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Those women were supportive and reaped the benefits. They didn’t demand it and expect it to happen.
Is this what women say before they end up with a white guy?
Brehs, do you think this is having high-standards or just gold-digging?
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Those women were supportive and reaped the benefits. They didn’t demand it and expect it to happen.
Is this what women say before they end up with a white guy?
Fair comment.
But also, I kind of think her being so up front and outwardly adamant about it might be shooting herself in the foot. I know speaking for me personally, I don't need to be told that I HAVE to spoil somebody and do this, that and the third when I haven't even had the chance to determine whether she is WORTH that treatment or what's the best I can give her in my current lot of life. It would turn me off before I could get a chance to be turned on and probably lead to that "Well, since you want this from me, what am I getting from you to where you deserve these things?" line of questioning all over her TL.
To her credit, it would go ahead and weed me out of the picture so I can't be mad at it if I'm not ready, able or willing to give her that. But as others have alluded to ... a lot of times the people worth the best treatment aren't going to demand that of their partners, even if that's what they want or feel they deserve. They'll move in a fashion where the other side is like "He/she deserves the world."
No argument there. That's why I said she's going about it wrong.
Some women don't seem to understand that men actuallly LIKE spoiling women and providing for them....
I bet litterally every woman on TheColi can tell a story of a guy she dated who spoiled them silly without them ever having to demand it or brag it about it.
Men love doing this... its why simps are a thing
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