Brehs, Pick Between These FOUR Women...

[King Poetic]

I find to notice the women with the " im educated , have my own house, car and career " tend to be the ones on the outside looking in

While the women with limited college and working decent positions be the ones getting snatch up.

The college educated women tend to want to have men that are their pets and part time lovers who obey their wishes

Regular guys honestly don't care about all that as long as u working and being humble in life

 

[Mac Brown]

Only online do men....average Joes at that, not care about degrees. Tis not real life.

You have to understand it is not in a mans nature to look at a woman as a provider. We care more about nuturing/compatibility/sexual chemistry as a whole.

And if men suddenly started caring more about that you would probably give them the side eye.

 

[Gains]

Men of The Coli. I need your honest opinions about this. You guys often say that women don't know what men really want. I'm trying to get an understanding.

Now, I know for a lot of you these situations wouldn't be ideal, but this is if you had NO OTHER CHOICE.







I want to hear from men... Which one of these women is the better choice?



Woman #1:
A 30 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives a decent car.
She is single with 3 kids, by 2 deadbeat men who don't help her.
She's average looking.







Talk to me brehs...

with the money she's making she don't need help

 

[DrDoom]

Easily 2, shows commitment and dedication to her job. Also, easiest Imo to build with situationally

 

[*Angel*]

You have to understand it is not in a mans nature to look at a woman as a provider. We care more about nuturing/compatibility/sexual chemistry as a whole.

And if men suddenly started caring more about that you would probably give them the side eye.

You must be over 30 bc these twenty-something males want women to pay half the bills, making her just as much as a provider as him, but I know what you mean.

 

[Mac Brown]

You must be over 30 bc these twenty-something males want women to pay half the bills, making her just as much as a provider as him, but I know what you mean.

I am. I'm one of the older brehs here. Can't speak for this new breed.

 

[Krazy K]

You must be over 30 bc these twenty-something males want women to pay half the bills, making her just as much as a provider as him, but I know what you mean.

regardless of age type of man wants a woman to be his provider?

 

[Kenny West]

Only online do men....average Joes at that, not care about degrees. Tis not real life.

We act like we Care cause you care

Not even a top 5 factor tbh

 

[KingSlime]

#3. I love my thick mamis

 

[Taadow]

Going with number 2 if I had to pick. but neither in real life

Same here.

 

[Taadow]

Only online do men....average Joes at that, not care about degrees. Tis not real life.

Nope - we really don't care about it that much.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Men of The Coli. I need your honest opinions about this. You guys often say that women don't know what men really want. I'm trying to get an understanding.

Now, I know for a lot of you these situations wouldn't be ideal, but this is if you had NO OTHER CHOICE.







I want to hear from men... Which one of these women is the better choice?



Woman #1:
A 30 year old woman has a masters degree in nursing. She works as a nurse.
She Owns a home. Drives a decent car.
She is single with 3 kids, by 2 deadbeat men who don't help her.
She's average looking.



Woman #2:
A 30 year old woman has not graduated from college, but has a HS diploma.
She has had the same job in customer service for 8 years, and makes about $20 an hour.
She drives a decent car. She has no kids.
She lives with her mom.
shes pretty.



Woman #3:
A 30 year old woman has a bachelors degree in accounting. She usually works seasonally, and is always between jobs.
She has 1 child (a son), and his father contributes. They have a "healthy" relationship.
She rents a two bedroom apartment & drives a decent car.
She's pretty, but slightly overweight.

Woman #4:
A 30 year old woman. She never graduated high school.
Her car is barely running.
She has no kids & Works as a bartender at a strip club. Has no other career plans.
Lives with a roommate.
She's beautiful.




Talk to me brehs...

2 is damn near perfect


Woman #2:
A 30 year old woman has not graduated from college, but has a HS diploma. - she can always go to college so i'm not worried... i also have never gone to college and i make bank... my boss never went and he makes more bank... and we do IT for the government


She has had the same job in customer service for 8 years, and makes about $20 an hour. - stable job... 41k a year.. combined with mine and we making 6 figures as a household. avg us household makes 50


She drives a decent car. She has no kids. - don't need her car, but she got one... but no kids mean she ain't bringing in no bills and shyt


She lives with her mom. - don't care... i got my own spot and when the time comes, she'll move with me


shes pretty. - explains itself

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Only online do men....average Joes at that, not care about degrees. Tis not real life.

that's a complete and total lie you just pulled out of your ass

men don't give a flying fukk.. if you got one we'll ooooo and ahhhh cause it's important to YOU.. but as long as you have a stable job, can support yourself, ain't working at mcdonalds or some shyt.. we really don't give a fukk... on or offline


look around off the internet.. do you see women who haven't gone to college, having a tough time finding men who want to date them?

cause as a man... i know that i have NEVER heard the words "man she was perfect but she didn't have a degree so i cut her off"

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Wow. If I took this to LSA they would be surprised how many of y'all picked 2.


We really don't know what y'all want.

we just want a woman we are attracted to, that we don't HAVE to support, but we can if times get rough... we enjoy the same things.. she's fun and makes you laugh.. doesn't get on your damn nerves.. doesn't let you just push her over. she's smart.. and wants to be something in life and is working towards that


now everyone is going to have their details of what those things are... but i don't think any man is going to say "hell nah i don't want that shyt"



women get too focused on the details. you know you smart right? why would you think you need 3 degrees to hook a man? you know you're not a bum.. you don't need to make 65k and your own house and a nice car to hook a man. he's going to be happy that you have a nice job, you work hard, and you WANT to get your own... shyt that's when he's gonna do the man thing and help you.. you travel and have fun with your girls.. you don't need to bring that shyt up every 5 minutes like we should bow down to you for doing so.

just be your damn self.. stop trying so hard. you're a woman. you know whether you are a piece of shyt or a good woman. if you're a piece of shyt, improve on what you can. if you're a good woman, let it speak for itself, stop trying to be rewarded for it.

 

[*Angel*]

regardless of age type of man wants a woman to be his provider?

Twenty-somethings on The Coli.

They want their women to match their contributions and provide a minimum of 50% financially towards their home. There are multiple threads on this.