I swear if someone quotes that whole op
also psa. Stop fukking quoting whole long ass ops
I'll try to keep it short, but it probably won't be.
Lately, I've been seeing chicks online throw out a bunch of numbers about how little they come with male sex partners.
Then after that, there's the obligatory finger wagging and scolding of men for "being selfish", etc.
Let's go ahead and nip this shyt in the bud.
From my extensive experience in the field, I can tell you one thing for certain.
Most women don't know how their own bodies functions sexually.
I'm talking about grown women in their mid-20's and beyond. Way beyond.
Too many of my sessions have turned into an adult Sesame Street episode.
"This is your G-Spot."
"It's 'clitoris' not 'click' and it's here."
"You didn't pee on yourself."
"Make an appt with your gynecologist ASAP."
We're not even going to get into performance or technique.
Women love to front like they're super educated and informed about sex and sexuality.
Some are. Most ain't.
Then, there's the issue of most women thinking that the p*ssy is magic and does all the work.
The best thing that could happen to any young person is that they come across a knowledgeable and patient partner early on that will help them navigate the vast terrain of sexuality.
Otherwise, it's up to you to find out what you're into sexually.
I find that some grown women revert to this childish place mentally when sex comes up.
There's no reason a woman in her 30's should be asking repeatedly "what are we doooing?" or "what's happeniiiing?" during a make out session.
For me, that's a cue to stop.
It's true that men are far less cerebral when it comes to sex and making us nut is fairly easily.
Rub our dikk the right way and enough and we gonna bust.
With women, their primary sex organ is their mind.
Any physical sexual function a woman's body performs is set up in their mind first.
The exception is vaginal lubrication, the body handles that involuntarily and too many of us mistake her being wet as consent.
Don't end up in the bing over that mistake, breh.
Unfortunately, society puts out a ton of mixed messages to girls and young women about sex.
Childhood sexual abuse, which is rampant, or witnessing domestic violence throws things even further out of whack.
Some young women are so conflicted about sex that they initiate it and then freak out with fear when it's about to happen.
The last stats I read were that women nut 93% of the time when they masturbate.
They come 64% of the time with other women and only 7% with men.
After college, I worked with young adults and a few teenagers. I used to tell some of the younger homies not to give themselves complexes about making a woman cum because if she doesn't, and you're trying, it might not be your fault.
Some of em (fukk it, it was the Asian kid) thought they might not have enough meat.
I stopped em right there because
But I told them to think about it. Some women can get off sitting on a washing machine or with their fingers.
You have more than enough tools at your disposal to make something happen.
Let's cut the shyt.
Penetration low-key scares a lot of women.
Not only that, a lot of women are low key scared of men in general.
Taking a dikk in one of your orifices is a commitmentand once it's done, it's done.
As they say, "you can't unsuck a dikk".
Not to mention, penetration definitely has consequences.
Those numbers, if accurate, just backs up what I already know.
When women masturbate, there's nothing for them to worry about.
They can fantasize about whatever they want. Don't matter how mundane, deviant, or nonsensical it is.
They also don't have to worry about being judged about what turns them on.
It doesn't have to make sense to anybody but her.
It can be as random as a scent, to seeing a nikka lift something heavy, or getting caught fukking outdoors.
Some of the shyt she fantasizes about that makes her come can be things that she actually does not want to participate in herself.
The numbers drop drastically when another person enters the equation.
Lezbots were beating their chest about the 64% but ignoring the fact that's steep fukking drop-off from 93%.
With another woman, there's far less anxiety and a lot less fear.
It's going to be kissing and rubbing and licking mostly, so there's not the sense of commitment or crossing a line as there is with penetration.
Since we're being real, let's be real.
Slangin D properly is a skill.
Like I said, before most of us are on our own learning about sex.
Some ppl never learn or they half-ass learn.
A lotta nikkas live in jackrabbit mode.
Some got the weak stroke regardless of size
If you're doing the job properly, some women love to tell you the shortcomings of other dudes.
Or you'll hear it just talking to women in real life
But I digress, aside from doing your part to make her bust, there's a whole lot going on in her head.
Bottom line is this here.
A woman needs to take the time to learn herself and learn her body.
She needs to know what gets her off.
Then she needs to actually tell her guy these things.
Most women don't want to.
First, they feel like "you should know".Which is bullshyt. Every woman is different.
Second is fear. Again.
Fear of you judging her for what she likes or fear that you'll be insulted by her asking you to do something, as if what you were doing wasn't enough.
This shyt needs to be discussed beforehand unless it's a spontaneous session that neither expected.
There's therapy for things like that if communication beforehand isn't enough.
Lastly, there's that 7% that don't get off at all.
It's still on her to know herself and communicate.
If she continues to fukk nikkas that don't get her off, that's on her.
If she's super conflicted about sex, she needs to handle that before tryna be in the mix then being mad awkward during sex.
Me personally, I'm gonna give her 20-30 min to get it done.
After that, I'm going to get some juice or some water.
One time for the "hoe babble" and "who cares" attention seeking, dap fishing brehs.
TL:DR; Brehettes gotta know what gets themselves off and they need to seek partners to give them that experience. If they're too mixed up or scarred to do that, holla at the therapist before hollerin at a breh.
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whenever I write a post.
....only through masturbation....in her 40s....shyt is crazy
