Brehs… I don’t know how to live without a woman in my life. (NOT SUICIDAL)

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Man who raised you fools, coli turning more and more into some loser incel boards.

This is a result of men being raised almost exclusively by women.

 

[Prevail]

Seattle

I'm gonna tell you right now youngblood, both of us being in Seattle - women out here a bit different
- a seattle shorty will make you her plaything with that mentality
Work on yourself with this time
the better you gets better women

dependency in relationships is bad

 

[DreadBrown]

@OnlyOneBoss I’m 33 and I havent been single a single day since I was 14 so I feel you on that aspect

But if you cant be happy by yourself you’ll never be happy

 

[Bmezy]

You don’t like yourself

 

[BlackDiBiase]

bro don't gauge yourself with this hedonistic society we are dwelling in. biologically men are "horny" every 3 weeks its this hedonistic broadcasting and devaluing of morals that's got you thinking you need a soft cuddly for 24/7. you need to step up within yourself control your lower frequencies and step into God body mode. when you are there then search for a woman but till then don't confuse wanting to quench your lust for wanting love.

back in our ancestral days they couldn't give away women to men, you had to provide the man with more incentives like land and oxen to take a broad but the beta bytch european male that allows women to keep us in this lustful heat has you thinking you need that atmosphere no bro, ... just love and light in your life. nothing wrong in searching just don't be obsessive, good luck in your search.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

God said, "It isn't good for man to be alone."

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

First off, don’t listen to some of these wannabe hard, overly stoic, hurt energy, fortress of solitude dudes around here. Some are overcompensating to avoid working thru pain and loneliness themselves.

What you are feeling is high key normal. It’s winter. The holidays. Having someone warm to cuddle up next to is great.

Human companionship is beautiful. Especially when they smell good, make you laugh. Little nuzzles. Massages and peppermint oil.

But at the same time, don’t take your solitude for granted. Ain’t nothing in the world better than metime. But you gotta actually like yourself. You ain’t went through your comic book collection. Or wanted to enjoy a show by yourself. Ever wanted to have a favorite breakfast spot in the city that is just yours. Or go down an internet rabbit hole by yourself. The feel of going into a perfectly untouched, clean apartment after coming back from a trip. Or exploring a city by yourself and meeting new people.
Reading books undisturbed.
To be honest you need time in both states to be able to appreciate the other.

In times of solitude, learn to be your own best friend. In crowded company, learn how to find your own space. Learning to be comfortable in both states without falling apart if you don’t get what you want is a skill you gotta cultivate. Or you’ll drive yourself crazy over nothing.

 

[mag357]

Yea ,... Nah... I can't get behind none of this shyt my guy.

To be honest... Even if you could play it off once you're in a relationship.... The female is gonna sense that you're this type of dude... And you'll be a mark.

So just for your own sanity, and even to make you a better boyfriend once you get into another relationship (which I don't actually suggest).... You really need to get good with being by yourself.
Get good and comfortable with your alone time.

This makes you almost not want to get into any relationship.
And only a super special female would be able to break that feeling. And once you get into the relationship... You'll be stronger as a man, having all these extra things that you can do by yourself, without worrying about her.

 

[Prevail]

First off, don’t listen to some of these wannabe hard, overly stoic, hurt energy, fortress of solitude dudes around here. Some are overcompensating to avoid working thru pain and loneliness themselves.

What you are feeling is high key normal. It’s winter. The holidays. Having someone warm to cuddle up next to is great.

Human companionship is beautiful. Especially when they smell good, make you laugh. Little nuzzles. Massages and peppermint oil.

But at the same time, don’t take your solitude for granted. Ain’t nothing in the world better than metime. But you gotta actually like yourself. You ain’t went through your comic book collection. Or wanted to enjoy a show by yourself. Ever wanted to have a favorite breakfast spot in the city that is just yours. Or go down an internet rabbit hole by yourself. The feel of going into a perfectly untouched, clean apartment after coming back from a trip. Or exploring a city by yourself and meeting new people.
Reading books undisturbed.
To be honest you need time in both states to be able to appreciate the other.

In times of solitude, learn to be your own best friend. In crowded company, learn how to find your own space. Learning to be comfortable in both states without falling apart if you don’t get what you want is a skill you gotta cultivate. Or you’ll drive yourself crazy over nothing.

A man needs to be able to realize himself without a woman.
Dependency on feminine presence is a trap he should avoid - it's not "okay" to be dependent on it.
He doesn't have eggs drying up, he'll be approaching 50 and still be able to start a family - plenty of time for romantic companionship, not a being that should be pressed for it.

It'd be weird if he were in a rush to get cuffed like a female precisely because of his nature, the dependency should be much more absent *naturally*

 

[Peak]

A man needs to be able to realize himself without a woman.
Dependency on feminine presence is a trap he should avoid - it's not "okay" to be dependent on it.
He doesn't have eggs drying up, he'll be approaching 50 and still be able to start a family - plenty of time for romantic companionship, not a being that should be pressed for it.

It'd be weird if he were in a rush to get cuffed like a female precisely because of his nature, the dependency should be much more absent *naturally*

I mean starting a family at that age is one thing, managing sleepless nights, terrible twos and a child's growing pains at 50 plus??? Proceed with extreme caution.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

A man needs to be able to realize himself without a woman.
Dependency on feminine presence is a trap he should avoid - it's not "okay" to be dependent on it.
He doesn't have eggs drying up, he'll be approaching 50 and still be able to start a family - plenty of time for romantic companionship, not a being that should be pressed for it.

It'd be weird if he were in a rush to get cuffed like a female precisely because of his nature, the dependency should be much more absent *naturally*

It’s not just men who shouldn’t be co-dependent. All humans should be comfortable in times of solitude and in their own skin.

However linking reproduction to desire for human companionship is short-sighted. Humans all have a need for social interaction with the opposite sex even beyond reproduction. It’s healthy and normal and shouldn’t be a source of shame.

Anybody falling into any extreme is setting themselves up for disaster. People need to okay with needing others AND relying on themselves.
There’s a balance to be struck between being anti-social and co-dependent that has determines one’s quality of life and ultimate survival.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Thread went the way I thought it would
And nikkas wonder why so many crash test dummies
Walk amongst us
If op is not trolling
The reason you feel this way is tied to something in your childhood
You are looking to recreate that certain instance of heart break or lost
Maybe even being taken advantage of
So you tell yourself that it will never happen again
Not knowing you are just living in a cycle
A woman can’t fix that only you can
And most women out here got demons bigger than a two story house
They aren’t even dealing with
So you will keep bumping into the same people like you
Until you fix your shyt, recognize the signs and become complete within yourself
Nothing is guaranteed in this life
Everything has a life or death cycle
Relationships, jobs, cars, everything
The best you can do is know how to live in your lonely
React to situations and rebound back
Not saying to become sociopathic or completely stoic
But as a man it’s a balance between the two
But you also need outlets to express your feelings in a cathartic way
If you are not a talker
Write, paint, box, become active
Don’t sit in a room reminiscing
Find people (even strangers) to get that shyt out you feel
At the end of it, love yourself, accept the harsh realities of the world(especially for men), navigate and release, teach and keep moving forward
That’s all you can do

 

[You Win Perfect]

Not since I was like 12 breh always had a girl I was somewhat involved with.

I fr don’t know how to go about my day without a woman attached to me in some way…it feels really hollow breh

I felt like that after a 4 year relationship I had but after a year of not dating or really bothering with women in general I was fine. You’ll be ok go travel or something.
Nobody wants to be alone tho so all this learn to be alone stuff is not normal or healthy. Humans are social

 

[The Observer]

Go to a beauty salon and sit there all day bro or join a women club ….You got this bro.

 

[Kingshango]

Just fap.