Brehs, I need some real life relationship advice
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2pac_Westside
SOHH Vet - est. 2002
I have a good job but i visions of being a successful entrepreneur, thats one thing..i'm not saying i can't get that done with her, but thats one thing that has me feeling unaccomplished..if i was already rich and had a lot of bread, then maybe my mind would change
another thing is i'm not sure if i've smashed enough bytches in my life, like somebody else said i got with her pretty young, i was in college still, i also had another girl before her during college..so most of my college years i was in a relationship..maybe if i stayed single in college and smashed mad bytches my mindset would be different right now
no.
girls just wanna have funds
Eh, sounds like you need to be single and work on yourself. If you aren't satisfied with yourself, you're never gonna be satisfied with someone else.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
She's (practically) 32 breh... Can't blame her.
I'm just gonna co-sign on what Taadow and Blankthawtz stated.
I'm just gonna co-sign on what Taadow and Blankthawtz stated.
Let her go. You'll get a new one just like her, or better, later.
She literally told you to your face that she wants to use you to achieve a goal she set out for herself. She pretty much told you you're just a means to an end to her. You want to spend your life with someone who considers you to be a tool?
Curb that noise, and go enjoy yourself.
Let her latch onto some other sucker.
She literally told you to your face that she wants to use you to achieve a goal she set out for herself. She pretty much told you you're just a means to an end to her. You want to spend your life with someone who considers you to be a tool?
Curb that noise, and go enjoy yourself. Let her latch onto some other sucker.
2pac_Westside
SOHH Vet - est. 2002
third....ask yourself....can you live without her?...not on some finance/support shyt..but can you see livin the rest of your life without her?..if you can then u need to move on and live your single life till u find the one u really want....but if u can't see yourself without her then she may be the one u don't want to let get away...and in that case you need to do some serious soul searchin breh....is chasin diff ass every night worth it over her?
i'm bout to marry my fiance.....but i also did a lot shyt in my life...fukked a lot...traveled...got my degrees....and i've reach the point where i know i'm ready to settle...i got my son/fiance/home i'm just solidifying it by wife'n the woman i love.....one thing is certain...no one made my mind up but me....dig deep breh....
thats a good question, i really don't know if i can live without her, i mean time heals all right? i imagine i would eventually be aight, but its hard to say, i guess thats the ultimate question here that i hav to figure out
and props to you for being ready to settle, i honestly dont have that feeling..i got my degree, good job, ive fukked a decent amount but not as much i would like, i haven't traveled much either, especially internationally..i think i would be able to do that with her too though
Don't lose that girl breh you only get so many chances at love brogod
That comment + bottle of hennesy +
= unreliable source of adviceYou might be right
Sekhmet Anubis
Goddess of War
I don't think you should break things off so easily after all you guys were together for 4 and a half years. Why don't you talk to her and tell her how you really feel. If she is a good women, she will understand your indecisiveness on not wanting kids until you are more stable in your career. That is understandable. Hell, me being a woman, I do not want to bring kids into this world, until after I reach my "reasonable" career goals. Also, I feel she,herself,maybe pressured. There all kind of people and media tools telling women they should be married with children at certain ages. And don't forget the mf'ers who probably are constantly in her ear about you not putting a ring on the finger after said years. If you guys can't come to a mutual decision, then maybe you should break it off. And who knows after that. She may come back apologizing and not really want what she demanded from you previously.
2pac_Westside
SOHH Vet - est. 2002
i feel you,i don't blame her either, she was in a long ass relationship before me which didn't go anywhere which has her wanting some type of security, completely understandable
I understand not being ready for kids but why no marriage tho? YALL been together for 4.5 years and no cheating involved, sounds like you love her and she loves you so what's the hold up on marriage?
If you got urges of fukkin other broads then you might as well split now cause that will hurt you and her in the long run once you decide to fufill them urges
If you got urges of fukkin other broads then you might as well split now cause that will hurt you and her in the long run once you decide to fufill them urges
Elle Driver
Veteran
Talk to her first. You don't wanna throw away 4.5 years of a good thing. Suggest that she put it off because you're not sure. Plus technology is advancing, she might as well freeze her eggs.
Damn, she hit you with the old tomato.
You have to break this off. Don't give her the option to leave, BE the one to leave. It will show you are serious.
You love that girl. On the other hand, she is feeling that biological clock. While it is possible you can stick it out and a few years from now
everything is dope, in the meantime, you are both on different wavelengths.
Suppose you tell her you aren't ready for kids but you are down for marraige, and she says "Ok, I am fine with that."
That girl is gonna be stewing, hopping fukking mad on the low that you haven't stepped up to the plate. She will eventually leave, but possibly while
taking your heart with her, cause she will be making up for the days and nights of hurt she felt after you told her the truth.
Leave that girl. It may take her a while, but she will have to find someone else. Or she will run into you down the line and things will pick up again.
Unlike John Cena, your time isn't now.
You have to break this off. Don't give her the option to leave, BE the one to leave. It will show you are serious.
You love that girl. On the other hand, she is feeling that biological clock. While it is possible you can stick it out and a few years from now
everything is dope, in the meantime, you are both on different wavelengths.
Suppose you tell her you aren't ready for kids but you are down for marraige, and she says "Ok, I am fine with that."
That girl is gonna be stewing, hopping fukking mad on the low that you haven't stepped up to the plate. She will eventually leave, but possibly while
taking your heart with her, cause she will be making up for the days and nights of hurt she felt after you told her the truth.
Leave that girl. It may take her a while, but she will have to find someone else. Or she will run into you down the line and things will pick up again.
Unlike John Cena, your time isn't now.
I'm here brehs 
Marriage isn't an inevitable step in everyones lives and relationships. Both people have to be built for that for it to work
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Have you talked about this with her? I think a reasonable person could understand this...
So how many bytches would be enough?
I mean...are you cool with the idea that you peace ya girl out...then you smash enough bytches...then in 2-3 years
you feel different and miss her?