity? Good thing we're just robots without human emotions!"

"I concur, you mere acquaintance!"

"Glad you do, simple associate of mine!"


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Just tell her you've got other shyt to do and KIM. It's not that serious. :huh:

Sometimes you'll want to help your home girls with some things, sometimes you won't.

The real test is: does she come through in the clutch for you?
 

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U gonna find urself in the middle of some bullshyt with this mentality brodie. Lol. U don’t wanna be randomly up in some shorty crib if she got a whole ass boyfriend. That’s a fukkin legit question. U have someone there closer to u than I am. What’s going on? Is he busy?
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Hold on fam, there's zero way I'd help either. I'm just saying I would have simply came up with a bullshyt reason because I know she got girlfriends who can help. I don't help anyone with "house shyt" (moving, painting, etc) unless you're family, a family friend (like an elder), or a good friend who I owe it to. Female friend who I know has multiple options to help her with something? Hell no.
 

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It's an immature, odd response. A better one would simply be to make up an excuse for why you can't help...if you don't want to. Painting is not something that requires a dude, like say...moving a bookshelf into a new apartment. Most women who need to paint are going to ask their girlfriends to come over. Paint, drink wine, order some food...have a good time. Hell if a dude had to paint he'd likely do the same thing, but replace the wine with beer. So saying "don't you have a man" seems weird when my first thought would have been uh...don't you have girlfriends?

It's not weird at all. A man is supposed to be a protector and a provider so the platonic male friend is basically asking: "Don't you have a provider that should be handling these duties?" It's a fair question and how I feel about these situations myself. Why would a woman give herself to a man who is so inept that she herself has to enlist other men to accomplish everyday life tasks? Shouldn't he be the one facilitating the painting and either hiring someone or calling his homies up to do it with him? Why is she giving p*ssy to this nikka when he can't even do something so basic? She trifling for even asking another dude to even do something like this without offering cash or some other incentive. She is simply being a user and trying to guilt trip the dude and since he's weak, he fell for it and apologized.
 

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Minus women in my family and women at work I don't even talk to women who are in relationships

I keep saying there is no such thing as a female friend, just females you want to smash and females you have smashed and hope to smash again

but but tradepascalsiakam im friends with bla bla, yeah if bla bla was horny and called you over and she was naked you wouldn't be like no we can't do this our friendship will never be the same again
 

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If I’m not known to her and the boyfriend on a first name bases, hell nah.


I’ll help him and her do it otherwise stuff can go left quick.
 
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