Brehs… I don’t know how to live without a woman in my life. (NOT SUICIDAL)

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It’s not just men who shouldn’t be co-dependent. All humans should be comfortable in times of solitude and in their own skin.

However linking reproduction to desire for human companionship is short-sighted. Humans all have a need for social interaction with the opposite sex even beyond reproduction. It’s healthy and normal and shouldn’t be a source of shame.

Anybody falling into any extreme is setting themselves up for disaster. People need to okay with needing others AND relying on themselves.
There’s a balance to be struck between being anti-social and co-dependent that has determines one’s quality of life and ultimate survival.

To be an emotionally stable support when a woman is going through emotional turmoil (often due to natural hormonal cycles) is a male function.
Naturally the woman would be more emotionally dependent

Leaving reproduction out, this man is expressing emotional dependence
It's okay for homie to want female companionship, that's normal
but to feel he can't function without it - this isn't normal.

A man isn't afforded the ability to be 'needy' like a woman is and shouldn't find comfort in it
as another poster said, it'd only set him up for failure

OP needs to get to the bottom of why he feels he can't function without a woman, not accept this "need" as apart of his life

You're right in that it's not just men that shouldn't be co-dependent.
My point is that as a man he is in the worst position to be a dependent in any context by traditional gender roles.
A man is supposed to be independent and lead.
 
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Finding out how to be happy by yourself is a very important thing to do.

once you learn how to do that it’ll even help you in future relationships because your approach will be different.
 

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I'm in the same situation and I can't imagine being tied down in a relationship at this stage in my life. It has no advantage for me in any shape, way or form.
 
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I'm the exact opposite of this guy

I Love women

But I hate living with them.

I'd rather live in my own place and see them on occasion

I think OP is on some ..my life is meaningless without a bish .. lol

And if that's true then just.. Jump..fukk it

:manny:.


But..Before you do realize all the other poosey in these streets you've cut yourself off from forever likely over 1 regular bish

Happy Festivus
 
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I really wish men killed that emotional side of themselves and their need for female validation earlier in life. That shyt could save them a lot of time and money. Time being the most important of the two. And with the younger Generation even more so because they programed yall to be that way.
 

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WHY IS THIS SAD TO ALL YALL?

A MAN IS NOT COMPLETE WITOUT A WOMAN

I FEEL FOR OP

This is how men end up being used, disrespected, and in one-sided relationships that doesn’t benefit him.

Women come and go. I don’t know why y’all so adamant about being in a relationship with temporary people. These women are for the highest bidder and nikkas they already have history with.

OP it’ll start off good. once she feels as if she maxed you out… she’s gonna trade it all in for someone else or to be alone to do her own thing.
 

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This is how men end up being used, disrespected, and in one-sided relationships that doesn’t benefit him.

Women come and go. I don’t know why y’all so adamant about being in a relationship with temporary people. These women are for the highest bidder and nikkas they already have history with.

OP it’ll start off good. once she feels as if she maxed you out… she’s gonna trade it all in for someone else or to be alone to do her own thing.


YOU WILL GET USED IF YOU LOVE BEING WITH A WOMAN?

THAT THOUGHT IS ROOTED IN FEAR AND IS WHAT WILL GET YOU USED

WOMEN SHOULD NOT “COME AND GO”

U SHOULD FIND ONE WOMAN U CAN SPEND YOUR LIFE AND GROW A FAMILY WIT
 
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