Brehs is having kids overrated?

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I don't want kids anytime soon. I like spending money on myself & doing whatever I please, whenever I please.

 

[Bboystyle]

Breh one day you'll thank me for letting you know as soon I did.

So 15 years from now when you have to perform your mercy killing you can come back and dap my post

not really but ok. I can see where your maturity level is at. Have a good one sir

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

ooooh so its all to do with things revolving around YOU, yeah ill pass n whip big cars n shyt like that.

That's human nature tho. The mAjority of our decisions are based out of selfishness. If you don't wanna have kids- that's fine. But don't critically question those who do.

 

[Vodun]

Not at all. It made me a woman. Made me really buckle down and wanna grind 100x harder. Not only that but Ive gained so much more respect and appreciation for my body, sex, and just life in general. Knowing I was able to carry and give birth to my son and then nourish him for a whole year with my breasts is an amazing feeling. Yes I have less freedom and disposable income but I still enjoy my life very much and I can honestly say I am currently happy.

dat profile picture tho

 

[Yup]

for a woman you really don't have that choice...you will get looked down upon by society

They have a choice. Society can look down on women all they want...we have come a long way from before. People should not be pressuring people who clearluly don't want them.

 

[Jahmal]

32 1/4

I'm 33 and have no kids

 

[Jahmal]

I dont see how people can say that a person not wanting to have kids is selfish when this planet is already overpopulated. Hundreds of Millions of people are starving to death and living in poverty.

 

[Elle Driver]

It's not overrated, it's just not for everybody. I definitely want kids soon.

 

[vicioustalk]

What's ideal age to have kids for those of u who are planning ur life.. When do you want to have kids?

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Kids are only overrated to people who don't want them and those who have no concept of family.

I had my first child in April with my husband and it was the happiest day of my life. There is nothing like holding your child in your arms. We will have a few more children and those children will one day have children.

Years from now my husband and I will reflect on the generations of our family that we raised TOGETHER...this is what matters in the world....not fukking around...not having several children out of wedlock by several different people....not cars, clothes and jewelry.

I personally believe a lot of black folks are going to live to regret their childish immature notions of family when they are 50-60 years old.

That's good for you.






I just wanna ball.

 

[Silkk]

What's ideal age to have kids for those of u who are planning ur life.. When do you want to have kids?

Always said 30. Give me time to live life, travel, have my career on track, and be married. 7 years

 

[Jazzy B.]

Having a child before you're 30 and financially stable

 

[Man On Fire]

True dat

 

[SunZoo]

My kids saved my life.

 

[Bboystyle]

Having a child before you're 30 and financially stable

i had my first kid at 27 and was financially stable. Still am with a second kid as well