Brehs and Brehettes: How do you deal with rejection?

[Ashley Banks]

Did you just come to brag lol?
he just wants to be friends

lol no, sorry if it seems that way

 

[#SOG_soldier]

One day @Spotlessmind will realize she made a huge mistake

I'm still tryna eat her ass

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

it's ok, were gonna get through this

Pour me a drink pls

 

[The Oracle]

i don't take it personal

if you're confident in yourself, rejection feels less like a judgement, and more just like someone saying they would like to eat at a different restaurant

we all have tastes, and i've rejected quite a few women i wasn't feeling also

happens to us all and it's not a big deal

it can be a learning experience too

if you are doing something that conveys neediness or low social or emotional intelligence, you can work on those things so you don't make the mistake with the next person.

 

[Unknown Poster]

I just think to myself "LOL. Your loss."

 

[Princess Coco]

Pour me a drink pls

You said you didn't want to drink with me anymore

 

[QueenSheba]

One day @Spotlessmind will realize she made a huge mistake

Yeah you try to pull that player move on my Puerto Rican sis @DarlingNikki and me

I'm sure Ms @Spotlessmind enjoying her beautiful life without you.

 

[Boolean]

never been rejected

which is why i have no hoes and no headaches

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Yeah you try to pull that player move with my Puerto Rican sis @DarlingNikki and me

I'm sure Ms @Spotlessmind enjoying her beautiful life without you.

You know Im all the way out there

 

[Princess Coco]

need a man like me in your life

 

[Chrishaune]

On to the next one......

 

[Tim Dripcan]

what kind of guy are you attracted to and what kind of guy do you usually attract? you can use pics if you want. @Wednesday Addams

moreover, how many times in your life have you've been rejected and why? are you shy, do you have low self-esteem, what?

also are you the social type of person? do you normally go out and meet new people? my best advice and from what other posters are saying is to move on with your life and talk to another guy you like. the right guy will come on along.

ive been rejected plenty of times but I move on and work on myself.

 

[Princess Coco]

what kind of guy are you attracted to and what kind of guy do you usually attract? you can use pics if you want. @Wednesday Addams

moreover, how many times in your life have you've been rejected and why? are you shy, do you have low self-esteem, what?

also are you the social type of person? do you normally go out and meet new people? my best advice and from what other posters are saying is to move on with your life and talk to another guy you like. the right guy will come on along.

ive been rejected plenty of times but I move on and work on myself.

I don't really have a type.
I attract old men.
I've been rejected three time
I'm extremely shy and I have low self esteem, but I'm working on it.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

The way people deal with rejection is based off the perception in their mind.
You like somebody(crush) and build up all these fantasy traits and ideals of said person(expectations) not truly knowing the person behind the facade which leads to the downward spiral(so to speak).
So next time just treat them as human and not some god/goddess.
True rejection is when you knew somebody on an intimate level and they rejected your whole being.
Some random or friendly crush ain't worth the tears or hurt

 

[全能の神]

The way people deal with rejection is based off the perception in their mind.
You like somebody(crush) and build up all these fantasy traits and ideals of said person(expectations) not truly knowing the person behind the facade which leads to the downward spiral(so to speak).
So next time just treat them as human and not some god/goddess.
True rejection is when you knew somebody on an intimate level and they rejected your whole being.
Some random or friendly crush ain't worth the tears or hurt

best advice in this thread