Brehs… I don’t know how to live without a woman in my life. (NOT SUICIDAL)

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You need to be comfortable being by yourself. Seeking female companionship just to have company is not healthy and will lead you to just entertaining anyone just because. If you've never been alone, you need to allow yourself the time to get acclimated and work out your issues.
 

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Not since I was like 12 breh :francis: always had a girl I was somewhat involved with.

I fr don’t know how to go about my day without a woman attached to me in some way…it feels really hollow breh
this isnt healthy breh. try to be alone. you probably dont even know your true self because of your dependency on relationships.
 

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Not since I was like 12 breh :francis: always had a girl I was somewhat involved with.

I fr don’t know how to go about my day without a woman attached to me in some way…it feels really hollow breh

 
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As a lifelong sucker for love I can only offer this

Of course you feel like something is missing. Living life as a single dude doing hobbies and shyt is pure Hell. Especially if you're forced to observe dudes that do have chicks that are into them. Pisses you off to not have one.

You've had it right so far. Having a woman in your life is on the list of needs. Air is the top need and then water. I don't know what number companionship and human touch cone in. Somewhere after shelter but somewhere before vacations.

I have been sitting on my dikc for half a year just getting more and more agitated.

Just recently met someone and we seem to be getting along really well. And it makes a world of difference. Everyone around me can tell that I seem happier now. A lot. Not just a slight uptick. A total shift.

While I'm at it: she invited me over and jumped in my lap and afterwards she is kicking to me some "I wanna slow down". She doesn't want a fling she wants a relationship. I had already told her that I only date one person at a time so I felt that that meant we were "going together" or whatever you call it.

So then we talked and she's seeming all in again. I am feeling like she is being dramatic. Making it into some obstacle that's not even there.

But this is the nature of a woman. They can't operate in a drama free environment. There has to be some storyline or they will create one. And I am much better equipped to handle her desire for adventure. So remember to try to bake a little mystery and a little struggle into your interactions with women. Keeps em engaged.
 

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It's nice to have female companionship but you shouldn't "NEED" it.

When you single, you should embrace & enjoy it. When I was single I was out with the homeboys, going paintballing, golf, sports games.....etc

When I was single I also enjoyed playing video games, watching sports all hours, watching crap TV. Etc.

It's cool to also have platonic female friends. I got platonic female friends that we go concerts with, movies, dinner with.

Never make the woman you date your "EVERYTHING" or you will snap if she leaves you or cheats on you.
 

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You are going to have to accept this as part of the ras principle of you are alone.

I learned this at a much younger age and had to deal with this reality.
when my girlfriend was killed in an automobile accident.
You will never have that sort of connection with your female mate to committal in general ever again.
If you do i hope you find it but i can tell you from experience.

That ultimately what you are experiencing is what real life IS ABOUT.
PLUS being solid and secure in:

YOU ARE ALONE


ART BARR
 
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